"I'm making him wait because he's SPECIAL!"
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Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
Wait. So you nikkas preach that hos should be more cautious about who they fukk, yet talk shyt about a selective female
You can't have it both ways....which is it?
You pretty much reacted exactly how I predicted you would in my last paragraph. 
@Maddmike Also, you completely missed the part where I mentioned she was still having one night stands and lying about it. Way to have good reading comprehension, dumbass.
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Does anyone else find this line absolutely hilarious? My coworker just dropped this one on me because she's dating a guy from OkCupid that she's not feeling that strong of chemistry with but she really likes otherwise. My guess is that she likes what he's like on paper, but can't seem to get those sexual tingles that she usually gets from the guys she gives it up to really easily. She sounds like she knows she should like him, but he lacks the assertiveness and other traits that would make her like him more. On top of that, she's still having one night stands with other guys while she's still trying to figure this guy out.
As an aside, making men wait for sex doesn't make you more attractive and it doesn't make the prospect of a relationship with you more valuable.If sex is the only bargaining chip you have that gets guys to stay with you, holding it out for longer only prolongs the inevitable (you getting left). Men aren't stupid. When you hold out on sex, the first thing men think of is all those men that you gave it up to easily in your earlier days (when you were undoubtedly better looking, anyway) and the slight insult that comes with making him wait.
He's special so you make him wait for what the other guys got with little to no effort? Makes lots of sense.
Now I know that the resident feminists will come in here and go on some rant about slut shaming and how "The Coli" (as if we're all a hive mind that you're the only one brave enough to speak against) all wants virgins for marriage yet are hypocrites for wanting women to give it up on the first date, but I promise you that for the sake of this post, that's not the case. I'm just saying that it's a really dumb dating policy and most men with a triple-digit IQ can see right through it. If you're a thoroughly awesome chick and you are feeling that strong of chemistry, chances are he'll be back. There's nothing that kills sexual chemistry and screams "I'm a control freak" like intrusive rules that disrupt the flow of things like this.
How can it even be considered "dating" without sex?
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I reacted because that's they ONLY honest reply to your paragraph. Why would you ask a question like that, but want to exclude they ONLY logical reply?
Now what if she fukk this guy they are dating? And gets pregnant. What if he was just being a nice guy to get btwn her legs? Then you'll be in here crying about these single mothers are this and that
Which way is it b?
Which way is it b?
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
What logical reply? I didn't say that women should hold out on sex that they wanted to have. In fact, I did quite the opposite. You just assume that the entirety of the Coli thinks the same and act like you're the only brave voice that speaks out against it. I promise you that's not the case. I'm just saying that it's insulting to the men that are supposedly "special" in these women's eyes and it's insulting to them when you give it up really easily to guys that treat her badly and act all alpha in comparison.
Oh wait, that's the only thing you could think of because you really had no arguments against the rest of the post.
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
Now what if she fukk this guy they are dating? And gets pregnant. What if he was just being a nice guy to get btwn her legs? Then you'll be in here crying about these single mothers are this and that
Which way is it b?
Nice straw man argument, bruh. Did your girl make you wait a really long time before she let you beat?
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
This guy is a morally grounded guy, has his own place, job, car, is polite, and has a relatively bright future. He also shares similar tastes with her and has similar goals. He still manages to bore her in other ways, though, and that's why she's not attracted to him.
Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
If she's worth it, I've waited...but believe I fukked some other strange on the side.
Don't think any dude thats not a complete dweeb except a "man of the lord" is going to wait while you "figure things out".
Women need to stop acting like puzzy is their only bargaining chip. Work on making yourself a better person all around and you won't have to worry about a dude bouncing as soon as he smashes.
Don't think any dude thats not a complete dweeb except a "man of the lord" is going to wait while you "figure things out".
Women need to stop acting like puzzy is their only bargaining chip. Work on making yourself a better person all around and you won't have to worry about a dude bouncing as soon as he smashes.
StickStickly
Superstar
Whether you feel that way or not, other people may feel it cheapens a potential relationship if they have sex too soon. Just because you don't feel that way, doesn't mean that it doesn't make perfect sense in someone else's world. 
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
When you say it like that it does sound boring for someone in their 20s.
At that age life want to live life on the edge.
StickStickly
Superstar
That's an entirely different situation than just making him wait. She doesn't like him sexually. She's not sexing because he's special, she's waiting because she's trying to see if her desire towards him will increase if she gets to know him better