Already explained why. You're just anal pained and out of counter arguments.
Honestly, besides your first post, ahven't ready anything all the way, because it's like you choose the most illogical thing to start your arguments with and that puts people into "critical" mode, because once you read illogical/stupid things, it's hard to take anything else said seriously.
- "Exclusivity talks" but still not fukking or in a relationship
- Facebook Official
Why do you think any woman or any man would respect this behavior or talks of this behavior coming from any man? You would guess that guy to be a fool off rip. You think of that as normal or "masculine" behavior.

That should tell you where this guy's train of thought is. There's no logical reasoning behind any of it.
Nothing you have typed makes sense to anyone with COMMON SENSE and who's not mentally a 17 year old girl when it comes to relationships. So what she let's him buy her things! You sound like a chick saying "But we still fukk though!". Yeah, the other person is getting what they want while you get nothing. Do you need any more common sense to be knocked into you to show you how foolish this is? Only a FOOL stays where they aren't getting what they want, in hopes of getting something later.
If someone doesn't want to make it public on social media, even though you want to and have asked, they don't want you! You can think of any leap that you put you into the "maybe they like me" category all you want, but fact is they haven't shown and proven anything. And the only reason you and co-workers know is because she's basically playing the guy out to you all. Not because she's proud to be committed to him or something.

is wrong with you for assuming any other reason than that. Her side hoes relationship with her >>> This nikka's wants. She wants them or whoever. Not him! Other wise she'd be happy to oblige with what makes him happy because she wants him.
You are calling me a simp, but the exact game that I run on chicks and that I've seen chicks run on other dudes, you're falling and making excuses for. Notice how you have all these exceptions that make your situation not like anyone else's. That's exactly what side chicks do when they are trying to rationalize how they are gonna end up in the relationship even though it's not gonna happen. Disney princess complex. Not like the "others". "But he DID buy us food that one time". "He won't claim me on Facebook, but only cause he don't care for social media like that".... just a bunch of excuses to avoid reality.
Your boy is losing, simply because he fails to make this chick face reality. He's gonna let her have everything because he's too scared of reality himself as well. That's what separates the simps and the side chicks. Y'all are happy with a dream. Bet if he said, if we not fukking, then leave, your girl would feel the pressure to face reality and truly evaluate the value of her options. But he also doesn't want the reality of her saying "NO, nikka!" Right now, she has dream land though. Everything she wants. And the nikka is content with it. I don't see the problem/conflict. They both seem happy with the "what if" and "maybe".