I'm not a horrible friend right?

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It seems like some of my friends stops fukking with me simply because I do not want to hang out every day 24/7. OP is a big ass introvert, not in the shy sense, but in the one of who loves being alone. But my friends want to hang all the damn time so it doesn't mix and ends up making me feel shytty for whom I am for some reason. I don't go out because I have my own nice ass man cave in the garage for drinking and watching sports or playing games. My friends want to come over and chill as soon as i wake up till I fall asleep and it annoys me. I tell my friends to never hit me up on Saturdays because I love staying up all night watching toonami. And what do they do? They hit me up every Saturday asking do we want to drink in the garage. Sometimes when I make arrangements to hang with friends I tell them I change my mind because I want to just stay in. And then a lot of times I tell them I'm just not down to hang for the day.

I've got this one friend who I hang out with more than others because he only lives a few blocks away. We are always drinking. But the last few weeks I haven't been wanting to drink and I've been marathoning tv shows so I haven't been down to hang out, for about two weeks?? I've been hitting him up about some shyt, not to even hang out, and he doesn't answer at all.

This isn't the first time that it happened. It actually happens pretty frequently. I hang out with friends, I get tired of doing this every day, so I go on a few weeks of not wanting to hang out and these nikkas basically tell me to fukk off in the ignoring way.

Am I really that shytty?? I didn't know to maintain friendship with your homies you had to talk and hang out with them 247 as grown ass men. I thought you only did that shyt with girlfriends. It's not my fault I love being alone.

Am I really that shytty for friends to stop fukking with me?
 

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It seems like some of my friends stops fukking with me simply because I do not want to hang out every day 24/7. OP is a big ass introvert, not in the shy sense, but in the one of who loves being alone. But my friends want to hang all the damn time so it doesn't mix and ends up making me feel shytty for whom I am for some reason. I don't go out because I have my own nice ass man cave in the garage for drinking and watching sports or playing games. My friends want to come over and chill as soon as i wake up till I fall asleep and it annoys me. I tell my friends to never hit me up on Saturdays because I love staying up all night watching toonami. And what do they do? They hit me up every Saturday asking do we want to drink in the garage. Sometimes when I make arrangements to hang with friends I tell them I change my mind because I want to just stay in. And then a lot of times I tell them I'm just not down to hang for the day.

I've got this one friend who I hang out with more than others because he only lives a few blocks away. We are always drinking. But the last few weeks I haven't been wanting to drink and I've been marathoning tv shows so I haven't been down to hang out, for about two weeks?? I've been hitting him up about some shyt, not to even hang out, and he doesn't answer at all.

This isn't the first time that it happened. It actually happens pretty frequently. I hang out with friends, I get tired of doing this every day, so I go on a few weeks of not wanting to hang out and these nikkas basically tell me to fukk off in the ignoring way.

Am I really that shytty?? I didn't know to maintain friendship with your homies you had to talk and hang out with them 247 as grown ass men. I thought you only did that shyt with girlfriends. It's not my fault I love being alone.

Am I really that shytty for friends to stop fukking with me?

You not dealing with depression or anything?
 
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Nah, sounds like your friends take you not wanting to hang out with them personally. So to get back at you, they ignore you. You should probably explain to them that going out 24/7 isn't your thing and that you enjoy spending most of your time alone. But you also can't make plans and then back out of them last minute, that's a little immature.
 

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You need friends who have something going for themselves. I only see my friends every few months. Maybe a few times a month if that. We still love each other as if we saw each other every day. When we see each other we usually spend weekends together.
 

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Even the KOP needs his time to himself. I'm in a similar situation where I had to tell my closest brehs I'm too busy doing me and trying to get my life in order to hang like I used to. That and I'm older now so my activities and wants of the night life have changed. I'll make time to jungle party with them when I can but for now just give me my space :manny:
 
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