Im Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

She's getting distant because you're smothering her. That's not an attractive quality in a mate, much less a man. Let her breathe. She's seeing your number pop up and a wave of frustration and dread washes over her. I'm telling you as someone who has went through it with a female who would text and call repeatedly to the point that I had to threaten her with legal action before she left me alone, that it's interpreted as obsessive, weirdo behavior. After awhile it comes off as borderline harassment. Not sure how many women you've been with for you to be acting in this manner, but you've got to cut it out and dial it back before you push her too far away...(if you haven't already.) Just take your foot off the gas pedal and relax a little, man.

I feel you.
I've been with handfuls of women.
Its just my current woman plays too much of an important part of my life.
We have a lot of goals we want to achieve that we want each other for.
Every body in my life could be like fukk HIM but as long I got my woman I'd be on some

Its like a drug damn near.
When we don't talk I feel slightly down.
When she sends one message im like

I know, its sad.

 

[Wildin]

Sometimes when Im working I feel like will this really pay off?

then your lacking direction. everyday should seem like 1 step in the right direction

Breh NOT GIVING A fukk is a technique one sometimes have to learn.
We're not all born with it.
Its hard to not give a fukk about my woman cuz I already give a fukk about her.

people think not giving a fukk is easy, not giving a fukk requires as much effort and times as not giving a fukk.

Its like if you call your girl and shes like "Oh shyt, I dont wanna talk to this nikka. fukk it im not gonna answer" Your going to call 10 more times and text 30 more times and leave 5 more voicemails. then eventually at some point yall are going to communicate and spend more time arguing about why she did what she did and what it means, then if she just answered the phone and said "I dont want to/cant talk to you right now" or just started the long convo about why she didnt want to talk to you.

There arent many things in life that you can just not give a fukk about that dont go away. Its like I get my rent check at the first of the month or my electricity bill, I might look at the motherfukker and get pissed and say "I dont give a fukk" Im not going to rush out and break my back trying to give them my money, but i'll do it tomorrow or within 5 days or suffer repercussions which would take longer to resolve (ie, eviction notice or them shutting my power off)

chances are if you dont give a fukk about something and it just fades away then its not really important to begin with. if you dont give a shyt about the gas light or check engine light will that shyt just go away? what about the low battery light on your phone or laptop? what about your job if you dont give a shyt and come in late or leave early or take extended lunches or tell customers off?

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Rationalize being a lazy scumbag brehs.

 

[Dwolf]

Then stop being sick and tired.

 

[old_timer]

Don't just message or phone with no purpose. Aim to spend 6+ hrs/wk with her, like 2x3 hr or 3x2 hr (then bring her home after)

only contact her to set up stuff to do. it doesn't have to be $$$. but make plans for face to face time actually doing something. look at newspaper for list of events if necessary.

not everyone is a phone person. IT gets annoying when people keep calling or message cause they are bored. be the guy who is doing stuff

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Don't just message or phone with no purpose. Aim to spend 6+ hrs/wk with her, like 2x3 hr or 3x2 hr (then bring her home after)

only contact her to set up stuff to do. it doesn't have to be $$$. but make plans for face to face time actually doing something. look at newspaper for list of events if necessary.

not everyone is a phone person. IT gets annoying when people keep calling or message cause they are bored. be the guy who is doing stuff

Damn breh you fukked me up with that one.
I never thought of it like that.
You would assume your significant other would like to hear from you daily.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

DOnt put nobody on your pedestal.Hypothetically if yall break up then what?You lived without a woman before,you can live without one.