I’m sorry but pawgers seem way more happy than brehs that marry brehettes 🫣

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Most of the time bm and bw are on their best behavior when they date/marry out.

A lot of us save the scraps within ourselves for our own people. Also, many men have allowed their hearts to be ruined by women who they should've never given it to the first place. A failure to properly vet and heed red flags, turns into a blame game towards bw as a whole.

When a man marries a woman who shares the same skin color as the woman who disappointed him, it can cause more vitriol, from what I have seen. It seems to be a common misconception among many black people, that life is happier and smoother with a white person. Fairy tales.
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They do look happy. Nice looking family (although the woman’s face looks kind of worn and bland) but the kids are cute.
I don't believe that to be true, in general. There are healthy and unhealthy relationships across the board.

Thing is..

Some people in IR relationships don't trip off of social constructs and do them. However they bond, they build off of that and do what they need to do to in order to make their relationships work. Same can be said about endogamous relationships.

Can't go off of what people post on social media because people aren't gonna tell the whole story. They may highlight the good things that goes on and not the bad.

I believe healthy relationships happen when both people come into the relationship with their hard on straight as well as with good intentions. They don't sweat the small shyt and keep shyt solid like grown ass people supposed to do!

People who come into relationships with hidden agendas, unresolved issues and selfish & narcissistic tendencies are the ones who struggle with relationships which has nothing to do with one's ethnic/racial background.

Happiness or unhappiness always start within...
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What makes you think they’re happier?

Honest question btw

Some men’s idea of happiness differs…. Also in many cases people attract and accept what is of them so as chaotic as their shyt may seem, sometimes, they’re right “at home” if you catch my drift and the toxicity and drama doesn’t fade them much.

On the flip side you have some pawgers that front like everything is rosey. But there is sometimes a dark side. Like dealing with racist/bigot family members, being the only black person in many places/gatherings, white women are naturally the most sexually deviant women on the planet so some have them a white woman that’s a freak behind his back but just so happens to know how to “play wife” when it matters….

Some black women can be demanding, but some white women can have their issues too….Grass ain’t always greener, BUT sometimes it is for the right type of nikka…
Did you see that smile?

That glowing skin?

How isn’t he happy?
 
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Great picture. He was much happier before Lori Harvey :mjpls:
 
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