I'm speechless...

[Marco Zen]

I tried not to laugh

 

[marcuz]

Forget the feminist aspect of it.
That's only going to lead to bashing.

The essence behind her words is that she is struggling to pick herself up and rise out of her situation...and when people tear her down for her past (and perhaps repeated) mistakes, it only makes it tougher.

This is a real issue that a lot of real women in America have, and what is disturbing is that unfortunately there is a large swath of the public (and the coli) whose only response/solution is to belittle and marginalize them.

the real issue is these women dont seem to know how to control what comes in or out of their vagina.

if you're broke and single with 3 kids, why add a 4th?

 

[LimitedEdition]

the real issue is these women dont seem to know how to control what comes in or out of their vagina.

if you're broke and single with 3 kids, why add a 4th?

I thought a part of feminism was being in control of what happens to your body as a female and now allowing people to just abuse/objectify it.

 

[Raava]

First which coli member made this video?

Second

The worst thing about this is after she says all that, she drops the pregnancy bomb. She still hasn't learned from your mistakes. I don't understand. They should have told her the truth.

 

[LimitedEdition]

I spent a sincere 5 minutes trying to figure out exactly what is was she wanted to get out of that exchange other than a hug. All the details were unnecessary. Tell your case worker that stuff. The black community can't help you find your baby daddy or keep them from running away nor plan delicious nutritious meals for your 5 kids. What exactly is it that she wants? Other than applause and hugs from a group that was as speechless as I am.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

I spent a sincere 5 minutes trying to figure out exactly what is was she wanted to get out of that exchange other than a hug. All the details were unnecessary. Tell your case worker that stuff. The black community can't help you find your baby daddy or keep them from running away nor plan delicious nutritious meals for your 5 kids. What exactly is it that she wants? Other than applause and hugs from a group that was as speechless as I am.

Attention
People to feel sorry for her
Campaigning for people not to hold her accountable for her retarded actions

 

[LimitedEdition]

I spent a sincere 5 minutes trying to figure out exactly what is was she wanted to get out of that exchange other than a hug. All the details were unnecessary. Tell your case worker that stuff. The black community can't help you find your baby daddy or keep them from running away nor plan delicious nutritious meals for your 5 kids. What exactly is it that she wants? Other than applause and hugs from a group that was as speechless as I am.

 

[marcuz]

I spent a sincere 5 minutes trying to figure out exactly what is was she wanted to get out of that exchange other than a hug. All the details were unnecessary. Tell your case worker that stuff. The black community can't help you find your baby daddy or keep them from running away nor plan delicious nutritious meals for your 5 kids. What exactly is it that she wants? Other than applause and hugs from a group that was as speechless as I am.

when confronted with the problem face on, nobody acknowledged the elephant in the room. they just hugged her and clapped.

 

[Remote]

Devils advocate says struggling by making the struggle harder? And the feminist approach was to literally coddle her. Oh what a fukked up life you have. Let me hug you. Because this is clearly what you need. And Bell Hooks remained completely silent.

Coddling doesn't help.
But neither does telling her "you're a stupid b*tch, stop having sex".
There needs to be a clearer way to get through to these people, and an explicit plan.
But most people would rather express their dissatisfaction and judgment because that's easier, and has the side benefit of getting a few cheap LOLs.

 

[Abstract83]

I remember tariq nasheed broke this whole thing down in one of his podcasts. That's why I could never understand black feminism at all. All they do is bash men and never hold themselves accountable. It's a black self hate thing. Just complaining about shyt that's all they do. As a black man I'd never date a black feminist. Shyt is just backwards. Instead of holding black women responsible they shift the blame towards the establishment and black men smh. Some of them go after dike women cause they hate black men/themselves so much.

 

[Claudex]

Forget the feminist aspect of it.
That's only going to lead to bashing.

The essence behind her words is that she is struggling to pick herself up and rise out of her situation...and when people tear her down for her past (and perhaps repeated) mistakes, it only makes it tougher.

This is a real issue that a lot of real women in America have, and what is disturbing is that unfortunately there is a large swath of the public (and the coli) whose only response/solution is to belittle and marginalize them.

If I could've repped you again I would breh.
Feminists tend to forget that half of their work ought to be internal sometimes. To help each other out as women just as much as they help each other fight the 'patriarchal' system.

So when situations like these pop up, it all feels very surreal for'em.

 

[Killer Instinct]

Five children. Three different fathers. A reoccurring pattern like that and yeah, you definitely have a type.

Deadbeat.

Chick is/was an idiot.