I'm starting to develop that loser mentality

[O.iatlhawksfan]

I think I need to change my surrounding. I work with a lot of low income urban people and my friends act similar to these people. They have this mentality where they are always looking for something to look down on yu for. Or if they feel like yu doing better than them , than they look for something they don't have that yu do. It's always been The Nola mindset which is why there's so much crime. The root of a lot if crime has to do with jealousy and hate. Lately I've been starting to develop this mindset and I hate it . It's always been the other way around I use to be the one hated on. It might to have to do with me getting rejected by a job I wanted than being rejected by a chick I like. That shyt kinda humbled me

How do I get my juice back??

 

[scarlxrd]

 

[Black]

 

[Couth]

First step to fixing your problem is admitting you have one. You're on the right track.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

My friends are bums . I still have the same friends from high school. They all dropped out of college I'm in my senior year of college. But sometime these classes are so hard I ask myself "maybe I'm not meant to get my degree. All my friends are dumb I'm prolly dumb too"

 

[CinnaSlim]

My friends are bums . I still have the same friends from high school. They all dropped out of college I'm in my senior year of college. But sometime these classes are so hard I ask myself "maybe I'm not meant to get my degree. All my friends are dumb I'm prolly dumb too"

Nonsense, you made it to your senior year. You can do it. I believe in you OP.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Just find new people to be around. Like instead of hanging out with dropouts, find some friends that you go to school with. and stop being so negative.

You'll be fine, you're almost done with school and you'll find a job afterwards.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

Just find new people to be around. Like instead of hanging out with dropouts, find some friends that you go to school with. and stop being so negative.

You'll be fine, you're almost done with school and you'll find a job afterwards.

That sounds good in words but that I'll take an accounting test that I studied 15+ hours for only to get a 55 . That's where it all started that damn accounting class . I studied my ass of in that class and the highest grade I made was a 58 . That's when j started having to soul search again

 

[scarlxrd]

My friends are bums . I still have the same friends from high school. They all dropped out of college I'm in my senior year of college. But sometime these classes are so hard I ask myself "maybe I'm not meant to get my degree. All my friends are dumb I'm prolly dumb too"

nikka, you better finish that shyt. All that damn hard work go down the drain, you're almost at the finish line. You can do it breh.

 

[KingMalik]

I can relate. When I was in DC, I was surrounded by educated people. Kept me motivated. In Philly, I'm brushing shoulders with a lot more grimey nikkas than before. Kinda like back in high school before I left for college. Philly's a very blue collar town, so the element here is different. Also the loser hometown friends I bump into every now and then when in DC I didn't have to see them. They think we suppose to go back to being cool now I'm back in the area as if it wasn't by my design that we haven't spoken in 5 years It's one of the reasons I think about going back to the DMV somedays

 

[Ashley Banks]

That sounds good in words but that I'll take an accounting test that I studied 15+ hours for only to get a 55 . That's where it all started that damn accounting class . I studied my ass of in that class and the highest grade I made was a 58 . That's when j started having to soul search again

Well accounting is hard for most people, you could always take the class again. When I was in my accounting class I didn't understand anything but once I finished it was like everything started to make sense. Maybe it will be the same for you. But you'll be fine everyone has a class they're bad in.

 

[Dwolf]

I think I need to change my surrounding. I work with a lot of low income urban people and my friends act similar to these people. They have this mentality where they are always looking for something to look down on yu for. Or if they feel like yu doing better than them , than they look for something they don't have that yu do. It's always been The Nola mindset which is why there's so much crime. The root of a lot if crime has to do with jealousy and hate. Lately I've been starting to develop this mindset and I hate it . It's always been the other way around I use to be the one hated on. It might to have to do with me getting rejected by a job I wanted than being rejected by a chick I like. That shyt kinda humbled me

How do I get my juice back??

You dont and prob wont ever get it back

Nonsense, you made it to your senior year. You can do it. I believe in you OP.

 

[wet landscapes]

people are really blaming their shortcomings on their friends now?

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

I can relate. When I was in DC, I was surrounded by educated people. Kept me motivated. In Philly, I'm brushing shoulders with a lot more grimey nikkas than before. Kinda like back in high school before I left for college. Philly's a very blue collar town, so the element here is different. Also the loser hometown friends I bump into every now and then when in DC I didn't have to see them. They think we suppose to go back to being cool now I'm back in the area as if it wasn't by my design that we haven't spoken in 5 years It's one of the reasons I think about going back to the DMV somedays

Don't yu hate when yu get to talking to them and be like yu don't have no goals or anything like yu just content with the life ur living?

The bad thing is I can't relate with the nerds at my school I'm too urban looking I have tattoos, I went to a hood school, I have a hood accent.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

Well accounting is hard for most people, you could always take the class again. When I was in my accounting class I didn't understand anything but once I finished it was like everything started to make sense. Maybe it will be the same for you. But you'll be fine everyone has a class they're bad in.

At wat point did it start making sense? I got a D in the last the accounting(intermediate 1) and I have to take intermediate 2 next semester and I'm really nervous