I’m thankful I dated a racist — here’s why

[Pinyapplesuckas]

She didn't have a choice, and now she's assed out because of her parent's mistake in raising her in an environment where no one looked like her. Just how the world works

this. people underestimate how hard it is to find your identity as a black person(esp woman) growing up in a predominately white neighborhood. most likely these families arent militant like coli posters lol.

at this point i dont know who doesnt count as a c00n by coli standards

 

[NoGutsNoGLory]

A lot of bedwenches from Boston, must be something in the water.

Not just Boston the Northeast. NYC and especially Brooklyn is bedwench capital of the world, my GodI literally stare if i see a black couple cuz its so damn rare

 

[Guile]

she's reformed, huh

glad they out here exposing themselves.

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

Not sure why all the hatred and bitterness around this subject. Women aren't your property and they do not owe you or anyone with your skin color what they have in between their legs or heart.

I know her being a black woman throws a wrench (or wench ) in all of this but she raises some fair points.

In all honesty, there are probably more than a few people who have had a similar experience, especially those who grew up around a lot of white folks or those who stuck out for any reason whatsoever.

I find it difficult to believe that a forum full of anime and wrestling lovers never experienced some cultural disillusionment during their formative years (which is really the heart of her topic). I also see the amount of latina, asian, and mixed girl promotion around here and I can't really believe in the *outrage* y'all claim to feel.

If this was all jokes, cool, I'd laugh to. But some of y'all acting like the fate of our culture and skin color rest in black women not *dating out* or whatever nonsense.

Many bedwenches are just transparent thots. Hard to be taken seriously as wifey when that thot is oozing out their pores

This joint made me laugh because of...truth.

A lot of chicks who pull this "I'm so different" game are disguised hos, same as these bohemian and artistic girls. Pretty funny to watch how hard they go in order to appeal to white folks and appear *different*.

 

[Luna]

She used to see black men as less than her. How does it help us as black people to crusade for women who saw our men as inferior?

You never know what type of circumstance breeds inferiority complexes. The point is that she supposedly changed. We're going to have to agree to disagree, but eternally stigmatizing people for their mistakes doesn't help anyone's cause. Sometimes it's better to let go of emotions and think of what is rational/beneficial.

and im telling you it's still current c00ns in our community who aren't dealth with so your point makes absolutely no sense.
"pro blacks" at no point have ever been as hard on c00ns as white racists are on their own. blacks at no point enacted violence and rigourous shaming tactics on people who dated out. you're just making up shyt to look intelligent.

I'm not speaking of current c00ns, though. I'm speaking of people who have seen the errors of their ways and want to redeem themselves.

It's also not a matter of being easy on them. It's a strategy to gain as much people as the movement can possibly get.

 

[miranda]

what?

So now we're exiling black dudes who've ever dated/fukked white girls but want to settle down black and black girls who have ever fukked/dated white men but want to settle down black?

or latinas

not exiling them, we just dont want to "settle down" with them because we know they are actually settling for us and prefer other races

 

[Draje]

Shouldn't need a wake up call, and if she did, well she's assed out as a black woman anyway unless she can find her an uncle Tom nikka. Don't be a nikka growing up in an all white area brehs/brehettes

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/what-was-your-first-nikka-wake-up-call-like.211853/page-5

So you think every person in this topic should be assed out because they needed a wake up call?

I swear, the Coli doesn't know how much power it has. Maybe it's because I had my eyes opened from some info the Coli introduced me to or maybe it's because the rest of society never allows us the opportunity to grow from mistakes but chicks (Or a dude like this) doesn't seem like the kind of person that has to be excluded.

When black people want to be woke, why push them away?

She used to see black men as less than her. How does it help us as black people to crusade for women who saw our men as inferior?

Yeah, due to subtle indoctrination of white supremacy that she wasn't knowledgeable or old enough to defend against.

White supremacy is one of the most powerful forces on the planet and has caused untold amounts of damage to black psyche. It's how it persists and continues so I'm not gonna blast her for being a victim of it and then learning it was a weapon used to make us hate ourselves.

Black people been killing each other because we've been taught to dehumanize our brothers and sisters. It's a symptom of white supremacy. They do this to kill, improson, and take our young brothers before they can reach their potential and fight against the status who.

 

[ℒℴѵℯJay ELECTUA]

Many bedwenches are just transparent thots. Hard to be taken seriously as wifey when that thot is oozing out their pores

says the man who is married to and have a slow spasticated son with..

 

[Prince Mongo]

You never know what type of circumstance breeds inferiority complexes. The point is that she supposedly changed. We're going to have to agree to disagree, but eternally stigmatizing people for their mistakes doesn't help anyone's cause. Sometimes it's better to let go of emotions and think of what is rational/beneficial.

The bolded's true. I completely fail to see what benefit your speaking of. People changing doesn't mean shyt to me. Certain things you can't change. Like a hoe can't just stop fukking plenty of nikkas and all of a sudden not be a hoe anymore

 

[Citi Trends]

I'm not speaking of current c00ns, though. I'm speaking of people who have seen the errors of their ways and want to redeem themselves.

It's also not a matter of being easy on them. It's a strategy to gain as much people as the movement can possibly get.

what part of black people dont even punish current c00ns so the notion that we are hard on former c00ns is preposterous can you not seem to comprehend?

also no movement is anything with numbers if it's a bunch weak, self-hating stragglers who just had nothing else to do. that is not a strategy at all.

 

[Draje]

what?



or latinas

not exiling them, we just dont want to "settle down" with them because we know they are actually settling for us and prefer other races

My past is why you won't open up your PMs to me so I can send you a pic

 

[Mowgli]

says the man who is married to and have a slow spasticated son with..

Those are your genes though.

If it wasn't for men like me your ethnic group wouldn't even exist.

 

[Poitier]

Women aren't your property and they do not owe you or anyone with your skin color what they have in between their legs or heart.

We don't owe them an opportunity to date us either if we see swirling as a DQ

 

[Draje]

what part of black people dont even punish current c00ns so the notion that we are hard on former c00ns is preposterous can you not seem to comprehend?

also no movement is anything with numbers if it's a bunch weak, self-hating stragglers who just had nothing else to do. that is not a strategy at all.

Breh, numbers matter the most. Numbers and unity. You know why gay people have companies and such at the thought of getting that bullseye put on them? Because they will unify and bombard enemies to their "movement" in a multitude of ways.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

@Luna you black?