I’m thankful I dated a racist — here’s why

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So her first boyfriend ever was a racist white dude and she built a belief system around this guy? Whatever works for her but the first black girl I dated was annoying and had a horrible attitude...I attributed that to her being a gemini after noticing every gemini I came across was bipolar... She went on to go silent on me, get married a few months later, then divorced 6 yrs later after 3 kids. She called me to talk during the separation and explained how her husband hates "black things" and they just couldn't get along....I laughed and asked how she didn't know that from the start since he was a country white dude from Michigan that loved rock/country music/camping/hunting. There's certain signs that make it obvious where my fellow white people stand on things even if they spend 2 years appearing to be different from the stereotype.
 

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No shyt dumb ass. I don't care about the bytch being raised around all crackers. I've already explained what I'm finna say, her parents fukked up by raising her in an all white neighborhood. They gave her a handicap in building relationships with people of her of kind. Folks parents' make mistakes all the time that impairs their decision-making skills as adults. Her dating crackers is a result of her parents' mistake of raising her where they did: just like a girl becoming a hoe is most likely the result of abuse or neglect nikkas shouldn't need a fukking "wake up call" the shyt that's supposed to "wake" you up is in front of your face everyday. Are you even black yourself and do you live in a majority black area?
I am Black. MANY posters can vouch for that. They've seen me. Are YOU Black?

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I gotta go against the majority in this thread. She saw the light, she loves black men now, she desires to build a future with a Black male soulmate, she understand how she was brainwashed to reject Black men and now rejects the past version of herself who didn't like Black men and I'm supposed to reject her whyyy? She's basically reformed. Why do we reject those who become woke again?

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Someone INTELLIGENTLY explain this to me. Seriously....

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She literally broke up with dude because of how he felt about BLACK MEN and issues regarding Black men, specifically Mike Brown and Trayvon. It's not like she broke up with him because he was anti-Black woman.
If someone told you they were a reformed kleptomaniac you wouldn't give them the :mjpls: when they came to your house?
 

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So her first boyfriend ever was a racist white dude and she built a belief system around this guy? Whatever works for her but the first black girl I dated was annoying and had a horrible attitude...I attributed that to her being a gemini after noticing every gemini I came across was bipolar... She went on to go silent on me, get married a few months later, then divorced 6 yrs later after 3 kids. She called me to talk during the separation and explained how her husband hates "black things" and they just couldn't get along....I laughed and asked how she didn't know that from the start since he was a country white dude from Michigan that loved rock/country music/camping/hunting. There's certain signs that make it obvious where my fellow white people stand on things even if they spend 2 years appearing to be different from the stereotype.
There was "conscious" black woman on youtube back in the day. Who married a white man, had a child by him and everything. Eventual she went on to find out that that she actually hated white people. Lol She had a video where she said she was laying in the bed next to him and she was disgusted with him, said he smelled like white dogs.
But she was cool tho. She divorced dude and was hardcore advocating for black love on her youtube. I wish I could remember her name tho. So I could if her videos were still up.

Anyways i wonder how many black women marry white men because of their white skin only to find out they dont have anything in common. I think it probably happens alot.
 

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There was "conscious" black woman on youtube back in the day. Who married a white man, had a child by him and everything. Eventual she went on to find out that that she actually hated white people. Lol She had a video where she said she was laying in the bed next to him and she was disgusted with him, said he smelled like white dogs.
But she was cool tho. She divorced dude and was hardcore advocating for black love on her youtube. I wish I could remember her name tho. So I could if her videos were still up.

Anyways i wonder how many black women marry white men because of their white skin only to find out they dont have anything in common. I think it probably happens alot.
The chick I dated didn't go that far. She's actually marrying a black dude this year and I'm just happy that she's happy. Couldn't care less cause I already know that our personalities meshed terribly. Most of the black chicks that seek out strictly white dudes seem to go for the first white dude that looks like a cowboy or soap opera actor. Their whole relationship from the start is based on outside appearances rather than the person as a whole.

Part of what the chick I was talking about attracted her to him was that he was "more mature". I was 22, she was 23, he was 33...She explained this to me when we spoke during her separation and why she went with him instead of sticking with me. We're both in our 30's during the convo so it was funny cause I asked how she expected a 22 yr old to act like a 33 yr old divorced man with 2 kids already....She couldn't explain why in a logical way. I'm a white dude that only really dates black or hispanic girls but it's only because I'm hard headed. Every white chick I've messed with or dated loved to go silent when something was bothering them. Then later, they blow up over some simple shyt and I'm standing there like what's this about? I never have that problem with the black/hispanic chicks. They let me know from the minute it happens when I did something stupid. And the problem is solved then/there.
 
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There was "conscious" black woman on youtube back in the day. Who married a white man, had a child by him and everything. Eventual she went on to find out that that she actually hated white people. Lol She had a video where she said she was laying in the bed next to him and she was disgusted with him, said he smelled like white dogs.
But she was cool tho. She divorced dude and was hardcore advocating for black love on her youtube. I wish I could remember her name tho. So I could if her videos were still up.

Anyways i wonder how many black women marry white men because of their white skin only to find out they dont have anything in common. I think it probably happens alot.

Soncerae???

But yeah this happens all the damn time. They just in it for the tan skinned children - That's it!!!!

The chick I dated didn't go that far. She's actually marrying a black dude this year and I'm just happy that she's happy. Couldn't care less cause I already know that our personalities meshed terribly. Most of the black chicks that seek out strictly white dudes seem to go for the first white dude that looks like a cowboy or soap opera actor. Their whole relationship from the start is based on outside appearances rather than the person as a whole.

Part of what the chick I was talking about attracted her to him was that he was "more mature". I was 22, she was 23, he was 33...She explained this to me when we spoke during her separation and why she went with him instead of sticking with me. We're both in our 30's during the convo so it was funny cause I asked how she expected a 22 yr old to act like a 33 yr old divorced man with 2 kids already....She couldn't explain why in a logical way. I'm a white dude that only really dates black or hispanic girls but it's only because I'm hard headed. Every white chick I've messed with or dated loved to go silent when something was bothering them. Then later, they blow up over some simple shyt and I'm standing there like what's this about? I never have that problem with the black/hispanic chicks. They let me know from the minute it happens when I did something stupid. And the problem is solved then/there.

You'll have the same problem brothers have. The reality is you need to date other nationalities. American Men as a whole do. There's only so much time alloted before BW start giving you tude just like they give us.
 

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Soncerae???

But yeah this happens all the damn time. They just in it for the tan skinned children - That's it!!!!



You'll have the same problem brothers have. The reality is you need to date other nationalities. American Men as a whole do. There's only so much time alloted before BW start giving you tude just like they give us.
Oh, I know that. I was in Belgium for 2 years and amazed at how great the European women of all nationalities were. The mix of what's happening in America is toxic on nearly every level for man/woman/child/family. Everybody thinks there's something better on the horizon in this country so nobody let's their significant other breathe any sort of comfort in where they're at.
 

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There was "conscious" black woman on youtube back in the day. Who married a white man, had a child by him and everything. Eventual she went on to find out that that she actually hated white people. Lol She had a video where she said she was laying in the bed next to him and she was disgusted with him, said he smelled like white dogs.
But she was cool tho. She divorced dude and was hardcore advocating for black love on her youtube. I wish I could remember her name tho. So I could if her videos were still up.

Anyways i wonder how many black women marry white men because of their white skin only to find out they dont have anything in common. I think it probably happens alot.
Man I need that link.lol
 

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:manny: Seems like a reasonable point of view to me
A small percentage of Black people commit violent crimes. And an even tinier percentage of those Black people commit those violent crimes against White people. But if White people wanna be scared, than that isn't my resposinility to unscare them. I'll try to use their fear of me to my advantage.

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