I'm tired of being lied to. For real.

[Fiji Water]

same with sugar on spaghetti

U musta reacted retardedly in the past for them to hide shyt from u. I'm wit the family on this one

Nikka say what they lying to you about or you about to find out if I'm lying or not about these negs

Sounds like you need therapy breh

The therapy ain't the issue. I got that lane through God and counsel. I'm just speaking on the issue. It ain't dominating my life or anything.

I'm being lied to about very personal things like the cause of my mother's death, money, and other dry snitching type stuff. And this ain't the board for all that.

My point is I don't want to be lied to anymore and that requires cutting off certain folk. I don't exactly want to do that so I'm venting for armor or alternatives.

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

I'm gonna be honest breh. This is an issue a Coli breh cannot help you with.

Seek professional help. Like a therapist.

 

[Uncouth Savage]

I am so serious.
It all depends on your personality.
I do not conduct myself in such a way that folks would be scared or cautious.
There is a way to speak with authority, to make others know you not taking no shyt.

You could tell me you related to Beyonce. Instead of first thinking you a fukkin liar.
My first thought would be, "of course it is possible"

That was my point. Instead of automatically thinking you full of shyt.
I would give the benefit of the doubt.

Now I am practicing to automatically in my mind be like "YOU LIAR, YOU FUKKIN LIAR"

I have too many stories of being hurt and afterwards saying "I did not think they would do that"

 

[Hater Eraser]

I am so serious.
It all depends on your personality.
I do not conduct myself in such a way that folks would be scared or cautious.
There is a way to speak with authority, to make others know you not taking no shyt.

You could tell me you related to Beyonce. Instead of first thinking you a fukkin liar.
My first thought would be, "of course it is possible"

That was my point. Instead of automatically thinking you full of shyt.
I would give the benefit of the doubt.

Now I am practicing to automatically in my mind be like "YOU LIAR, YOU FUKKIN LIAR"

 

[Uncouth Savage]

I am the person that someone would look in their phonebook, and call to con.
Their dog needs to go to the hospital. But they really at the casino.

them -"yeah not doing too well....the dog ate my homework and dinner...got sick and seems half dead"
me - "that is so sad...sorry to hear that...do you need money to go to the hospital for surgery"?

wife - "I am staying late after work"

Yes she might be staying late after work. Or she could be "FUKKIN LIAR. LIAR LIAR LIAR"

It is more of a existential philosophical conundrum.

It is not always accurate as with my wife. Yet it should be assumed that most people are lying.

Why?
Self ALWAYS comes first.

 

[Fiji Water]

I am the person that someone would look in their phonebook, and call to con.
Their dog needs to go to the hospital. But they really at the casino.

them -"yeah not doing too well....the dog ate my homework and dinner...got sick and seems half dead"
me - "that is so sad...sorry to hear that...do you need money to go to the hospital for surgery"?

wife - "I am staying late after work"

Yes she might be staying late after work. Or she could be "FUKKIN LIAR. LIAR LIAR LIAR"

It is more of a existential philosophical conundrum.

It is not always accurate as with my wife. Yet it should be assumed that most people are lying.

Why?
Self ALWAYS comes first.

I mean gbt try this approach in a modified form. It's a little cynical for me but it might help me find a new way to cope with certain persons in my life.

On a another note, I get frustrated because some of these falsehoods mess with my day to day operations. And if they had just been honest from jump, things might have been better even if they were struggles.

 

[Uncouth Savage]

I mean gbt try this approach in a modified form. It's a little cynical for me but it might help me find a new way to cope with certain persons in my life.

On a another note, I get frustrated because some of these falsehoods mess with my day to day operations. And if they had just been honest from jump, things might have been better even if they were struggles.

Are you the type that cannot be depended on to keep a secret?

Like say someone a friend or family did some grimy shyt.
You the type to keep it a secret or blast it to the world?

Sometimes it is just that you cannot be depended on for fukry.
Relationships are built on secrets and lies.

For example with women.
You will get WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY more p*ssy if you are known to keep secrets.

If you consider that you engaged in some kind of warfare, whether small or big with EVERYONE.
Then life can be much better.

Issue is with the folks who are not playing games and lying.
They suffer cause nothing they say can convince you of their sincerity.

 

[maxamusa]

OP that says more about you then an anything

 

[Fiji Water]

Are you the type that cannot be depended on to keep a secret?

Like say someone a friend or family did some grimy shyt.
You the type to keep it a secret or blast it to the world?

Sometimes it is just that you cannot be depended on for fukry.
Relationships are built on secrets and lies.

For example with women.
You will get WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY more p*ssy if you are known to keep secrets.

If you consider that you engaged in some kind of warfare, whether small or big with EVERYONE.
Then life can be much better.

Issue is with the folks who are not playing games and lying.
They suffer cause nothing they say can convince you of their sincerity.

Nah, my source of "we can't tell you shyt" ain't based in any mistrust, from my POV. I do air shyt out, but it's to the party that expressed it. That's my category.

But! Yes, I am war ready, again categorically, and I reserve the right to act on knowledge even if people don't understand why.

So when I distill all that, it's like... Why tell me anything? Go out one's way to lie instead of saying nothing.

If I don't need to know the truth, why do I need to know a lie? And to add insult to injury... The actual violation... Tell me the truth later? Like, let me just be ignorant then. The fukk? Feel me?

 

[Fiji Water]

OP that says more about you then an anything

What does it say about me, tho?

 

[Uncouth Savage]

Nah, my source of "we can't tell you shyt" ain't based in any mistrust, from my POV. I do air shyt out, but it's to the party that expressed it. That's my category.

But! Yes, I am war ready, again categorically, and I reserve the right to act on knowledge even if people don't understand why.

So when I distill all that, it's like... Why tell me anything? Go out one's way to lie instead of saying nothing.

If I don't need to know the truth, why do I need to know a lie? And to add insult to injury... The actual violation... Tell me the truth later? Like, let me just be ignorant then. The fukk? Feel me?

There are formulas for dealing with people.
Psychological formulas.
For example with animals, the rattlesnake hisses. The dog/bear/lion growls.

If you viewed as meek and mild, or non threatening. You will be treated as such by bad people.
And treated well by good people.

That is the problem that needs solution.

Do you need to change?

If you in prison you have to conduct yourself like a prisoner.

One main thing I figured out later in life, that I knew not all throughout.
MOST FOLKS DO NOT LIKE EACH OTHER.
Whether they at dinner tables, church, groups etc

People have issues with each other. And many times you are unaware.
Just keep that in mind.

 

[Van Cleef]

seek help

 

[Charlie Hustle]

You know what I'm tired of? I am tired of @ThrobbingHood constantly staying up my butt. also if they are lying to you tell them how you feel and let them know that you would prefer the truth.

@ThrobbingHood Your Harlem pass has been suspended.

 

[maxamusa]

What does it say about me, tho?

You weren't specific enough for me to gauge accurately. but if everyone is your lyfe is lying to you its for a reason.


I usually only "lie" or with hold truth from people her are either untrustworthy or I don't have respect for.

 

[Fiji Water]

You weren't specific enough for me to gauge accurately. but if everyone is your lyfe is lying to you its for a reason.


I usually only "lie" or with hold truth from people her are either untrustworthy or I don't have respect for.

I didn't say everyone. I said I don't like the lie or the liars.

My life kinda dope ngl