Imagine falling in love with somebody who doesn’t care about you at all

[TheOptimisticCynikal]

if it feels good to me to be in love with someone i dont think it matters if they feel the same
too many people live their life according to feedback from others, matching energy instead of being true to themselves
i just gotta do me and i'm def a sucker for love

Be careful with this.

I understand the whole 'Imma just be true to my feelings' ting but 1) you don't wanna become a bother or a creep to the person you feeling for if they don't return that energy
2) you're gonna really beat yourself up later when you get tired of them not returning your feelings even in the slightest

 

[ridge]

My friend put it in a way that really has helped me in the past

"Love is simply the chemical hormones in your body recognizing someone it feel is the best candidate to reproduce with. A purely biological phenomenon. Don't beat yourself up too much"

I was like word

Lol because humans aren’t complex intelligent emotional beings..it’s just chemicals


Sounds like some corny tough guy shyt

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I vaguely remember this feeling


Like @Swirv said, got my heart broke and I didn't want it to happen again, I cut my heart out.


I will never love a woman the way I did as a youngster.

I know too much now.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Be careful with this.

I understand the whole 'Imma just be true to my feelings' ting but 1) you don't wanna become a bother or a creep to the person you feeling for if they don't return that energy
2) you're gonna really beat yourself up later when you get tired of them not returning your feelings even in the slightest

2) i mean.... i said i'm a sucker for love, not that i'm dumb in general. i can tell if a person loves me or not. i just joked with my lover the other day "its going to hurt so bad when you break my heart" lol. i be knowin
may as well enjoy the high while it lasts, not everybody actually gets to enjoy being in love. when i can't hang anymore then i'll go from there.
funny part is nine times out of ten, if he did act like he loved me too it would probably scare me away
1) as far as being a nuisance, nah i never really initiate anything because im so busy. so if he happen to experience my fawning over him, it was definitely his choice to be there.

 

[PL368Z]

My friend put it in a way that really has helped me in the past

"Love is simply the chemical hormones in your body recognizing someone it feel is the best candidate to reproduce with. A purely biological phenomenon. Don't beat yourself up too much"

I was like word

Sounds like something a dry dikk incel would say.

Your friend seems to be coping quite hard.

 

[TheOptimisticCynikal]

Lol because humans aren’t complex intelligent emotional beings..it’s just chemicals


Sounds like some corny tough guy shyt

I can understand you seeing it like that.

But at the time it really helped. What they don't tell you about that 'feelings' shyt (don't like to use the word 'love') is that when it catches you, it'll really put you in an emotional suplex.

I remember laughing at my boys that would be so caught up and letting whole females ruin their day not understanding it in the slightest thinking 'Bro... Just stop caring

And then it happened and I understood what all those R&B songs was talking about.

That completely helpless feeling. The utter submission with zero care about anything else.
I was like 'fukk that '

Made the necessary adjustments as soon as I recognized what was going on and kept it pushing



No human should be able to have that power over another. I see why nikkas do life sentences over p*ssy.

 

[OnlyOneBoss]

I’ve been there I know a lot more brehs have too but their pride probably won’t let them admit to themselves and especially not others.


After going through that shyt myself I completely understand why some nikkas kill themselves over women…you won’t get it until you’ve been in situation like that frfr my 2 cents

 

[TheOptimisticCynikal]

Sounds like something a dry dikk incel would say.

Your friend seems to be coping quite hard.

He's actually one of my boys that's in the more functional relationship. Like, real mature adult stuff, especially considering where we live a lot of manwhores are produced. I'm sure you've seen the infamous Eddie Murphy stand up bit

But for what he actually said, I took it more so as it's a human thing. Don't over complicate it

2) i mean.... i said i'm a sucker for love, not that i'm dumb in general. i can tell if a person loves me or not. i just joked with my lover the other day "its going to hurt so bad when you break my heart" lol. i be knowin
may as well enjoy the high while it lasts, not everybody actually gets to enjoy being in love. when i can't hang anymore then i'll go from there.
funny part is nine times out of ten, if he did act like he loved me too it would probably scare me away
1) as far as being a nuisance, nah i never really initiate anything because im so busy. so if he happen to experience my fawning over him, it was definitely his choice to be there.

Ohhhh. I assumed you were a breh. Man. I can understand that more now. Y'all have more opportunities to have success at that love and feelings stuff than dudes I think. Worst case scenario y'all fear is being used for sex. What I was saying definitely applies more for dudes.

That whole unrequited love thing doesn't seem as sweet when it's the man

Definitely not in 2021. Women these days quick to hit you with that creepy/stalker tag

 

[FlexPavilion]

if it feels good to me to be in love with someone i dont think it matters if they feel the same
too many people live their life according to feedback from others, matching energy instead of being true to themselves
i just gotta do me and i'm def a sucker for love

Real shyt...

I don't pout when the feeling ain't mutual. I keep it moving. I'm always thankful for the privilege they gave me to have those strong feelings.

 

[cyndaquil]

You've just described the relationship between stans and celebrities

Gucci loved all his fans fukk boi

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Real shyt...

I don't pout when the feeling ain't mutual. I keep it moving. I'm always thankful for the privilege they gave me to have those strong feelings.

fr.... it's like how can i hold it against him that he doesn't blow my phone up all day when just the thought of kissing him makes me smile all day
the intrinsic value in being true to your natural feelings is worth more than whatever value comes from letting pride take the wheel. a lot of these too proud to show love people still seem angry and sad either way lol maybe if they let the love flow a lil bit

 

[L2014]

Feels so good

Loving somebody

& somebody loves you back

 

[FlexPavilion]

fr.... it's like how can i hold it against him that he doesn't blow my phone up all day when just the thought of kissing him makes me smile all day
the intrinsic value in being true to your natural feelings is worth more than whatever value comes from letting pride take the wheel. a lot of these too proud to show love people still seem angry and sad either way lol maybe if they let the love flow a lil bit

Those prideful people don't realize that love is a force. It doesn't always come back to you from the person you want it to at the exact moment you want it to. Eventually it will if you respect love for what it is and you're not all bitter/jaded

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

@CouldntBeMeTho

 

[semicko82]

@CouldntBeMeTho