In 2016: a chick that can't cook, can't keep a man?

[Mister_DoItNice]

I can't take a woman who can't cook seriously. Especially since I'm 29 now. That was acceptable about a decade ago but not anymore. Before anyone jumps to conclusions I can cook just fine. My mother first taught me back when I was 12 and I've been steadily improving since. I don't NEED a woman to cook for me.

 

[End Cruelty]

Eat out.

But there is a big difference between not knowing how to cook, and not knowing how to toast some damn bread.

Breh I've had chicks i was digging not know how to make pancakes. That's a red flag. Lol.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

He mentions it every chance he gets.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You can learn to cook. It's not that big of a deal. If he is unwilling to cook. That is a different story.

 

[End Cruelty]

I had to teach a single mom how to cook after fukking her. Made her show me the results too

lol. Story, please. What did you make her cook? Did you go hard like Pai Me did Beatrix Kiddo?

Im 28. I've had every flavor.

I found a brand of vanilla I like and she donated to Hidden Colors 4.

 

[wickedsm]

these threads always amuse me

 

[End Cruelty]

He mentions it every chance he gets.

round 2, trollop?

 

[MercuryHayes]

Im no chef but i got basic 3 course meals down. My mom always threw down so maybe how you were raised plays a part in it. If Im with someone who isnt willing to lead in cooking though it does make me look at her differently. Especially when the things brought to the table can't make me completely bypass that.

Especially when other women from the past or currently exist talk about how much they want to cook for me

Or if your "bad" qualities stick out too much and add to the fire. I just want effort.

 

[EA]

If she's great in every other way, then it's a minor since she can learn how to cook from my mum. If she's not willing to learn how to cook though

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Meh, the modern couple eats out or brings dinner in. Cooking a full meal everyday is like going to the gym everyday. It's hard work. I'm thinking of hitting McDonald's right now. If a girl brings me McDonald's fries or organic gummy bears I know she loves me.

TBH, there's levels to cooking. Some people consider canned or frozen products just as bad as using a microwave. I view a microwave as a tool like anything else in a kitchen. there's some great frozen foods out there. Also, most sandwich shops use microwaves. They're fancy but they're basically big ass microwaves. They call them ovens with a microwave option but let's keep it real here. What kind of oven can reheat a Philly Cheese Steak in 2 minutes and also cook a pound of bacon is 5 minutes.

I've used a lot of ovens and I've never seen an oven that can do that.

 

[Scientific Playa]

Double life wife- play with the man that's livin' with you
Here's the issue... A woman gotta be stunnin'
Get to a man's heart through his stomach
You gotta be skilled in the culinary arts
Know a brother stay mad hungry when he spark
Hit the museum, maybe Central Park, you mentally smart
Picture we in Tiffany, you becomin' my counterpart
If I want Chinese then you buy me a wok
If you want barbeque I call Professor and Ak
'Cuz u... point out my enemies, someone who's into me
But not a hyper chick- someone with the proper energy
A girl that's into me who won't fukk all my enemies
And you could be the one 'cuz I'm lovin' ya energy

 

[The ADD]

Women can't keep man for an assortment of reasons. This is just one.

That said dudes spend time with chick with worse transgressions than a lack of cooking.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

My husband is a cook so what do I need to cook for?

I take care of him in so many other ways.

 

[lowkey0z]

facts, at least help cook with me or some shyt, bytches living off of $5 popeyes boxes, triflin'

 

[End Cruelty]

Meh, the modern couple eats out or brings dinner in. Cooking a full meal everyday is like going to the gym everyday. It's hard work. I'm thinking of hitting McDonald's right now. If a girl brings me McDonald's fries or organic gummy bears I know she loves me.

TBH, there's levels to cooking. Some people consider canned or frozen products just as bad as using a microwave. I view a microwave as a tool like anything else in a kitchen. there's some great frozen foods out there. Also, most sandwich shops use microwaves. They're fancy but they're basically big ass microwaves. They call them ovens with a microwave option but let's keep it real here. What kind of oven can reheat a Philly Cheese Steak in 2 minutes and also cook a pound of bacon is 5 minutes.

I've used a lot of ovens and I've never seen an oven that can do that.

You ain't lying! I'm vegetarian so I understand the time that goes into food preparation even for a decent salad. I'm not even saying she has to cook for me everyday. Hell, I got female friends that can't cook. I just don't see myself with a woman that can't and won't cook. Like, processed foods and food deserts are serious pitfalls financially and nutritionally. If my partner can't recognize that then I can't call her my partner.

Also, it's the attention to detail that I want. When I eat her alfredo, curry, etc...its HER food. Unless y'all got a chef, you should share cooking. And me cooking from scratch vs a frozen pizza ain't gonna cut it in the long run. And that attention and specificity with food often reflects who a person is. But to each his own.

at the oven shyt. Lol.