In 2022 does The Coli still care about women’s body counts?

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It’s 2022 and this is still a hot topic on the coli. What’s even funnier is that a lot of nikkas on this site admittedly get no p*ssy but claim to care about this shyt
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These women don’t tell the truth about this shyt. Unless they aren’t ashamed of it. For all y’all know this chick y’all feeling could tell y’all she been with four dudes. Y’all all happy and shyt not knowing she really been with 40
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Breh I dont want to disrespect your situation, but this is rich coming from you and with your experience.
 

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the fact that these women have high body counts is the dead giveaway that men don't really care about women having high body counts, that number is used as an escape hatch when those women start asking inconvenient questions like "what are we" to clarify the status of the relationship.

In short, it's only a problem for men that lie to women to have sex with them by leading them to believe the relationship will grow into something more than sex. Men that establish very clear and transparent terms up front could care less about how many men a woman has had sex with.

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Let them learn the hard way, thats more chase wifeable women for cats like me.

I say this as someone who LOVES HOES, shyt Im a whoremonger, hoes make great casual company in a variety of ways. BUT, all the psychological shyt that led her to being a promiscuous woman will eventually bubble the fukk over.

Very (very) few women who sleep around a lot are not without mental problems before or during that phase.
I know exactly what you mean. The chick I was probably closest to tying the knot with had a body count of like 30s. But she told me about it upfront, didn’t really feel good about it and told me her story and I understood cause her sex appeal was outta this world and she liked to do it.

But one thing about it, she absolutely could not control herself drunk. Like she’ll do some wild spontaneous ass forgot who she came with shyt. Never on me but sometimes when we were out her cousins/people told me I gotta watch her. She told a story of how that’s gotten her raped before and it all comes together for me with her other lil mental quirks.
 

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You don't really ask directly "how many have you been with" it usually is given away in conversation or when the question of dating history is asked.
If shes been single for like 3 years and she said she met a lot of different people and had relationships that "weren't that serious" if her friends mention inside jokes that involve guys, those sort of things eventually reveal what kind of past she had without it being blatant. If there are a lot of dudes on her social media too.

There are red flags that can give you an idea of what kind of person you're talking to. You're either cool with it or you know its not something you can deal with and you call things off respectfully with no emotion.
Yes I know all this. I done seen it all over my 40 years dealing with these women. I’ve cheated. Been cheated on. Ran game. Had game run on me. I know how this shyt works. You can tell early on dealing with a chick what category you gonna put them in and you move accordingly. Either way none of this tells you what her body count is which is the premise of this thread. shyt sounds young
 

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Breh I dont want to disrespect your situation, but this is rich coming from you and with your experience.
My situation can’t be disrespected becuz I’m in a happy healthy relationship. Are you referring to the woman who I’ve been divorced from for almost five years? The one who didn’t have that much experience with men and still ended up cheating seven years into our marriage? Or maybe she did and just lied about it. Either way that’s life. You win some and lose some
 

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This. I like fukking. Women like fukking too. If she clean and we get along, and has a good head on her shoulders I’m good. Character and body count is not a 1:1 thing. Very conservative thinking

A woman fukking random men within 1 hour of meeting is VERY low character. A woman who has been in stable relationships is much more acceptable.
 

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the fact that these women have high body counts is the dead giveaway that men don't really care about women having high body counts, that number is used as an escape hatch when those women start asking inconvenient questions like "what are we" to clarify the status of the relationship.

In short, it's only a problem for men that lie to women to have sex with them by leading them to believe the relationship will grow into something more than sex. Men that establish very clear and transparent terms up front could care less about how many men a woman has had sex with.

:manny:

Simp babble.
 

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Yes I know all this. I done seen it all over my 40 years dealing with these women. I’ve cheated. Been cheated on. Ran game. Had game run on me. I know how this shyt works. You can tell early on dealing with a chick what category you gonna put them in and you move accordingly. Either way none of this tells you what her body count is which is the premise of this thread. shyt sounds young
I didn't want to take shots at the OP but yea, my initial thought was "how old must you to be" to be asking childish shyt like this? A lot of women aren't going to disclose how many people they've been with and there's no secret code to figuring it out. Just have to be as good a judge of character as possible and like you said, move accordingly. Because the flags, if any, will reveal themselves. I assume most of us have had to learn lmao. Yall fooling yourselves thinking women are out here being chaste.
 
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