In sort of a dilemma

[Carter G. Hoodson]

Say for instance, you messed up your relationship with your girl/fiance and she just stops speaking to you. No communication even with 2 little boys. You tried to make it right no matter what, but the shyt you did was just too much to handle. Over time, some wounds heal so now you both are on speaking terms. Your absolute intentions are to make things work hoping to get back together. And she doesn't promise you nothing but say come to church with her and give your life over to god. You have your own personal feelings about organize religion. Do you swallow your pride and go through with it in hopes of getting back your family or you stand your ground and say fukk that church shyt? You don't know whether or not saying no could hurt your chances of getting back together....

What would you do?

 

[Ashley Banks]

If I wanted to get back with him, I would do what he wanted me to do. Especially If I'm the one that messed up the relationship.

 

[The BasedFather]

Listen here, tell that b*tch that you won't be going to church because you're a real azz niqqa that doesn't f*ck with that sh*t. Tell her that this is her last chance to get back with you or she'll be missing out.

Get your pimp hand strong my dude. Raise that hand and put some sense into her.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Fight for my family and deal with whatever L that comes with it.

 

[god shamgod]

I'd say fukk that church shyt.She will own you if you do that

Tell her you willing to do anything but that if she says no then bounce

 

[Cory MBA]

If you messed up, sometimes you have to show some growth in order to regain trust or a relationship.

Everyone makes mistakes but you have to show some sort of change.

Edit: IF you want the relationship....

 

[Rawtid]

I think you should go to church and see how you feel about it. If you go and you feel it's a legit church and you can see yourself attending on the regular, that's fine but don't be strong armed into believing just to get her back. You'll do yourself and her a disservice.

 

[Cory MBA]

I think you should go to church and see how you feel about it. If you go and you feel it's a legit church and you can see yourself attending on the regular, that's fine but don't be strong armed into believing just to get her back. You'll do yourself and her a disservice.

He doesn't have to convert. Being willing to yield a little in this area will demonstrate effort. She likely knows how he feels about religion already. He won't have to continue going.

At this point, words are not going to get the job done.

He can be proud and alone or yield a little and get his girl and kids.

 

[Rawtid]

He doesn't have to convert. Being willing to yield a little in this area will demonstrate effort. She likely knows how he feels about religion already. He won't have to continue going.

At this point, words are not going to get the job done.

He can be proud and alone or yield a little and get his girl and kids.

She told him to "give his life over to God"...that sounds like she wants him to convert to me. A change or new found interest in Religion should not be taken lightly. I think forcing religion onto someone is the worse thing that can happen.

I think he should go, put any ideals he has about church/religion aside and have an open mind and be very honest with her about the experience.

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

Yea, go to church. Don't give yourself to God.

Show her your taking it seriously by going. Flip it on her and tell her that giving yourself to God to get back with her would be making a mockery of the religion.

 

[Cory MBA]

She told him to "give his life over to God"...that sounds like she wants him to convert to me. A change or new found interest in Religion should not be taken lightly. I think forcing religion onto someone is the worse thing that can happen.

I think he should go, put any ideals he has about church/religion aside and have an open mind and be very honest with her about the experience.

Yea, go to church. Don't give yourself to God.

Show her your taking it seriously by going. Flip it on her and tell her that giving yourself to God to get back with her would be making a mockery of the religion.

Agreed. Religion is not a game to be played with or taken lightly.

I didn't interpret the initial post as a demand for forced conversion.

 

[H@LLOW]

Just pretend you are now a man of god and keep it moving.

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

I don't know, it just sounds like some sucker shyt to me. I'll swallow my pride and make the effort tho.

Thanks