In the Black Community A Peaceful, Feminine, Submissive Woman is Considered WEAK.

[number21]

Then you should stop believing your lying eyes because words have meaning:

sub·mis·sive
/səbˈmisiv/

adjective
ready to conform to the authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive.
"a submissive, almost sheeplike people"

To submit means to yield to someone's authority. Which means fukk what you want to do, you better do what I told you to do. Which is why despite everyone hating morning commutes, we get our asses up and sit in traffic to get to work on time. It's also why even though we despise evening commutes, we leave when they tell us to leave, not when we want to leave.

I figured you were on some "if you ain't your boss, you're not doing it right" routine. You got it breh. Have a good one.

 

[PL368Z]

Negative Nancy at it again, give it a rest dude.

 

[Yas]

I don’t think this is true at all, in my surroundings we were taught that men are the head of the household. You should really speak for yourself and no woman should follow the lead of a man that will lead her to down fall.

 

[Gloxina]

So true. My ex gf was unusually feminine and soft spoken for a black woman especially one from up north. I would always compliment her on it but she absolutely hated it. She felt it made her look weak and that no one took her serious.

I remember an older woman once called me “meek”, and I really didn’t know how to take it.

Most women start off soft if they come from healthy, protective environments — suburbs, countryside, protective parents and extended family, healthy community, etc.

How many of our Black neighborhoods in the US are really like this? That’s where it starts.

Most black women aren’t growing up in environments that have women being taken care of. When you grow up watching dad, uncle, big bro, etc taking a wife and taking care of the family you go find a man who is going to take care of you.

The girls who have that example go find those men, and the men who had that example are ready to provide by 30/mid-30s because they were raised to be industrious from grade school/high school (the guys who were getting great grades and serious about school from like 3rd grade because their parents were on top of them since birth).

This is a CULTURAL problem.

Soft women come from environments and cultures that protect women and girls. When every Black boy in grade school knows he needs to be ready to provide for a wife when he is a man one day, you will see families rushing to marry their daughters off as soon as they finish HS or college.

There are Black folks who have traditional values and continue to get this thing right each generation, but MOST black men and women have fallen way off that track.

Soft women are not encouraged or protected by this community, that’s why there are so few. Those are the girls who get called shy or stuck up or “boughie”. Most of y’all don’t like those girls until you run through everyone else and decide you want a nice girl.

 

[Pull Up the Roots]

You have 10 pages of created threads and they're all whiny bullshyt like this.

 

[Gloxina]

You know what else? High powered men retire their wives and try to keep them out of the workplace. They know how toxic it is and how it destroys women.

But they are ok with having YOUR wife or girlfriend working for them and as a bonus they can fukk her too. They also know you can’t afford to keep her home, how tired she is from having to work and take care of things at home, etc.

But our country is ok with sacrificing women and ultimately families so the business owners can bank.

 

[HarlemHottie]

He said women were made to be submissive and follow men. He also believes women should be barefoot and pregnant. There's nothing modern about his way of thinking. That's what I was responding to

No, you said its not "strong" to do what you're already "supposed" to be doing.

Have you looked around lately? Our whole society is actively supporting, encouraging, and incentivizing ppl to not simply discard the supposed- to- do's, but to aggressively censure those who don't.

So, no, youre wrong. The same way it takes a strong man to deny the allure of ever-jiggling, albeit surgically-enhanced, buttcheeks and remain monogamous for life, it takes a strong woman to deny the allure of the apple and go sit her ass down somewhere under somebody else's instruction.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I figured you were on some "if you ain't your boss, you're not doing it right" routine. You got it breh. Have a good one.

People who believe that typically have never owned a business. I have my own consulting company and I still have to submit to my clients. If they tell me the project starts August 15 and I need to be onsite at 8AM, I have to submit to their will and do what they told me to do.

 

[Sex Luthor]

No, you said its not "strong" to do what you're already "supposed" to be doing.

Have you looked around lately? Our whole society is actively supporting, encouraging, and incentivizing ppl to not simply discard the supposed- to- do's, but to aggressively censure those who don't.

So, no, youre wrong. The same way it takes a strong man to deny the allure of ever-jiggling, albeit surgically-enhanced, buttcheeks and remain monogamous for life, it takes a strong woman to deny the allure of the apple and go sit her ass down somewhere under somebody else's instruction.

You're applying what I said to something I wasn't talking about. I'm not talking about temptation or natural instinct. We have the ability to choose our own actions in life.

Look at it like a river. If I go with the current it takes very little strength. If I decide to swim up stream it takes all the strength I can muster to make it work. Same goes for our decisions to either go with traditional social standards or to modernize our way of thinking the roles of men and women in a relationship

 

[Hazel Brown]

OP is obsessed with black women but he is sexually frustrated because the black women he despises do not want him sexually and the white women he prefers do not want him sexually either. A loser stuck between a rock and a hard place. That’s why he keeps making back to back threads shytting on black women.

OP and society in general ignore and act like quiet/shy/nerdy/submissive black women do not exist because they are too busy doing what quiet people do to be noticed.. being quiet.

Therefore in OP’s not well travelled existence, he genuinely thinks all black women act like the city girls. Meanwhile he’d probably ignore the quiet black girl that goes to book club on a Friday night because her ass and/or skin colour is not to his liking.

OP instead puts white women on a pedestal- by implying that white women are the answer to all black men’s prayers. The problem is this is all theoretical. Because in practice, OP still remains extremely unsuccessful with pulling the group of women that he spends his life uplifting.

What an embarrassment.

 

[HarlemHottie]

That doesn't make sense bc if "women are made to be a support and follow the man" how is it being strong if they're doing what they're "supposed" to do according to what you just said? That's the definition of submissive dumbass

You're applying what I said to something I wasn't talking about. I'm not talking about temptation or natural instinct. We have the ability to choose our own actions in life.

Look at it like a river. If I go with the current it takes very little strength. If I decide to swim up stream it takes all the strength I can muster to make it work. Same goes for our decisions to either go with traditional social standards or to modernize our way of thinking the roles of men and women in a relationship

Again, no. I'm responding to exactly you what you said.

To your river analogy, *mj uh yeah*, and Im going against the stream. According to your own metric, what does that make me/ us? Strong. Its super easy to be a hyena rn.

 

[The Fade]

Hostile environments nurture masculine and hostile personas. They basically can’t turn being super saiyan off because we as a people are still catching hits at all ends. And instead of taking it like other minorities, we choose our autonomy. I kind of don’t blame our women for acting like that. It is an adaption to the environment

You can’t control people directly but you can shape who they are environmentally. If we want a better cooperative community we have to shape the environment and system for it at all ends. You sell the idea of a music room, to get people to buy not only the house, but the piano. You sell the idea of a man cave to get men to buy consoles and PC’s. You sell the idea of a dining room to get women to buy useless China Cabinets.

Lobbying, legislation and stop taking IMF loans and a new type of black person never seen before will be realized. We have to create our own Matrix instead of being on everyone else’s rhythm.

Seen a black streamer sympathized with cops talking about “well them dealing with the hood makes them sociopathic and want to hurt black people and makes them ready to draw”… as if that doesn’t happen to regular black people.. the square gets a gun for protection then one day ends up in prison because of many factors stemming from him trying to survive. The poverty and the hood environment TURNS EVERYONE AGAINST EACH OTHER.

 

[Sex Luthor]

Again, no. I'm responding to exactly you what you said.

To your river analogy, *mj uh yeah*, and Im going against the stream. According to your own metric, what does that make me/ us? Strong. Its super easy to be a hyena rn.

Did you read any of the post before that one that I was responding to? Even the person I was talking to finally understood what he said was stupid.

In the last post you were talking about big booty bytches and shyt and that has absolutely nothing to do what I was talking about.

 

[Hazel Brown]

Liberal negro babble. Yes, I believe in "barefoot and pregnant" because the woman was made to be a support and to follow after the man.

With how naturally narcissistic women are, for one to humble themselves to be submissive to man takes a lot of strength. That goes extra for one today with all the media, women, and goofy men like you encouraging them otherwise.

That power and go-getter couple bullshyt liberal nikkas like you believe in only works in TV breh.

Agreed but submission also requires vulnerability because it takes trust. The ones that keep announcing that women need to be submissive to them aren’t getting shyt.

Women for the most part will naturally submit to a man she loves, admires and respects regardless of her race. No announcements need to be made.

But in 2022, these men are talking about they want 50/50 and for the women to do the same things as them and still submit to them.

In 2022, how many men are even competent enough to lead a relationship/household for women to submit to?

They want the privilege and none of the responsibility that comes with it.

Look at the BS OP keeps spouting in every one of his threads. You think a father in his right mind is gonna give his daughter to that? You think any woman is gonna respect him? Or submit to him?

 

[Peachstate]

I remember an older woman once called me “meek”, and I really didn’t know how to take it.

Most women start off soft if they come from healthy, protective environments — suburbs, countryside, protective parents and extended family, healthy community, etc.

How many of our Black neighborhoods in the US are really like this? That’s where it starts.

Most black women aren’t growing up in environments that have women being taken care of. When you grow up watching dad, uncle, big bro, etc taking a wife and taking care of the family you go find a man who is going to take care of you.

The girls who have that example go find those men, and the men who had that example are ready to provide by 30/mid-30s because they were raised to be industrious from grade school/high school (the guys who were getting great grades and serious about school from like 3rd grade because their parents were on top of them since birth).

This is a CULTURAL problem.

Soft women come from environments and cultures that protect women and girls. When every Black boy in grade school knows he needs to be ready to provide for a wife when he is a man one day, you will see families rushing to marry their daughters off as soon as they finish HS or college.

There are Black folks who have traditional values and continue to get this thing right each generation, but MOST black men and women have fallen way off that track.

Soft women are not encouraged or protected by this community, that’s why there are so few. Those are the girls who get called shy or stuck up or “boughie”. Most of y’all don’t like those girls until you run through everyone else and decide you want a nice girl.

Facts on facts on facts.