In your dating/relationship history, what valuable lessons have you learned?

[Mr210]

never fall in love. your only real power in a relationship is the power to walk away. the person that cares the least will always win and the other person has to always know that at the drop of a dime you will walk if you feel its necessary. people in love usually are unwilling to walk away.

you can't ever fix a relationship because relationships don't break they evolve. either you accept what the relationship has evolved into or you walk away but you can't turn it back into what it once was.

its better to walk away from a relationship you've made a fatal mistake in than to try to recover from it. start something new with someone new and do it right from the beginning and keep it on the right path.

never compromise, never change who you are for the sake of another, never feel obligated to do anything you don't want to do. if the person can't accept you for who you are walk away. compromise is just a sign of incompatibility. if they want you to change then they don't really want you they want a person they can create.

avoid relationships at all cost. they really aren't worth the hassle.

I disagree w/ the second and 3rd paragraph

 

[FU_PAYME]

The most important part is the beginning. You will find the answers to all your questions, but only if you choose to be attentive, pay close attention and ask the right things.

- Study her family history, her upbringing, current relationship with her parents, goals and expectations, as well as her dating/relationship history. Those things can provide you with a clear picture of things to come.

- Do not fall for the person she has the potential to become in the future. Some people have no desire to strive to become any better than who/what they are now.

- Do not try to mold her into the person you've always wanted. Even if successful, it's usually only a matter of time before she reverts back to the person she used to be.

- Always be at your best, mentally and physically, and expect the same in return.

- Temptations will always be around, so learn to focus on the things you want in the long run.

- As a serial hunter, one of the biggest lessons I've had to learn is the following:
Cheating does not mean you don't love the person you're with. It simply means that you love yourself more than what you share with that person.

Thank me later

 

[CHILLL]

Let the person you're dating show their true colors on their own. Dont project a personality on to them based off assumptions.

If they're acting like a dumbass, dont try to create excuses to change that fact.
If they acting like a stand up person, dont try and take resentment from past relationships to turn their behavior into a negative.

Observe and proceed objectively.

this is a fukking gem

 

[CHILLL]

IF you feeling a female LET HER KNOW STOP BEING SO GOD DAMN SCARED cuz if you dont u could live that WHAT IF MOMENT and find out she was just waiting on you the whole time

if you have a girl and she come out naked and your boys are over and she dont give a fukk YOU SHARE THAT GIRL or YOU BOUT TO SHARE THAT GIRL

hahaha

 

[3rdWorld]

Get the p*ssy first before anything..

 

[Yup]

If a pretty woman has been single for a while, it's for a reason and that reason isn't always because she chooses to be single.

If someone complains to you about their current significant other and hopes of being with you, don't make the mistake of doing getting with them because it's only a matter of time that you become the complaint.

Mainstream social networking should be taboo in a relationship

The grass is never greener on the other side, it only looks that way because you are spending to much time admiring another lawn when you should wonder how to provide growth to the one you are currently standing on.

Yes lawd jesus

 

[wishbone]

In 2012, you have to go hard in the paint. Be a man and let your fukking nuts hang. I'd rather be feared than loved.

Gentle(men) aka Gentlebrehs, lend me your ears for just a moment. From my experience dealing with women, YOU have ALREADY met the NEXT man that is going to be in your girls' guts. The ether burns, I know..... but he has been here all along.

You've met him, most likely dapped him up, maybe even given him a ride, or let him borrow that PS3 game. His name is saved under Tammy in your girls phone, they text at midnight after she tells you " I'm too tired for sex tonight boo". Don't dismiss the lame male friends either brehs. Don't ignore, investigate. Beep Beep, Tammy texting again.......

Cut her off and move on. A woman who cheats, loses respect for the man who waits for her, ready to take her back with open arms. Have some dignity brehs.

Just sayin...