i'll never forget what my great grandma(RIP) told me as a youngin, because i never thought i'd hear this from a woman's mouth EVER!!!
now remember my great grannie grew up and lived all her life on a farm, and in times where the woman was responsible for the house duties and the man brought home the bacon. she only lived a short period in the city, but the things she saw ,living with my aunt(RIP),she did not approve of at all
she basically said: my boy, i've observed the modern woman and she cannot do shyt when it comes to 'keeping a house'. you cannot rely on any of them and i will teach you how to cook,clean and iron a shirt!!!
great grannie had a nikka like

she, along with my mom, taught me everything.
long story short - i don't need my woman for all of that, i can do it on my own.
my current girl though is a great cook!!!

RIP to great grannie!!!