Incel argues with ex (gets emotional)

[Wildhundreds]

Social media is DESTROYING y'all. Arguing over a video, amongst other petty shyt.

Get professional help.

 

[Wildhundreds]

This how some of yall argue on the internet.

I've had several of posters suggest to me that meanings of words change within casual conversations.

 

[Paper Boi]

old

 

[CarmelBarbie]

doesnt necessarily mean you both have the exact same scenario. No one even knows the full back story for these people relationship lmao and a lot more could have transpired that would void whateverever "relation" you have to this scenario

I didn’t say we had the same exact scenario. I said I’ve been in her position with an over emotional male who wouldn’t let me talk, kept going on and on about his feelings and I remembered having the same reaction/attitude as her.

It’s possible to relate to a situation even if it isn’t exactly the same situation or the dynamics may differ a bit. It’s weird that you take issue with me relating to that situation. Let it go.

 

[lespaulultra3]

I remember this dude. He was an original member of the TFL group. It was him, Kent, and the oreo dude that would sing about not getting p*ssy.

 

[Brandsdale]

I didn’t say we had the same exact scenario. I said I’ve been in her position with an over emotional male who wouldn’t let me talk, kept going on and on about his feelings and I remembered having the same reaction/attitude as her.

It’s possible to relate to a situation even if it isn’t exactly the same situation or the dynamics may differ a bit. It’s weird that you take issue with me relating to that situation. Let it go.

negro please

just pointing out something that doesnt necessarily make sense

 

[Brandsdale]

exactly, just say weirdo/lame/crazy lol. Dudes be tryna hit algorithms like they getting paid to post

lol acting like its a gawtdamn Vice article

 

[LadyJ2]

Men like this are soooooo draining and it is hard to break up with them because they threaten to kill themselves, call your momma and beg her to talk to you, stalk you, etc. just a damn nuisance.

Ugh.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Loser sh-t... but she sound like she often has a bad attitude

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I’ve been in this woman’s position lol. I know why she sounds so nonchalant too. I’m dead. When an emotional man who love you more than you love him is upset with you it can be a bit much. I would only get a few words out, while listening to his overemotional speech that would just go on and on and on. Usually I tuned out and got on my computer. he always noticed. “Are you still there? Your not saying anything!” But everytime I would talk he would cut me off or get even more emotional. it just annoyed me. The thing is ,when it happens often enough you just stop giving a fukk. I can tell that this wasn’t her first time having this kind of call with him.

Yeah I hope you get cheated on . Women are ungrateful

 

[Crayola Coyote]

You think he's getting regular sex with that woman?

Fed up with her leading him on

 

[rabbid]

Nah. It’s fine and healthy for men and women to show emotion. It’s not okay to abuse people with your emotions. It’s not okay if women did that to you. It ain’t okay that he’s doing it to someone else.
Having a conversation and healthy communication needs to be normalized. We all get frustrated but we need to learn to control ourselves. I could see if it was one vent. But just wanting another party to listen to you scream at them while you determined to not let them talk is just a big ole waste of time.

Of course its not okay.. but we don't live in a perfect world and we are all flawed people. I'm just gonna keep it real with you, when I was younger I dealt with women with addictions, troubled homes, and abusive sexual pasts. I'm not gonna sit here and tell those women to learn to behave like I'm their daddy.

If I love them at that time, I'm prepared for some fukkery. Ideally yes, we would all sit here and behave like its a UN council meeting. But that's not really how love works and I've only ever heard this type of stuff on the internet where we can't verify how fukked up we all are. Even a therapist will ask you what are you willing to deal with. But that's my perspective, I've had to calm women down before and I've also been guilty of snapping at women. So I'm not gonna act holier than thou.

edit: this scene from Euphoria hits close to home. I've definitely had to sit there and show a girl I'm not her enemy.

 

[TMBlue]

What accent is that.

Baltimore accent

 

[CarmelBarbie]

negro please

just pointing out something that doesnt necessarily make sense

Look, me saying what I said and relating to her situation doesn’t have to make sense to you.



@Booksnrain

You see this weird exchange taking place? Brehs be focusing on the smallest shyt lol.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

This was aspects of me a few years back minus the cursing

I feel for breh

Just upgrade to a PAWG and be merry