Bottom line is that many people of color engage in these damaging mental gymnastics in order to convince themselves, and others, that their preferences of white women or men is the exclusive fault of women or men who look like them, and not a reflection on themselves.
Of course these men and women arent a product of conditioning by the dominant class, which has prescribed great qualities on being "white", and negative qualities on being "colored" for centuries...of course the people arent guilty of conformation bias w/ respect to upholding narratives by white people....No. These ideas are actually true! But only for the other gender of which that person is a member of...the other stuff racist whites say about THEIR gender is definitely NOT true.
Did you hear the turbulent and schizoid music in the background when the young man was talking that nonsense. Methinks that is a perfect match for the inner discomfort he feels in trying to convince himself of his own bullsht. At the end of the day, he is insulting himself.
Why not just say that you prefer white women or men because you just like them more? Why do many IR daters feel compelled to attack women or men of color incessantly?
lol @ the hypersexualization of white women by non white men somehow being white women's fault. Black and Brown men have and will always be obbsessed with white women, not matter how many "white supremacist" conspiracy theories you want to trot out about white standards of beauty.
"Treating white women like objects is the fault of white women!"





