Indifference Is Like The Cheat Code To Attracting Women

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I think it depends on the woman. I'll give what I get. But I am also a out of sight, out of mind kinda person so if you are not cemented in my life and you're flighty I'll probably just forget about you.

I've had this had quite a few times with men where they try to play it too cool and then I just lose interest.
 

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I think it depends on the woman. I'll give what I get. But I am also a out of sight, out of mind kinda person so if you are not cemented in my life and you're flighty I'll probably just forget about you.

I've had this had quite a few times with men where they try to play it too cool and then I just lose interest.
but these dudes were trying to play it cool. They weren't being genuine
 

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but these dudes were trying to play it cool. They weren't being genuine
Once you adopt the "I can take you or leave you" mindset it's no longer playing a role it becomes a lifestyle. Lately I've been next to some amazing looking women and I haven't given a fukk about saying anything to them that would get me laid.

I allow them to initiate a conversation or there won't be a conversation and it's not because I'm shy it's because I truly don't give a fukk. I acknowledge their beauty but I also see myself as being more valuable than they are and see myself as the prize (It also helps if you're in a relationship and don't need the headache that comes with cheating).
 

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The less fukks you give the less control people have control over you.

That's not just limited to dating either.

When people know they have something you want like that promotion, money, or in this case p*ssy when dealing with women they can control you to a degree. They can control you and attempt to get you to do what they want you to do.

Once you take that power away from them their control over you ceases and even in some situations the odds may tip even in your favor.
 

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Not necessarily to my face , but I for a fact behind my back.

"Homie you don't get no hoes"

that's not the same thing as being called gay or suspect...
i'm probably breaking an unspoken code around here for saying this: but you can be a man and live a fulfilling and prosperous life without being promiscuous and slanging dikk all around your city. :gucci:
 

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The less fukks you give the less control people have control over you.

That's not just limited to dating either.

When people know they have something you want like that promotion, money, or in this case p*ssy when dealing with women they can control you to a degree. They can control you and attempt to get you to do what they want you to do.

Once you take that power away from them their control over you ceases and even in some situations the odds may tip even in your favor.
Yep. The person who gives less fukks in the relationship is the one who has the most power. Same goes in business, whoever is willing to walk away from the deal and mean it is the one that has the most power.

That's how value works. If a woman believes that you need her and that what you have to offer can easily be attained by her on the market from someone else most likely she'll abuse that power that she has over you by making you do things to keep her happy or she'll threaten to leave.

It's simple psychology that's innately embedded in our mind. A pretty woman with a big ass and big titties is most likely in the drivers seat in most of her relationships unless the dude has more money than her or looks better than her because of percieved matket value.
 

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The real cheat code is just being yourself - if you looking for relationships.
And if you're just trying to fukk...just shoot your shot, instead of putting your energy into talking to - then ignoring a female like a weirdo, just talk to multiple females...its a numbers game.

You not worrying about any of this shyt if you got options tbh.
Just talk to more females and don't waste energy, be efficient is the real cheat code.
 

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that's not the same thing as being called gay or suspect...
i'm probably breaking an unspoken code around here for saying this: but you can be a man and live a fulfilling and prosperous life without being promiscuous and slanging dikk all around your city. :gucci:
I agree with you breh, but unfortunately most men and women don't think like that. People need to see a woman on your arm to see you're a normal functioning human being.
 

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At the end of the day, just make sure energy is reciprocated and if not, fall off. Can’t invest too much in people these days. It’s a very fickle / fickle-turned generation, Especially with women.
Yep. The problem with most men is they don't see themselves as the prize because most know they don't have the finances or the physical appearance to not give a fukk about a woman so even if the energy isn't reciprocated they still push the situation.
 
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