wasn't there a post about a nyc breh whose chick said the same thing? isn't that the case for a lot of people anyway?
It's more common than people are willing to admit.
I’ve been told this before.
I need words of encouragement from our set leader
@Thurgood Thurston III
Fake. But with that said there's plenty of people who fall in love with people's "personality". That's definitely a real thing but the way she harped on it so much leads me to believe this is fake.
OK?
Dont incel nerds complain how woman always choose the bad guys? She genuinely gave the nice guy a chance and got won over
It sucks when you make this choice because inevitably the flesh will want something it’s attracted to
So you feel like a vapid a$$hole cause yeah it was cool at first, but now that baser animal desire is left unfulfilled
i know couples like this. not that strange. intial impressions can obviously change.
Right. Being ridiculously shallow is one thing, but I’d never tell someone to forgo physical attraction because I sure can’t
. It’s necessary for both sexes
knowing if they will fukk you within the first minute. You can charm your way into anything, and God forbid you're actually handsome gang.
There are billions of women in this world.
Every now and then you'll find a woman who doesn't really care about your looks. Even I'm not a virgin.
BUT there are many factors you have to consider:
1. Location. You're compared to the men in your area. She may not be attracted to you or ANYONE from your bumfukk mountain village, but you're the only funny one, so she's giving you the shot instead. Women hate being single. But watch what happens when some new prettyboy stumbles into town...
2. Values. There is a specific type of woman that does not consider physical attraction too much--religious women. Most of the church girls I know are with guys who are clearly dating up in looks. But the key here is that those guys fit the image she's trying to create. You cannot rely on this because these women are usually taken off the market VERY early. I mean before you even get the chance to roam the world and explore your options. And they're not gonna leave their ugly/average husband for ANOTHER ugly/average guy.
3. Ulterior Motives. There are women out there who might date an ugly guy simply to get something out of him or the situation. It could be money, connections, security, etc. Sometimes you're just her cover. I know plenty of gay girls growing up who dated just ANY guy because they didn't want people to know. I know chicks in the hood who sought out the toughest dudes just because SHE herself was trouble and needed someone tough on her side.
4. Luck. Sometimes you were just at the right place, at the right time, and made all the right moves. It's RARE as fukk. But it can happen.
But the question is, do you WANT a woman who doesn't find you attractive? Because that comes with its own set of problems:
1. Above, I mentioned the role of luck and how you need to make all the right moves. The opposite is also true. You cannot make ANY of the wrong moves. Good looking people get more chances to fukk up. That is the REAL reason why looks matter. The more attractive she finds you, the more you can get away with. If you're ugly or average, you need to be ON POINT all the time. Your breath can NEVER stink, your clothes can never be un-ironed. Get into ONE loud argument, and it's over. And don't even THINK about cheating. She will never take you back.
2. Her eyes will ALWAYS wander. There was a study on this that showed that women who rated themselves as more attractive than their partners, were more likely to give other guys a chance. She will always be looking to upgrade. See, the truth is that most men aren't special. You might be funny and well dressed, but there is a better looking ugly with those same qualities looking to take your spot. People act like you either need to have a good personality or be good looking, as if someone can't be both. There are A LOT of guys that have both. This is the reason behind the "80/20" rule.
3. Your sex life will not be great. A woman's ability to orgasm is tied to how attractive she finds you. Shackelford TK, Weekes-Shackelford VA, LeBlanc GJ, Bleske AL, Euler HA, Hoier S. Female coital orgasm and male attractiveness. Hum Nat. 2000 Sep;11(3):299-306. doi: 10.1007/s12110-000-1015-1. PMID: 26193479.
She won't be in the mood as often, either. Sure ugly people have children all the time, but that doesn't mean they're having sex all the time.
Most of the people that say looks don't matter never bring up any of the things I just mentioned. Their examples are always celebrities or people who got married before women had any real agency. They'll find rare suspect videos like this as their proof. But they'll ignore the COUNTLESS videos of women talking about their past or current exploits with a guy they describe as physically attractive.
So what does all this mean for uglygang?
See, beauty is OBJECTIVE. Beauty is symmetry, proportionality, coloring, texture, cohesion.
Physical attraction, even in regards to facial features, is SUBJECTIVE. It is innate and primal. Women sometimes try to fight and suppress it, but it will always take over eventually.
Yes, the more beauty you have, the more likely you'll find someone who is physically attracted to you. But sometimes your facial features just does it for someone. That is the reason why I'm not a virgin despite being the ugliest guy in the tri-state area. I got lucky enough to find women who wanted me. Sure, they weren't the BEST women, but they wanted me and that's good enough.
Good gawd
