Insecure women eliminates herself on ‘Pop The Balloon’; black men get blamed for it

[O.T.I.S.]

@Gloxina @Chelsea Bridge @Black pearl


Do yall have the same energy when they pop on a light skin dude just for being light skin and no other explanation ?

I’ve seen it so much on that show that I don’t even notice it


And I’m a lightskinned dude if we go by their standards but I will get criticized if I date out of color preference

 

[ThrobbingHood]

We’re Men. We expect to get judged on who we are and what we produce. Women survive on smiles shakes and p*ssy generally.

That’s the difference. As men, we’re expected to produce. Real men don’t have the luxury to complain and rest on our laurels. We have to push on and keep on grinding until we reach our goals.

We aren’t expecting (nor should we) some woman to come and rescue us from a life of hardship. It’s those obstacles and hardships that create and evolve us.

Almost every woman has that “Pretty Woman” fantasy, but they missed the first step of being “pretty”. They expect a rich man to rescue them from the “streets” and give them the soft life. At least look part first before trying to manifest.

I’ve seen too many out of shape, cantankerous, lazy women praying for a soft life and not putting in the work. And when it doesn’t happen, they’ll blame it on men, colorism, misogyny etc. Rarely do they look in the mirror and accept they’re not competitive.

When I was broke, I stayed single for a long time until I built my money and status up, because I was not gonna settle for an average woman just because I was broke. My self esteem wouldn’t allow it. I built myself up and now I have the woman I want.

Too many women complain about not being desired but what they mean is, they’re not desired by the top 20% because they don’t want to put in the work, both emotionally and physically. Because I promise you every woman complaining about being single has at least 5 men constantly in their DMs.

 

[RennisDeynolds]

She was trying to go for sympathy

 

[Busted_Toes]

This is what kills me, we are ALL victims of white supremacy. But they’d have you believe that black men are the sole creators and perpetrators of it.

Because of Celebrity worship. Wanting to feel represented in Athlete's and Rapper's relationships We don't know these people or how they met but the women are light skinned, so the men have to be colorist.

Remember this pic, caused a debate about colorism.

 

[Illuminatos]

I want to see if her dm's are dry before I comment.

They’re not cause even the wackest women have tons of men chasing them.

So women’s dating issues aren’t really “men don’t want me” it’s more like“the men I want don’t want me.”

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Because of Celebrity worship. Wanting to feel represented in Athlete's and Rapper's relationships We don't know these people or how they met but the women are light skinned, so the men have to be colorist.

Remember this pic, caused a debate about colorism.

From left to right:

A cheating husband who married his mistress.
A ex-drug dealing philanderer whose wife stayed with him.

A porn addicted nazi obsessed bipolar anti-Semite.
An abusive switch hitting psycho.

Trust me, those women are not winning at all. But that’s celebrity worship for you. And it goes back to what I just said in another thread: money makes humiliation tolerable for most women.

 

[Braman]

I’m dark skinned but you can’t even make up a bigger contradiction: damn near every episode women blatantly and demonstrably say they don’t like light skin men and they prefer dark skin.

And they get disrespectful with it too. And as with many things women do, it’s played off as ‘cute’. Women do foul shyt and hide behind ‘oopsie whoopsie tee hee im just a girl ’

If I was a light skin ngga I woudnt gaf about hurting feelings. What’s good for the goose…

 

[Busted_Toes]

From left to right:

A cheating husband who married his mistress.
A ex-drug dealing philanderer whose wife stayed with him.

A porn addicted nazi obsessed bipolar anti-Semite.
An abusive switch hitting psycho.

Trust me, those women are not winning at all. But that’s celebrity worship for you. And it goes back to what I just said in another thread: money makes humiliation tolerable for most women.

"Black men are colorist,... I'm divesting"

 

[DaHNIC82]

can't go a day without breh vs brehette warfare on the internet socials

so corny, so played out. but calling it out is me hating the coli says

black dysfunction is being marketed to the world.

If folks (both men and women)would just turn this brainrott shyt off and go meet people in real life this bullshyt would die in months..
Go to festivals, picnics, cookouts, get togethers that tailor what you looking for

 

[Stick Up Kid]

Too pretty to have self-esteem that low

I like women with low self esteem... they make the best cooks.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

We’re Men. We expect to get judged on who we are and what we produce. Women survive on smiles shakes and p*ssy generally.

But that doesn’t change the impact of women saying you aren’t as attractive as a light skin breh
A nikka can produce, be the most upright citizen in the world and still want to feel seen
You giving women a way out again
You know the first act of colorism comes from women in your family
Checking behind a nikkas ears or knees is done by big momma and every other female member in a nikkas family
I’m tired of women playing victim when they are the ones who perpetuate the very thing they cry about
Then practice something totally different from what they chastise men for
nikkas just think dark skin nikkas have always been attractive and was getting hoes out the womb
I’m a living testament and witness to the fukk shyt
All women of all nationalities and races pull this shyt with dark skin men
You could be minding your own Wesley Snipe ass business and hoes are either
Scared
Call you defensive and mean for your tone
Look like you like white girls, red bones/yellow bones
All kinds of insecure projection when I’m simply trying to get some gotdamn bagels
Again this world doesn’t owe you shyt
If you out here still operating as a victim in the dating market
But talk that big girl talk on social media
Men get blamed for their unsuccessful dating skills
It’s time to hold the mirror back at the women
If we don’t, this system will still continue
Men breaking their backs and minds to keep an ungrateful ass woman from rip

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

This the most weird, incel generation of women ever.

Incels are just men devoid of masculine energy. Complaining is common for women, so that whining and blaming of men is nothing new.

Men blaming women for why they are not happy(incels) is a new phenomenon. I think its because a lot of these men don't have positive friendships with men in their lives and have come to see every woman as a potential girlfriend. Men raised in the 1970s-2000s are also men raised in increasing levels of female energy. Complaining and whining is a form of communication between women and it's one of the reasons they get mad when you offer advice to their problem. They get something out of just talking incessantly about the problem, and it's a way for them to relate to other people and center themselves in a conversation without feeling narcissistic. Men who were raised in this social environment and who aren't around other men who grew up with male mentorship and friendships aren't getting interactions that give them perspective. A man telling another man that not getting attention from women is not as serious as an issue of them not having their own home, a job they feel respected and valued in, and having friends and life experiences can be an extremely important part of healthy male development. It's something that men aren't getting and instead they're hearing podcast bros bytch about how everything is woke and going into online echo chambers full of men ruminating on their Ls like it's a fukking hair salon.

Women also bully EACHOTHER a LOT because they notice shyt that men don't care about (way makeup is blended, quality of the fake lashes/hair, quality of skin, quality of clothing and accessories, etc.) and they do it in passive aggressive ways too. It feeds insecurity in women and a pettiness and lack of accountability. I can guarantee that dark skin and light skin women have been bullied for their skin tone by women they thought were their friends. Women famously have fractured and bad friendships because they have mental health problems and insecurities that end up destroying their relationships.

You get put on to a lot of game when you listen to your girl or a friend talk about her friend group. Its fascinating watching them not realize they play some role in the situations they find themselves in. Like you consider your friend very similar to you, and as someone with good judgment yet you hate her spouse or boyfriend and say he's a moron or whatever. What then does it say about your friend if she's willing to commit to a person you find repulsive? they don't engage in that level of introspection because it's actually fun for them to just shyt on this guy behind his back and question their friend's intelligence too. That's not someone you're friends with, that's someone whose life has become entertainment for you.

 

[MegaManX]

her weight should be her real concern.

 

[Mugenight]

Had this happen to me before, chick was exactly my type.

 

[seabreeze80]

I’m dark skinned but you can’t even make up a bigger contradiction: damn near every episode women blatantly and demonstrably say they don’t like light skin men and they prefer dark skin.

And they get disrespectful with it too. And as with many things women do, it’s played off as ‘cute’. Women do foul shyt and hide behind ‘oopsie whoopsie tee hee im just a girl ’

If I was a light skin ngga I woudnt gaf about hurting feelings. What’s good for the goose…

B/c they assume LS men want biracial and LS women.