Intelligence: A turn-on?

Is intelligence a turn-on for you?

  • Yes, it's a turn-on. I am a male.

    Votes: 54 76.1%
  • Yes, it's a turn-on. I am a female.

    Votes: 12 16.9%
  • No, it's a turn-off. I am a male

    Votes: 2 2.8%
  • No, it's a turn-off. I am a female.

    Votes: 3 4.2%

  • Total voters
    71
  • Poll closed .

Remy Danton

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3 women revealed they self :smh:

Intelligence is a must. I enjoyed having deep insight conversation. Some women think it all about they looks

Wrong friend!!!

a man want to have something with some substance;
for when you get old and your ass start looking like a deflated bookbag
and breast start hanging like a 40 inch chain.
 

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3 women revealed they self :smh:

Intelligence is a must. I enjoyed having deep insight conversation. Some women think it all about they looks

Wrong friend!!!

a man want to have something with some substance;
for when you get old and your ass start looking like a deflated bookbag
and breast start hanging like a 40 inch chain.


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having a degree in *something* =/= intelligence

also 'intelligence' is more a state of mind, a way of speaking or a way of carrying yourself than anything else. i know a professor who habitually effs up on his grammar and is terse to the point that you might think he's a teletubby and yet millions of dollars flow through his lab because of the breakthrough research he's doing.

it's all smoke and mirrors. worry more about whether or not your girl is a kind, loyal person and less about how her grammar looks like. anybody can put on hipster glasses and fabricate a persona but your core character traits will never change
 

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I hate a dumb ass female or a simple minded one as well (not connected to having a degree or being "educated"). I love a smart woman with critical thinking skills that can formulate an opinion. That shyt is sexy; Becoming rare though.
 

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apparently nobody one the coli wants a stupid ho

You are who you associate with.

If you mess around with/date/marry someone who's obviously stupid, people assume
A) You're trying to take advantage,
B) You're shallow (if the other person is attractive/rich/ A+ sex game), or
C) You're stupid yourself.

It may not be true, but that's what folks will assume.


And on a side note, a girl who's smart and/ or has crit. thinking skills is :blessed::noah::ahh: because it's so rare.

But if they have an ego about how smart they are compared to others...:scusthov:
Show some humility, a$$hole. :camby:
 

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In a woman, only thing she needs to know is how to make money. After that intelligence is overrated.
 

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It's refreshing to be in the presence of an intelligent female...on the other hand, dumb/simple-minded chicks can be easier to deal with at times :manny:
 

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@OddWomanOut @Cheeky i would like yall opinion on this

This seems like a no-brainer (no pun intended). I prefer to have meaningful conversations with whoever I'm dating. It can't just be a superficial relationship. If I can learn something from them, even better. I enjoy lively debates with an intelligent person; I want to respect my partner.
 

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This seems like a no-brainer (no pun intended). I prefer to have meaningful conversations with whoever I'm dating. It can't just be a superficial relationship. If I can learn something from them, even better. I enjoy lively debates with an intelligent person; I want to respect my partner.
:obama: i may need to move to Canada. If more women would understand this though.
 

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Being able to converse is essential in a relationship IMO. At some point when I look at you EVERYDAY, your looks just become trivial. It's not as important and after that initial physical attraction, something has to hold you there…I can't stand stupid people. Trying to have a conversation with someone who only has knowledge on surface level things, and can't seem to form an opinion is pointless.
 

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I couldn't even take a woman seriously, if she wasn't way smarter than me. Always becoming sharper, because of the chick you deal with is:ohlawd:.

dont i know it.
 
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