Introducing the new internet dating phenomena “Negging”

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:mjlol:Women love that shyt, and you know that.

:mjlol:Just like Fresh and Fit said, women are programed to give the PC answer but in reality they respond to aggressive attractive ass-holes.


Of course some women do but like me and this woman, some don't. The problem is applying it to all and thinking that's okay.

F&F are bozos who speak to other bozos. Any woman with sense, keyword, knows to walk away from disrespectful clowns
 

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Nothing wrong with playful teasing.

The dude in the video (probably fake) sounded stupid, but maybe that's because I'm old and that "_______ looking ass shyt" is corny to me.
it’s comes off incongruent when u do it on social media

Young men are done out here
 

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This isn't new, men do this when a girl they wanted to deal with doesn't like them. They are trying to lower her self esteem so that she will think he is the prize and stick around no matter what


Exactly. Instead of realizing this isn't the woman for them or saying let me get on her level, they'd rather take the bytch route and manipulate.

That's always the first red flag that he's insecure. BLOCK
 

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Exactly. Instead of realizing this isn't the woman for them or saying let me get on her level, they'd rather take the bytch route and manipulate.

That's always the first red flag that he's insecure. BLOCK

Too many men are afriad to be themselves
So they gotta manipulate ..they don’t think they good enough
Self esteem down bad
 

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People used to do this early 00
U meet a girl and u playfully neg her to get some form of reaction and then pull her in once she’s invested

It works better face to face not over social media lol
This shyt isn’t new and it only works on girls with low self-esteem.


I had a negro apologizing on my voicemail when I called him out for that shyt after a date when I was younger.

The only time I allow antisocial personality traits to kick in is when I realize someone is playing games. Then I just play along until they look in my eyes and realize I’m right there in the mud with them. Then he feels stupid for thinking he was getting over on me and slowly comes to the realization that I haven’t given/lost anything in my time/exchange with him, and that I was never going to.


But you also need to have an exit plan in place for such things because you don’t always know how men who resort to these tactics will react.



TLDR: if you’re attracted to a woman, just be chill and let it flow. Negging leads to 3 things: a woman you actually wanted who has self esteem walking away, a damaged woman hanging around, or a calculated woman hanging around for the long con/until she gets a few things she wants or until she’s bored.


You’re introducing negativity into the situation so you can’t expect a fruitful outcome.
 

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This shyt isn’t new and it only works on girls with low self-esteem.


I had a negro apologizing on my voicemail when I called him out for that shyt after a date when I was younger.

The only time I allow antisocial personality traits to kick in is when I realize someone is playing games. Then I just play along until they look in my eyes and realize I’m right there in the mud with them. Then he feels stupid for thinking he was getting over on me and slowly comes to the realization that I haven’t given/lost anything in my time/exchange with him, and that I was never going to.


But you also need to have an exit plan in place for such things because you don’t always know how men who resort to these tactics will react.



TLDR: if you’re attracted to a woman, just be chill and let it flow. Negging leads to 3 things: a woman you actually wanted who has self esteem walking away, a damaged woman hanging around, or a calculated woman hanging around for the long con/until she gets a few things she wants or until she’s bored.


You’re introducing negativity into the situation so you can’t expect a fruitful outcome.
Modern men dedicated last 4 years watching YouTube grifters telling them that they need to be high status/money/ fame to get women

Lil nikkas can’t be themselves anymore cause zero self worth..

Next few years..Generation of 30 year olds with crippling ED and lack of self worth

It’s over

Fred

 

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I had a guy or 2 try this...but when you start roasting them back they get all in their feelings.

:heh:
Right.
We aren’t talking about little jokes here and there. This is about someone intentionally trying to demoralize a woman HE APPROACHED who is an absolute stranger. “Knock her down a peg”.

It’s all fun and games until you pull their fukking card.

I think I had mentioned something about this before on here. Negro thought he was flexing on me cuz he had a few things going on until we started discussing schools, families, various fields our relatives were in (going back a few generations) and the nicca was sitting there looking stuck when it was clear we weren’t of the same pedigree.

Would’ve been fine if he literally sat there and ate his food.

And I’m not the type of person who trips off that stuff, but if you want to play we can play. And then you’ll be the fool with egg on your face ppl gossiping about your life decisions down the line.

Just be positive. What’s so hard about that? 🤷🏾‍♀️
 

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Modern men dedicated last 4 years watching YouTube grifters telling them that they need to be high status/money/ fame to get women

Lil nikkas can’t be themselves anymore cause zero self worth..

Next few years..Generation of 30 year olds with crippling ED and lack of self worth

It’s over

Fred

U be simping oc folks relax
 
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