IntrovertGang Step In: Why Are People So Entitled With Y'all?

[MaxPain]

Me personally, I don't consider myself an extra or introvert. I'm very sociable and like to be on the scene but I also do like to be alone and recharge sometimes. I don't run my mouth and don't need constant validation but I make friends easily and have been considered "popular" in a lot of places.If you meet me you will notice I'm not the chattiest person but I'm not the quietest.

The thing I have noticed with hardcore introverts is that people always call them "weird" or feel entitled to know about them. If someone doesnt wanna fukk with you...get over it. Atleast that's how I roll.But so many people feel entitled to their business.

For example, their is this guy at my job who keeps to himself. Cool cat. We talk about work & keep it cordial, crack a joke or two. I dont need to or care about all his personal business but a lot of other people want to and when he doesnt they get mad and shame him.

Meanwhile there are people callin him "weird" and when I ask why they never have a legit reason besides he won't tell them all his business or doesnt chat to them all day/do water cooler talk like gotdam leave the man alone. They invite him out and he always refuses. I refuse too but I make up an excuse or lie all the time.

I'm trying to figure out why people put so much energy into figuring them (introverts) out or shaming them. Let people be:Kanyewtf:

 

[Json]

People think you not wanting to interact is some kind of reflection on them.

I remember being depressed after my old man left when I was kid around 7. I was sitting outside under tree by myself during recess and a kid came and asked me to come play football. I said, nah. His response was "what, you think you're better than us?" I looked around and said nah confused af. I didn't owe him an explanation or having to play, but he certainly made up one.

 

[southern.girl]

As an introvert, I totally agree. People at my old job were uneasy around me b/c they couldn't read me. Was the job done though?

 

[EBK String]

shyt is annoying. But I dont play that shyt and will curse ppl out and take it to physical contact if necessary.

it all comes down to people wanting to identify your weak points to feel superior or exploit them. You never see truly confident people concerned about a low key person.

 

[VertigoKnight]

I'm the same at work. I'm nice I'll do the light kitchen chat. But as for you knowing me outside of work too much.

 

[Citi Trends]

I’ve had this problem my whole life

People take it as a personal attack on their character when you just don’t feel like talking to them

They don’t even have anything to say, they just want to have the satisfaction of manipulating your attitude

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

They smell p*ssy on you


60 percent of people in the world are bytches and theyll fukk with you just because

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

People fear the unknown..
When you keep to yourself..
Insecurities are projected on you because most people just don’t know how to be alone with their own thoughts..
I’m only social when I need to be and around the people I care about the most..
I truly don’t give a shyt about general population..
Only time I care or have feelings is for older people(specifically older black men and women) and children..
Other then that..
Face is on permanent
Just hate superfluous conversations and do better in intimate situations

 

[MaxPain]

I'm the same at work. I'm nice I'll do the light kitchen chat. But as for you knowing me outside of work too much.

It's weird as hell. I'm "popular" at work with everyone to the point where they feel they wanna hang out with me outside of work. I always lie and say I live too far to drive though I always lie cuz I know how asshurt people get if u flat out say u don't want to.


shyts crazy. I could be crackin jokes with co workers then delete them from my memory after I leave.:Denzelcrackinup:

I got my own life and social circle outside work

 

[Ciggavelli]

Hardcore introvert here. I’ve figured out how to stop people from interacting with you. Put on a mean face (which my face looks like normally ) and put on headphones.

When I am forced to talk to people at work, I’m assertive as hell. I ask the questions, not you. just because I’m an introvert, it doesn’t mean I can’t be assertive

But, yeah, people try to read me, but they can’t. That’s their problem

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I'm the same at work. I'm nice I'll do the light kitchen chat. But as for you knowing me outside of work too much.

this the way.. light interaction.

 

[MaxPain]

As an introvert, I totally agree. People at my old job were uneasy around me b/c they couldn't read me. Was the job done though?

I always defend people like that when others say their "weird". Im like maybe ur not as cool as u think u are and they just don't like ur bytch ass:Lethemhoesdie: U just think I like u cuz u think my corny jokes are funny.Nah manito I'm just playing the game and u dont exist to me when ur not around. Maybe these people cant stand fake interactions

Something must be wrong with me cuz I never take them personal. Prolly cuz even tho I know how to be "popular" I know how to wind down and keep to myself. Like good Lord let them people be

What's funny is the dude whose an introvert actually talks to me the most cuz Im not pressed on figuring him out.

 

[mbewane]

The "standard" in society is to be social. So if you appear to be less social than the norm, people don't know how to handle that. So you're weird, "think you're better than the others", or people assume they did something wrong causing that.

People just don't know how to deal with introverts. How many times, when I was younger, people would ask me "what's wrong" if I didn't want to go party all night long. Nothing's wrong, I just don't want to go party

And it's gonna get worse : in this age of sharing your life on social media and whatnot people feel entitled to knowing what you're doing, even more so in "liberal" jobs were the lines between personal and professionnal life are blurred. This friend of mine told me people at her former job felt some kind of way that she had a life outside of the job and didnt join at all post-work drinks/dinners. Another friend told me the same thing at an another job. Sometimes I myself would actually lie to people just to go home and chill lol.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

It's weird as hell. I'm "popular" at work with everyone to the point where they feel they wanna hang out with me outside of work. I always lie and say I live too far to drive though I always lie cuz I know how asshurt people get if u flat out say u don't want to.


shyts crazy. I could be crackin jokes with co workers then delete them from my memory after I leave.:Denzelcrackinup:

I got my own life and social circle outside work

This cac at my old job called me over to his desk once in the work chat I though he needed help. To ask me to go grab a coffee with him. I said no and he went nuts. "why WHY WHY DON'T YOU WANNA GRAB A COFFEE WITH ME?!"

I'm like we got free coffee in the kitchen man

I never spoke to him again on some casual shyt

I always worked with my headphones. Came into work with them on...

Did no potlucks, my breaks are my own I don't spend them at work or discussing work as a rule.

 

[Worthless Loser]

Mystery is appealing to people. There's been numerous times when people would start conversations with me due to staying to myself, and my answers would be short to them. I've been told I'm mysterious many times and I've also been told I'm hard to figure out. The person that said I'm hard to figure out goes out of his way to start empty conversations with me.