IntrovertGang Step In: Why Are People So Entitled With Y'all?

[Ironman]

shyts annoying as hellSometimes I just want to listen to my music and vibe. I'm just used to being alone and when I'm ready I have no problem talking to people but, in the meantime let me be

 

[Elle Driver]

They be tryna force you to talk and get mad when you don’t give in.

 

[The Guru]

I've had to deal with this all my life. I'm somewhat in the middle on it now where i understand people want basic interaction with you. I can;t just put it all on them.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

It's usually a problem with women..

They don't like introverts because most of them don't have in them to take initiative in pursuing a conversation.

It becomes an issue with "men" when they see that you don't engage with every female in your vicinity.

If you're a decent looking person and an introvert lord help you

Be too introverted and people think you're stuck up...be too extroverted and insecure people get aggy because they feep you're too happy and confident and you need to be brought down.

 

[Ironman]

The "standard" in society is to be social. So if you appear to be less social than the norm, people don't know how to handle that. So you're weird, "think you're better than the others", or people assume they did something wrong causing that.

People just don't know how to deal with introverts. How many times, when I was younger, people would ask me "what's wrong" if I didn't want to go party all night long. Nothing's wrong, I just don't want to go party

And it's gonna get worse : in this age of sharing your life on social media and whatnot people feel entitled to knowing what you're doing, even more so in "liberal" jobs were the lines between personal and professionnal life are blurred. This friend of mine told me people at her former job felt some kind of way that she had a life outside of the job and didnt join at all post-work drinks/dinners. Another friend told me the same thing at an another job. Sometimes I myself would actually lie to people just to go home and chill lol.

The amount of times I've been called weird or "why don't you talk?" Why I hate small awkward talks just a waste of time we clearly aren't becoming legitimate friends I'm good

 

[Moody]

Introverted people are my favourite people. Give them their space and they will either eventually invite you into their world or they won't.

Always get along well with them. But you're right. Some people just can't handle someone that operates on their own without outside influence. I think there's a certain level of jealousy involved as well.

 

[Payroll]

There absence of humanity is a fulfillment so graceful that even God would understand if he made them, and he probably didn't.

Leave me be.

 

[Drip Bayless]

The only co workers who treated me like that were females
Any man who act like you a weirdo for keeping to yourself is exhibiting feminine behavior
Actually been fired for that shyt before
People don’t wanna accept that maybe just maybe, y’all dont be talking about anything that interests me, you’re not funny, etc.
So they project onto you
Humans are social creatures, and people tend not to like those who differ from the norm/standard
It’s called ingroup bias
If someone prefers to be alone people feel like it reflects poorly on the group, and they can’t have that so you get labeled a weirdo

 

[WSFGDan]

People are the worst

 

[Negus in Detroit]

Like a month ago I had a chick call me a “hermit” and “mysterious because I never go out with her and her friends or anybody else for that matter and also because I don’t use any social media apps I’m like bytch I don’t need to go out with y’all and I’m a homebody anyway especially in this cold ass weather

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

Extroverts can be some of the fakest mfs you’ll ever be around a lot of the time

The only time I initiate conversation at work is if the other party is the same race as me or if it’s a man in my age range. Anything else is fake most of the time especially if it’s a supervisor or boss. Some supervisors will smile in your face and pretend they give af about your personal life but will throw you under the bus with the quickness if things get rocky

 

[315]

Everybody at my old jobs thought I didn't like them or was mean. Whenever they needed something from me they'd ask someone else to ask me

shyt was lovely to be honest, never had to deal with any drama because of it

 

[Hoodoo Child]

I consider myself 'somewhat' of an introvert, but it's like..when I get around my gang, I'm a WHOLE different person. Now, it wasn't always like that when I first met them, it was a work in progress.In order for me to open up to you, first off, we gotta have good chemistry.

 

[Cuban Pete]

I agree with the thread. Sometimes you just dont like someone vibe, fukk would I wanna give you access to my world for


Social media got people fukked up on the concept of privacy and access. Who ever invented that shyt is an evil genius cuz Im HELLA lowkey and even I look back at old posts like why I post that

Them real hardcore introverts are probably on the spectrum or suffering from some type of crippling anxiety tho

 

[you're NOT "n!ggas"]

People think you not wanting to interact is some kind of reflection on them.

I remember being depressed after my old man left when I was kid around 7. I was sitting outside under tree by myself during recess and a kid came and asked me to come play football. I said, nah. His response was "what, you think you're better than us?" I looked around and said nah confused af. I didn't owe him an explanation or having to play, but he certainly made up one.

you shoulda said yeah after that and lit him up off the anger and adrenaline. Real shyt.