Introverts: how far in advance do you plan your convo scripts?

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I think there's a distinction between being socially awkward and being an introvert.
Exactly. I can be social and charming when I need to be, but honestly, I prefer my own company. People are just designing and exhausting. Feigning interest in someone is too much effort.

Give me a book and a hammock and I’ll be chilled the whole day.
 

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This is a ridiculous questions and shows a clear misunderstanding of introverts

Are you under the impression that extroverts have more to talk about than introverts?
It's the opposite, introverts choose to be solo, we aren't outcasted.

Many also enjoy reading and learning new things, so we have way more subject matter to speak on then you talking about the last party you went to.
Introverts can carry a spontaneous conversation much longer and of better quality then extroverts imo
Most people are a degree of both extroversion and introversion

Ambiversion is the combination of both traits. Socializing when you need to. Recharging when your social batteries run out

Introversion is largely misunderstood on a global scale. A lot of people get socially awkward and introversion mixed up.
The colder the climate, the higher the introversion. The hotter the climate, the higher the extroversion.

Socially awkwardness = lack of comfort within the setting. Instead of being comfortable, the person uses a lot of fillers to fill in the void.

There’s a lot of benefits to introversion such as self reflection, being great listeners, not being afraid of silence, observant of our surroundings and being mysterious
 

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Most people are a degree of both extroversion and introversion

Ambiversion is the combination of both traits. Socializing when you need to. Recharging when your social batteries run out

Introversion is largely misunderstood on a global scale. A lot of people get socially awkward and introversion mixed up.
The colder the climate, the higher the introversion. The hotter the climate, the higher the extroversion.

Socially awkwardness = lack of comfort within the setting. Instead of being comfortable, the person uses a lot of fillers to fill in the void.

There’s a lot of benefits to introversion such as self reflection, being great listeners, not being afraid of silence, observant of our surroundings and being mysterious
A lot of socially awkward people claim to be an introvert
 

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When they cant figure you out, they always start with these wide casted projections of who they think you are, all of this because they cant just STFU and read the room.

Ever cross your mind that you're not as interesting ,deep, or charming as you think?

What I tend to see among extreme extroverts is that they arent really listening and cross -marinating ideas, just waiting for their turn to talk and when they do talk , they obsessively pause for affirmations to make sure you're listening:jbhmm: ......:leon:..................:gladbron:
 

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this is crazy, yall nikkas wake up and PLAN to have conversations.
to be honest, yall should just kill your selves.
how you plan to be a human being, thats like not even being one.
imma tell you straight up, if you dont like us humans, you can leave.
i swear to god, i must of landed on a different planet. first of all, you arent a introvert because you cant call yourself one! . you are just an outcast.
 

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Humans are simple creatures, they love talking about themselves

Conversation is easy, just encourage the other person to talk about themselves

No need to plan topics lol
i met a crazy man on the street, he strugles to say hello to people. he cant even bring him self to say hello. think about that. then you got these fakkits ass nikkas online who want to fit in with the rest of the chop your dikk off gang and claim to be incels. you see how these nikkas actually want to be an incel.
 

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If being introverted worked the way this thread suggests, it would impair function and would be classified as a mental illness or disorder.

There are four types of introverts.

I'm assuming this thread is talking about Anxious introverts and/or maybe social introverts.

I would imagine anxious introverts panic too much to sort of pre script a conversation.

With social introverts, its more of a preference thing. They dont really care enough to do that.

A thinking introvert who is overly analytical and caculating may have a framework for a conversation but only if they have an agenda in play. Its not something they're compelled to do without reason.

With a restrained introvert, it has less to do with their participation than it does the other person. So they're not going to prepare a conversation anymore then anyone else. Its more or less before they just warm up to you.

Oh, and there's hard science behind this as well:

Causes of Introversion​

Scientists don't know for sure if there's a cause for introversion or extroversion. What they do know is the brains of the two personality types work a little differently from each other. Researchers have found that introverts have a higher blood flow to their frontal lobe than extroverts do. This part of the brain helps you remember things, solve problems, and plan ahead.

Introvert brains also react differently to dopamine than extrovert brains do. That's a chemical that turns on the reward- and pleasure-seeking part of your brain. Introverts and extroverts have the same amount of the chemical, but extrovert brains get an excited buzz from their reward center. Introverts, on the other hand, tend to just feel run-down by it.


I'll tell you my cause for introversion:

MOTHERfukkERS THAT CAN'T TAKE A HINT AND WON'T SHUT THE fukk UP

random stupid mf: blah blah blah all about myself blah blah blah I'm so bad I can suck my own dikk blah blah blah
me: yo!....oh shyt....word...that's crazy...damn...
random a$$hole: blah blah blah more talking about myself cuz I'm a dumb mf with no other convo topic blah blah blah
me: oh for real...yeah...*looks at watch*...that's wild...word...*texts my girl*....shyt's ill...yo I'm out
random dikkhead: blah blah blah no wait check this out blah blah blah

That shyt is exhausting and a chore
Why do you act like this?
Like Dee's girl told him when he took her to the fancy spot
DON'T NOBODY GIVE A fukk ABOUT YOU AND YOUR STORY
 

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Coworker: Did you watch the game this weekend?

OP:

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If I say yes, then he’ll ask me more about the game.
If I say no, then I’m a goof
If I say no, why didn’t I watch it? What excuse can I give. Last time I said I was busy with the in laws

Coworker:….:mjtf:
 

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I'll tell you my cause for introversion:

MOTHERfukkERS THAT CAN'T TAKE A HINT AND WON'T SHUT THE fukk UP

random stupid mf: blah blah blah all about myself blah blah blah I'm so bad I can suck my own dikk blah blah blah
me: yo!....oh shyt....word...that's crazy...damn...
random a$$hole: blah blah blah more talking about myself cuz I'm a dumb mf with no other convo topic blah blah blah
me: oh for real...yeah...*looks at watch*...that's wild...word...*texts my girl*....shyt's ill...yo I'm out
random dikkhead: blah blah blah no wait check this out blah blah blah

That shyt is exhausting and a chore
Why do you act like this?
Like Dee's girl told him when he took her to the fancy spot
DON'T NOBODY GIVE A fukk ABOUT YOU AND YOUR STORY


All of this. It’s wild how adults cannot just sit and relax without constantly talking or needing attention

Not knowing when to let some air into the conversation or just shutting tf up needs to categorize as a mental illness

I strike up conversations with random people when I’m out and about but I know when to shut up and keep it moving
 

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Coworker: Did you watch the game this weekend?

OP:

math-genius.gif


If I say yes, then he’ll ask me more about the game.
If I say no, then I’m a goof
If I say no, why didn’t I watch it? What excuse can I give. Last time I said I was busy with the in laws

Coworker:….:mjtf:
They some certified weirdos
 
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