Is a man getting trapped by a woman the worst...

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I was trapped by my son's mother. She admitted it 7 months into her pregnancy through tears on the phone at 4am after I'd left her (for other reasons). Funny thing is I WAS very in love with this woman and was considering marriage with her (which explains why I trusted her enough to have sex with her without a condom--yes, she said she was on birth control, and even went as far as to show the Alesse packages to me) up until she became pregnant and I learned that she really didn't have any plans to do anything with her life.

How old were yall and what were yall doing in your lives at the time? Whats her family background like? Im feeling like all the signs were there, and u overlooked them in the fog of tenderdikkness.

Dont get me wrong, I have been there before, but I snapped the fukk out of it before I had to face the consequences.....

 

[Guess Who]

That's foul as fukk but women do this shyt all the time

And they try to use that child as a bargaining chip for some type of fukking fairytale ending

Yeah, using the kid as a bargaining chip. That happens. It's sad because I pay child support every month, on time, and have never missed a payment. I also pay for groceries when she doesn't have it, I pay for his extracurriculars, buy him clothing etc.--basically I do what I'm supposed to. I see my child regularly. When I have him I try to expose him to diverse experiences, social events, and people so he can learn something about the world. He's passionate about soccer and video games so I teach him soccer skills and play video games with him, even the games I don't like (though I don't let him know this). I try to teach him respect, hard work, perseverance, tolerance, patience, empathy, and not to judge others. And then when his mother has something come up where she needs money (like, a vacation--mind you, she, despite being on welfare, has been on vacation more times since my son's birth seven years ago than I've been on in my entire life) she begins withholding my son from me and threatening to take me back to court. And then the kid asks why he can't see me--the same kid who doesn't want to go home when our weekend is over sometimes.

That's sad.

And then sometimes his mother, who has had a live-in boyfriend for over four years, asks me if I ever think about what it would have been like if we'd never broken up. So, she's still pining...and that's sad as well.

Everybody ended up hurt in this situation. So let's stop talking about how dumb guys are for not wearing condoms in these situations and talk about how everybody ends up getting hurt in the long run, especially the child who doesn't deserve any of it.

 

[Strapped]

yesssssssss!

 

[Art Barr]

the new women won't break kayfabe thread of the week.


Art Barr

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

you aren't making sense at all. They're millions of women who do not believe in abortion,feel trapped but still take care of theres. Abortion is typically a big deal for a lot of women. And as long as she takes care of her child u really can't say she shouldn't be having sex. Bottom line is a man can use a condom if it breaks u can't blame her for not wanting to abort. If u aren't ready to take care of kids don't do what takes to make them. This is what they tell the teenagers but clearly adults need this advice too.

So let me get this right. A woman may not be financially stable, doesn't have her own home, poor, doesn't have her career, unsure about her sex partner as a suitable partner to build a home with and will bring a child into the world to repeat this same vicious cycle because she had sex for pleasure and the condom broke? Why bring a child into this world under those circumstances?

Maybe she shouldn't be having sex in this first place

 

[KinksandCoils]

So let me get this right. A woman may not be financially stable, doesn't have her own home, poor, doesn't have her career, unsure about her sex partner as a suitable partner to build a home with and will bring a child into the world to repeat this same vicious cycle because she had sex for pleasure and the condom broke? Why bring a child into this world under those circumstances?

Maybe she shouldn't be having sex in this first place

I didn't say any of this but you shouldn't make a permanent decision on your temporary circumstances. Being poor during pregnancy does not mean that the person doesn't ever have a chance to be successful. Plenty of the worlds must rich and famous people grew up poor.

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

I didn't say any of this but you shouldn't make a permanent decision on your temporary circumstances. Being poor during pregnancy does not mean that the person doesn't ever have a chance to be successful. Plenty of the worlds must rich and famous people grew up poor.

But look at statictics for those who didn't become successful

 

[KinksandCoils]

But look at statictics for those who didn't become successful

that doesnt mean that didnt deserve a chance at life.

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[Mountain]

U painting this in favor of men as much as possible and looking ridiculous in the process.

U dont have to look much further than this board for the typical realities of the situation. A nikka builds a "roster" out of fear of commitment and a homoerotic desire to impress other men with his sexual prowess, putting quantity over quality and fukking anyone with looks other men deem attractive, even if she has absolutely nothing else going on for herself and would obviously come up off a child support check. Theres no fukking "partnership". Then lo and behold, she gets pregnant, and his dumb ass is "surprised", knowing damn well she isnt on the pill and has nothing to lose by having a random nikka's baby.

Its simple math u clowns. If child support is more than a woman's income, or she doesnt have a career or legit academic goal that a baby would interfere with, high key u prob shouldnt fukk her. nikkas need to either choose carefully and fully commit or choose women to sleep with the same way golddiggers choose men. If the fukk isnt a mutually beneficial exchange w/o a pregancy occuring it shouldnt fukking happen.

 

[Archimedes]

I used to think i was a good judge of character till i seen this bytch had holes in her condoms.... Only time i ever slapped the dog shyt out a bytch. Now I never raw dog and wont unless i get snipped.

Its sad that i cant trust women cause theres honest ones but i got too much to lose over some nut.

 

[Street Knowledge]

That's why I don't mess with women who have nothing to lose.
Dudes talk about smashing single mothers instead of dating/wifing them, but I don't even smash them.
Since they couldn't get a dude who was worth shyt when they were younger, now they wanna trap a nikka who has something going for himself.
There are some scandalous broads outchea.

This is so truest

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Yeah, using the kid as a bargaining chip. That happens. It's sad because I pay child support every month, on time, and have never missed a payment. I also pay for groceries when she doesn't have it, I pay for his extracurriculars, buy him clothing etc.--basically I do what I'm supposed to. I see my child regularly. When I have him I try to expose him to diverse experiences, social events, and people so he can learn something about the world. He's passionate about soccer and video games so I teach him soccer skills and play video games with him, even the games I don't like (though I don't let him know this). I try to teach him respect, hard work, perseverance, tolerance, patience, empathy, and not to judge others. And then when his mother has something come up where she needs money (like, a vacation--mind you, she, despite being on welfare, has been on vacation more times since my son's birth seven years ago than I've been on in my entire life) she begins withholding my son from me and threatening to take me back to court. And then the kid asks why he can't see me--the same kid who doesn't want to go home when our weekend is over sometimes.

That's sad.

And then sometimes his mother, who has had a live-in boyfriend for over four years, asks me if I ever think about what it would have been like if we'd never broken up. So, she's still pining...and that's sad as well.

Everybody ended up hurt in this situation. So let's stop talking about how dumb guys are for not wearing condoms in these situations and talk about how everybody ends up getting hurt in the long run, especially the child who doesn't deserve any of it.

Come on bruh. U still aint answer the questions tho. What was she doing when u met her. U actin like when u met her she was some ambitious career woman or something. In my experience people who aint about shyt now were never about it, so unless something traumatic happened to her while yall were together Im gonna guess it wouldnt have been hard to see that u nutting in her would have been a come up for her.

 

[Archimedes]

Have sex with women you wouldn't want to be the mother of your child, brehs.

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fukk outta here. I see a girl i know within a second if i want to fukk her.

Now, telling if she'd be a good mother takes a year at least. You really think nikkas in their twenties judge p*ssy on motherhood material

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

fukk outta here. I see a girl i know within a second if i want to fukk her.

Now, telling if she'd be a good mother takes a year at least. You really think nikkas in their twenties judge p*ssy on motherhood material

A lot of people being idiots doesnt make it right. U want to be a tenderdikk dont cry about the consequences of your choices.

 

[Archimedes]

A lot of people being idiots doesnt make it right. U want to be a tenderdikk dont cry about the consequences of your choices.

why you replying to me I dont even see what that has to do with what i said.

theres a big difference between wanting to fukk and wanting kids anyways.