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Is anyone else actively seeking love????
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AbrahamLincolnPawgHunter
dirty sprite and autotune
and the search continues 
WaveCapsByOscorp™
2021 Grammy Award Winner
i don't bother, i hate forcing relationships and trying to get people's attention when it comes to things like dating, plus my schedule is sort of wacky and leaves me little time to actively search. so, what i'm saying is, it's not the moment in my life where i need to be doing that because i don't really have an interest in pursuing anyone (i haven't met any woman recently worthy of pursuit) and because my schedule doesn't allow me much time since i live a nonconventional life. what's worse is my schedule's going to get more fukked up once next year starts. anyways, the women that are really interested in you (and the women that are really worthwhile pursuits) will make themselves available and they'll come looking for you. that's usually how i gauge everything. if a woman reaches out to me (no matter how non traditional the manner is) those are the ones i consider...
Never actively sought it, it just popped me on the head. I didn't even like my fiance when I first met him LOL
Kilgore Trout
Banned
Youll find love when your ready.
One thing i realized in life is that things come to you when your ready for it. There are things I wanted years ago and If i would have got them then instead of now, I either wouldn't have appreciated it or deserved it. I wouldn't have realized many of those things are meaningless.
One thing i realized in life is that things come to you when your ready for it. There are things I wanted years ago and If i would have got them then instead of now, I either wouldn't have appreciated it or deserved it. I wouldn't have realized many of those things are meaningless.
I didn't mind dating and getting to know girls here and there (after splitting from a long-term relationship a little over a year ago)...and I ended up meeting a lot of cool chicks with potential, but I think that my desire to get money and NOT be stuck in Michigan trumps all of that. All of my friends moved out west and I eventually want to relocate before I start making new steps.
My boy just had a baby. He's 26. The mother just turned 22. It wasn't planned and he didn't make anything official with her until after the baby was born and they were forced to live together...but he's absolutely fukking miserable. They fight all the time over everything and dude just lost a job delivering pizzas. It's just all bad. It even gets violent at times. Cops have gotten involved on a couple occasions. They're scrambling to pay bills & aging right before my eyes. It's VERY depressing to watch from the outside, brehs. You can see actually see people's health & sanity deteriorating.
Before she got pregnant, he was working random jobs after getting off probation and finally seemed to be on the right track. Dude lived w/ my fam for a while and eventually copped a one-way ticket to Cali. He was going to link up with the rest of our friends....then she told him she was pregnant and everything kind of spiraled downward.
I figure that it's a sign. That can NOT be me and that's the main reason I don't get hung up on "loneliness". That's just a mis-use of time & imagination. I'd rather focus on enjoying & getting to know myself more than think I need someone else to be happy right this second and end up ruining my prime. I'm in the best shape of my life, have my bachelor's degree, and my student loans are paid. Debating going back to school. I'd rather have my career in full motion and have most of my "kingdom" established so I can be at my most marketable before I go "queen-shopping". There's always going to be time for women. If you're taking great care of yourself, there's no rush b/c women are always going to be attracted to consistency & stability.
Bottom Line: Get your own shyt together and be happy with yourself before you hurry into being happy with someone else.
My boy just had a baby. He's 26. The mother just turned 22. It wasn't planned and he didn't make anything official with her until after the baby was born and they were forced to live together...but he's absolutely fukking miserable. They fight all the time over everything and dude just lost a job delivering pizzas. It's just all bad. It even gets violent at times. Cops have gotten involved on a couple occasions. They're scrambling to pay bills & aging right before my eyes. It's VERY depressing to watch from the outside, brehs. You can see actually see people's health & sanity deteriorating.
Before she got pregnant, he was working random jobs after getting off probation and finally seemed to be on the right track. Dude lived w/ my fam for a while and eventually copped a one-way ticket to Cali. He was going to link up with the rest of our friends....then she told him she was pregnant and everything kind of spiraled downward.
I figure that it's a sign. That can NOT be me and that's the main reason I don't get hung up on "loneliness". That's just a mis-use of time & imagination. I'd rather focus on enjoying & getting to know myself more than think I need someone else to be happy right this second and end up ruining my prime. I'm in the best shape of my life, have my bachelor's degree, and my student loans are paid. Debating going back to school. I'd rather have my career in full motion and have most of my "kingdom" established so I can be at my most marketable before I go "queen-shopping". There's always going to be time for women. If you're taking great care of yourself, there's no rush b/c women are always going to be attracted to consistency & stability.
Bottom Line: Get your own shyt together and be happy with yourself before you hurry into being happy with someone else.
ComputersPutin
All Star
Seeking love is a set up for failure. Just be ready to accept it when it comes...thats all you can do.
James Carter
n/a
not really searching but if i find someone and its real, i wont deny it.
Silver Surfer
Veteran
"Im looking for her"
RicanFury
Come Home With Me
according to my pof profile i am 
Sierra Mist
Banned
You really never know where you'll find love. It can come from anywhere... and I really mean it. I'm so grateful I found her. Like The Used once said "Well you're never gonna find it if you're lookin for it. Won't come your way. And you'll never find it if you're lookin for it."
When I first met her I was so blown away by her that I tripped and fell. But I had already fallen in love with her before I even hit the ground.
When I first met her I was so blown away by her that I tripped and fell. But I had already fallen in love with her before I even hit the ground.
is that yall in your avy? :simp:
