I have always liked/loved fashion, but I have always dressed for myself. Some people might consider it flashy sometimes, sometimes it is an attention grabber but that's never the purpose. I'm not looking for attention. I just have my own style and I like to look nice. Plus I've been told I carry myself a certain way so it doesn't matter what I have on.
If I am going to a social type thing. I never want everyone to look at me, but if they do look I'd want it to be like

Does that make sense? Lol
I never looked at clothes as a way to make me more desirable to people, just talking style wise. Of course as a women something revealing will get attention.