Is being frank with children about what we know about sex and death the first step

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Jahahahaa it becomes a love hate relationship
To be a child and witness all the flaws and mistakes parents and elders make
You're so familiar with these individuals and that brings affection and yet it's hard to know you see life in a much clearer light than those who are supposed to be your guides and protectors
Especially if you are dealing with a religious family who deny facts for faith and hope

In a perfect world every parent would pass on a clear view of reality to their children as the foundation of their life and education
You could save all the years of mental struggling and dissonance with your peers and just the world in general


But really what the fukk can you do but play the hand you were dealt jahahahaa//////
flaws and mistakes are one thing but to perpetuate a lie
especially when friends are telling them the "truth" can be very damaging to the intimate trust of the parent child relationship
 
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“Perhaps the whole root of our trouble, the human trouble, is that we will sacrifice all the beauty of our lives, will imprison ourselves in totems, taboos, crosses, blood sacrifices, steeples, mosques, races, armies, flags, nations, in order to deny the fact of death, the only fact we have. It seems to me that one ought to rejoice in the fact of death--ought to decide, indeed, to earn one's death by confronting with passion the conundrum of life.”
James Baldwin
 

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“Perhaps the whole root of our trouble, the human trouble, is that we will sacrifice all the beauty of our lives, will imprison ourselves in totems, taboos, crosses, blood sacrifices, steeples, mosques, races, armies, flags, nations, in order to deny the fact of death, the only fact we have. It seems to me that one ought to rejoice in the fact of death--ought to decide, indeed, to earn one's death by confronting with passion the conundrum of life.”
James Baldwin


If only humanity could make it out of the labyrinth of ideologies and imagination
You can't live off of unrealistic dreams and wishes
If we could come to a clear awareness of reality we could begin to act to make this life as good as it really can be
So many people will forgoe living life because they believe someone is coming along to give them something that really doesn't even exist

With all the wise words and revelations humankind still continues on this completely fukkED course of action

ITS UNBELIVEABLE//////
 

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I have told my daughter that everyone dies. Just like that and she is 6 years old.
Do you think she might have known about that fact in some way before you even told her? I just remember going to a funeral for my sisters best friends mom who died of breast cancer when I was like 2 and I was aware of some type of mortality.
 

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Take a look at most child prodigies and how they are raised from the beginning
I feel children are EXTREMELY malleable
If you present them with Tellitubbies then they will emulate Tellitubbies
If you present them with GENIUS then they will emulate GENIUS(to the best of their capacity)

It's up to you as a parent to decide if you are birthing and breeding children for a reason
You could leave it to chance and have your childs be the life the life common to mankind(a bunch of codependent suckers)
Or you could raise a SOVEREIGN a fukking GAWD amongst mortals

If I do have children they will be everything I aspire to myself
I hope to look up to my youth and be confident in being lead by my youth cause I raised them right//////
 

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Do you think she might have known about that fact in some way before you even told her? I just remember going to a funeral for my sisters best friends mom who died of breast cancer when I was like 2 and I was aware of some type of mortality.
Yes. I should add that age 6 wasn't the first time I told her, I just mean that if she comes to me saying a friend's relative or something died I'm just very straight to the point..."Everyone dies we don't know when". I've just seen parents give these talks and start off with some shyt like "You know how on the ninja turtles when...". Like umm life is nothing like the ninja turtles, give them the real.
 

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Yes. I should add that age 6 wasn't the first time I told her, I just mean that if she comes to me saying a friend's relative or something died I'm just very straight to the point..."Everyone dies we don't know when". I've just seen parents give these talks and start off with some shyt like "You know how on the ninja turtles when...". Like umm life is nothing like the ninja turtles, give them the real.
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Yes life should be told as facts. All the other shyt I feel takes away your critical thinking skills leaving you prone to avoidable mistakes and being easily tricked and confused.
 
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