IS BEING IN SHAPE ONE OF THE BEST ICE BREAKERS?

[Hades]

I have noticed that women are willing to engage me way more than before now that I am in shape. Even get them chatting me up about nonsense and I know that wasn't happening before. Also more open to blind compliments.

In shape cats, does this hold weight or am I on some BS?

For reference:
I'll share an example. This is after I have been in shape for about a month now. I am in the optometrist's office getting my eyes checked. There is a female "learning" doctor putting me through the tests. After that she has to wait for the actual doctor to review her work etc. I am still not cool with them practicing on me, LOL. She is a cute Asian girl in her mid 20s.

As we wait for the real doctor, she starts chatting me up about Thanksgiving. Asking me if I know how to cook, what my favorite foods are etc. In that short 5 minute conversation, I knew where she went to medical school, how she felt about her program, where she grew up and her plans after school. I ain't ask her none of that. And she didn't mention that she was married although I has already peeped the ring.

I know that had that been me 7 months ago, from that time, no conversation would have taken place. I am still short and damn near blind getting chatted up by a doctor almost done with her residency because she see that I am physically fit. She was already open to talking based on my appearance. I can't change a lot but this is a great place to start.

 

[Koba St]

Yep.its a whole new world breh. I wonder why the fukk I didn't work out earlier and shyt just makes me angry but at least I'm making up for lost time now.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

who knows. all i know is i feel good working on being in shape

 

[Standing on business]

Yea

 

[AtomicUse]

I've noticed, but it's not always good looking women that give you attention. Sometimes it's ugly women, more often it's fat women, and even sometimes dudes who live an alternative lifestyle press you.
I feel bad for short dudes who lift weights, because it doesn't matter if they're buff/cut, they're still short and chicks pass them over.
The taller dudes get more looks from all spectrum ends.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Yes it is.

I busted my ass in the gym from 2011-2012 five days a week. Did yoga and aerobics and kickboxing too. For 42 weeks It paid off cause other than walking and skateboarding, I don't excercise as much as I used to and I still look fit.

But I did that shyt for MYSELF! First and foremost. The moment you do shyt for other people (especially women) you losing sight of what's really important. SELF-IMPROVEMENT.

The reason I did that? Well, due to taking Risperdone for depression/anxiety/BD I gained 60 pounds and felt sluggish. I'm more used to being kind of hyper and energetic. I did that to get back on my A game and to feel more like myself/.

IF women into that that's a bonus, but some of y'all nikkas need to do stuff for yourself and not for women.

 

[UncleTomFord15]

I lift for bodybuilding purposes, girls are just a side benefit of lifting.

 

[Standing on business]

I've noticed, but it's not always good looking women that give you attention. Sometimes it's ugly women, more often it's fat women, and even sometimes dudes who live an alternative lifestyle press you.
I feel bad for short dudes who lift weights, because it doesn't matter if they're buff/cut, they're still short and chicks pass them over.
The taller dudes get more looks from all spectrum ends.

How short we talking

 

[KOohbt]

Bout to hit this work out in a few.


Sloppy people

 

[Koba St]

How short we talking

It's the coli so probably 6ft or less

 

[Hades]

Yep.its a whole new world breh. I wonder why the fukk I didn't work out earlier and shyt just makes me angry but at least I'm making up for lost time now.

I don't think in that manner because I had to have that wake up call plus all the trial and error to find my system.

I've noticed, but it's not always good looking women that give you attention. Sometimes it's ugly women, more often it's fat women, and even sometimes dudes who live an alternative lifestyle press you.
I feel bad for short dudes who lift weights, because it doesn't matter if they're buff/cut, they're still short and chicks pass them over.
The taller dudes get more looks from all spectrum ends.

I am short so all I am doing is increasing my potential. Not every chick will pass on a dude because he is short.

Bout to hit this work out in a few.


Sloppy people

I can't hate as that was me a short 6 months ago. I rather give people what I did but I know many will not stick to it.

 

[Kwéyòl]

Yes it is.

I busted my ass in the gym from 2011-2012 five days a week. Did yoga and aerobics and kickboxing too. For 42 weeks It paid off cause other than walking and skateboarding, I don't excercise as much as I used to and I still look fit.

But I did that shyt for MYSELF! First and foremost. The moment you do shyt for other people (especially women) you losing sight of what's really important. SELF-IMPROVEMENT.

The reason I did that? Well, due to taking Risperdone for depression/anxiety/BD I gained 60 pounds and felt sluggish. I'm more used to being kind of hyper and energetic. I did that to get back on my A game and to feel more like myself/.

IF women into that that's a bonus, but some of y'all nikkas need to do stuff for yourself and not for women.

im starting to feel exactly like this a family member of mine passed and the way i coped was eating . The way i was 2 years ago i aint the same now . cant windmill infact barley touch rim anymore . aint the speed demon i used to be feels bad man.

 

[AtomicUse]

Yes it is.

I busted my ass in the gym from 2011-2012 five days a week. Did yoga and aerobics and kickboxing too. For 42 weeks It paid off cause other than walking and skateboarding, I don't excercise as much as I used to and I still look fit.

But I did that shyt for MYSELF! First and foremost. The moment you do shyt for other people (especially women) you losing sight of what's really important. SELF-IMPROVEMENT.

The reason I did that? Well, due to taking Risperdone for depression/anxiety/BD I gained 60 pounds and felt sluggish. I'm more used to being kind of hyper and energetic. I did that to get back on my A game and to feel more like myself/.

IF women into that that's a bonus, but some of y'all nikkas need to do stuff for yourself and not for women.

^This is one of the biggest crocks of shyt ever.

"I lift weights for myself"

No nikka, you don't.

nikkas work out so that when other men see them they respect them , and when women look at them they are attracted to them. If they didn't have to lift weights for either one of those things to happen, unless hey were a pro athlete of some sort, then they wouldn't. Like Chappelle said "if a man could fukk a woman in a cardboard box, he wouldn't buy a house" , same shyt goes for working out. They wouldn't be putting in work a the gym if broads were throwing the box at them if they were built like Pharrell. Our city CNA is damn near Kevin Hart height status but he's got an entire city shook , 6ft+ 200lb+ staffsmen running his errands and calling him sir, thanking him for his time, and got a harem of corporate chicks at his disposal, and dude doesn't look like he can dead lift 100lbs.

Dudes really need to stop with the "it's for me" bullshyt. That a false ideology. 99% do it for validation from other people, which affects how they feel about themselves. That's the real reason.

 

[Unknown Poster]

^This is one of the biggest crocks of shyt ever.

"I lift weights for myself"

You really think I'm reading the rest of this bullshyt after this?



All I had to do was see this to dismiss your opinion. Some of you coli nikkas is clowns. That have no individuality or do anything for themselves. Sorry you a sheep that ain't my fault nikka.

 

[Hades]

I'll share an example for reference. This is after I have been in shape for about a month now. I am in the optometrist's office getting my eyes checked. There is a female "learning" doctor putting my through the tests. After that she has to weight for the actual doctor to review her work etc. I am still not cool with them practicing on me, LOL. She is a cute Asian girl in her mid 20s.

As we wait for the real doctor, she starts chatting me up about Thanksgiving. Asking me if I know how to cook, what my favorite foods are etc. In that short 5 minute conversation, I knew where she went to medical school, how she felt about her program, where she grew up and her plans after school. I ain't ask her none of that. And she didn't mention that she was married although I has already peeped the ring.

I know that had that been me 7 months ago, from that time, no conversation would have taken place. I am still short and damn near blind getting chatted up by a doctor almost done with her residency because she see that I am physically fit. She was already open to talking based on my appearance. I can't change a lot but this is a great place to start.