Is dating in DC trash ladies ?!

[DaPresident]

The almost saying “loaded”

 

[MegaTronBomb!]

Black women ain't the beauty standard in Chocolate City?
in Chocolate City?
in Chocolate City?
Chocolate City?



Sidebar: why they sound like Cali chicks?
Sidebar 2: shout out to DC men for standing their ground and not paying the tab for them to stay.

That type of diction and cadence is typically of folks who are trying to give off an aura of sophistication....and just come off more as annoying than anything.

Them women clearly thought they were gonna game them dudes out of free food and drinks, and when it didn't happen there HAD to be something wrong with the men.

DC/DMV FWIW is a place where black folks of all walks of life typically don't have issues finding someone their speed....there may be more competition considering how small the region is area wise, but if you can't find someone, it's more a you thing...not them.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

So they basically expected to take advantage of tricks and found out otherwise

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

She's trying to position herself so that she's not talking to "dusties" I'm not mad at that. You want what you want.

But she doesn't understand what it takes to appeal to mid-high 6 figure white men in DC as a black woman.

"Just sit and be pretty" at a "high end hotel" - is not it. That actually screams prostitute tbh.

She's better off joining some Navy Yard Runners Collective...

Honestly their entire reason for being upset is so superficial that it doesn’t even require a deep dive into why they feel the way they feel.

They think just because they are attractive that means that every man that is around them is going to approach them and pay for their drinks, lol.

Honestly, this is a case of basically just… girl, get over yourself.

This isn’t even really about dating. It’s about their ego that got damaged because a guy wouldn’t pay for their tab.

 

[Wild self]

These women never stop complaining.....they have biggest options then ever before and they just can't it right. Be an adult, take responsibilty and get the qualifications for the man you want. they can do everything for the job they want but when it comes to a life long partner they just hope he comes out the blue

Tupac in a Business Suit standard never been more apparent especially the last 15 years. Reality TV and high budget hood shows like Power made these women delusional.

 

[Kufi]

Vocal fry?




I bet she is

Yup

 

[IVS]

Yup

All that damn makeup. She look like ATL Teddy lmfao

 

[MegaTronBomb!]

Yup

It's worth noting that she's trying to get in on the grift.

preach shameless transactional behavior to women attempting to date because it's guaranteed to bring them right back to square one.

This shyt is like the Fox News of dating....once they fall into the echo chamber, it's hard for them to get out.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

They want the same imagined option as white women in DC.

But they don't realize because of the types of work that people do here, white women in DC don't actually get that.

DC doesn't have that type of culture - especially if she's angling for the well to do Big Firm Lawyer, Consultant, Tech Guy, GS-15

Facts 100%.

Sistas overestimate how many options white women have.

WW either date down in looks for a more accomplished/successful man....or date up in looks and accept that Chad will either be a fuccboi or bum...at least what I see in Dallas.

Sistas tend to want above average looks AND above average achievement. Nothing wrong with wanting those things, but the competition for those men is fierce, especially if you're mostly dating brehs.

One thing I've always noticed is that most Black women eventually find the right man. He's usually her equal. Some ladies know what their level is...and some don't. If a woman is complaining about men, it's because she's not seeking men on her level. This applies to men too. Dudes be 5'9" and average but want to pull certified dimes out the club from straight cold approaches. Good luck

 

[WIA20XX]

 

[alpo]

When they say "we are not the beauty standard" in regards to dating usually it's a red flag she looking for white men.
Majority of black men like and date black women.

Then to add on why do you expect men to pay your tab? Stop gold digging and look for authentic connections. Women like this are part of why dating can suck at times.

They not even gold diggers.

That’s true form of begging

 

[alpo]

These women never stop complaining.....they have biggest options then ever before and they just can't it right. Be an adult, take responsibilty and get the qualifications for the man you want. they can do everything for the job they want but when it comes to a life long partner they just hope he comes out the blue

They really don’t. Women always underestimate the comp

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

Her page looks like some aspiring trad wife shyt lol

 

[WIA20XX]

Her page looks like some aspiring trad wife shyt lol

Trad Wife + Divestor = it's a winning combination.

Going back to that first video, I wonder what she meant by

"Black women are not the beauty standard"

Having a hard time "unpacking" that in light of all of her pics.

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

Trad Wife + Divestor = it's a winning combination.

Going back to that first video, I wonder what she meant by

"Black women are not the beauty standard"

Having a hard time "unpacking" that in light of all of her pics.

Yeah the picture is getting a lot of bit clearer.