Is Domestic violence men hitting women commen?

[Pseudonym]

He can try that shyt if he want to.




He don’t want that smoke from my brothers, uncles and Dad

Spoiler

id tell my boyfriends on him too

I’m not keeping shyt quiet

 

[Stuntone]

He can try that shyt if he want to.




He don’t want that smoke from my brothers, uncles and Dad

Spoiler

id tell my boyfriends on him too

Get your family marked brehettes

 

[Pseudonym]

Get your family marked brehettes

not my family ….

 

[Stuntone]

Domestic violence isn't nearly what it was in the 90s and before. Im from Louisiana, it was normal here. Even today, I don't see women here acting like they want to fight a man. We still will bat a bltch up. And her own mom would say, "why u run up on that man?"




I like that about Louisiana.

 

[Stuntone]

not my family ….

A lot of family members are 6ft deep for trying to defend a mouthy woman.

Where u from? Some men ain't taking no Ls.

 

[Geek Nasty]

His post fits within the definition of simping.

Asking a question with an obvious answer whilst feigning ignorance to play the role of someone who is so above it, he can't believe it happens.

Following it up with calling them weak to make him look strong in comparison.

The icing on the cake is asking for women of thecoli to chime in.

Text book simping. Always looking for ways to demonstrate that they're one of the good ones which is, in effect, prostrating themselves.

yep this is that Dr Phil level simping

 

[Pseudonym]

A lot of family members are 6ft deep for trying to defend a mouthy woman.

Where u from? Some men ain't taking no Ls.

I would like to think my husband ain’t no killer …but I also think he would never lay a hand on me. And why you think I’m mouthy? My husband is the leader and gets the final word.




…90% of the time



and I’m born and raised in Florida

 

[boriquaking]

His post ain’t got nothing to do with simping. You nikkas just be using words and don’t be knowing the real meaning

Yeah he is, dude is trying to stand out like cassanova.

 

[Geek Nasty]

My husband is the leader and gets the final word.




…90% of the time

 

[filial_piety]

Of course I don condone that fukk shyt but know to many women including my mom was once in a abusive relationship at one point.

So whats the deal? Is that shyt true? Are niggz that fukking weak they got to lay hands on a women? shyt is mad crazy thinking this shyt is happening all the time and we don't even know it


Women please chime in if you or somebody you know had this happen to you. Low key shyt makes me mad thinking about it

The quick and easy answer is YES
And I say that as someone who worked as a CPS (Child Protection) worker for about 6 years about a decade ago

It's way way more common that you could imagine. I had no idea it was as frequent as it was until I started working there.

Just to give you an idea...
If I worked about 10 allegations of child abuse cases a month....i'd say about 6 of them involved some type of DV between the parents.

NOW there were about 5 people in my unit...and each building had about 20+ units of 5 workers per unit...and this is one of a few dozen buildings in NYC...you can do the math to get an idea of how much that is...and that's just the documented and reported cases.

That shyt is real....and to keep it 100...i saw it most frequently in Hispanic/mexican homes...I had to get the Police and Family Court involved countless times to remove guys (legally) from the house.

And just for the record...young kids in the household are the most reliable truth tellers about it. Usually they were the ones who put me on to what was going on behind closed doors.

 

[WesCrook]

I believe for the most part that it consists of generally good dudes who got into a situation where they reacted the wrong way.

I don't believe it's a bunch of "Ike Turners" or "Punks who are afraid to hit a man" - types that they make it out to be. They're out there, but I don't think they account for the masses.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Probably.

Women are fukking annoying, and most men aren't patient enough to deal with that in a non-violent way.

Hell I'm the most compassionate dude I know and even I sometimes fantasize about going upside my girl's head when she brings that retarded nonsense energy into the house.

I don't, obviously, but it's easy for me to see how a less-restrained man would.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Thanks for the honesty. My wife years ago use to something similar but instead say" what you going do about it nothing "to my face.

I remember thinking at that moment if you were a dude you wouldn't be saying that shyt to me and I walked away. A lot as happend between me and her years later we split up and she got with a african cat who beat the brake off her she went though hell. Now we back together and everything is in check she is so humble and quiet and respectful crazy how life works

So basically that nikka did you a favor

 

[lib123]

It’s not rare at all, wtf.


To the op, yes it’s common. Yes I personally know women who have been physically abused by husbands and boyfriends. There’s also a high rate of domestic abuse for bw, just look up the stats.

Damn that's sad. Among the women you know, how long into the relationship did the physical abuse start? I'm sure there was a period at the beginning in many cases where there wasn't abuse.