It's hard to acknowledge what isn't there.
This was legit sad reading.. probably one of the most ignorant things you've said on here.. u sounding like lady Simone
Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?
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This was legit sad reading.. probably one of the most ignorant things you've said on here.. u sounding like lady Simone
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
Elle Driver
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Nope. The young lady clearly has emotionally issues and dislikes black men. Any black man that get's with her will be on an emotional roller coaster. This is what she wants
You're grasping at straws.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
Nope she's said it herself. I think it was a thread about fetishes in the Salon. I saw her post a picture similar to that. That is exactly what she wants. She wants to be the head honcho in charge. She is afraid to let a man lead. The idea of letting a black man lead drives her insane. She doesn't want a true patriarchy. She wants black men to be at her back and call.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
The thread was about the fetishes you have.....That is what she wants. She does not respect men, but most especially dislikes black men. We can have our disagreements and etc, but @bcrusaderw does not like a secure confident on point brother. She just wants a docile black man that will not question her thoughts or ideas.
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/what-fetishes-do-you-have.340527/
Elle Driver
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You're reaching. You clearly don't understand sarcasm. @bcrusaderw might not believe man is a leader and doesn't want that. You're reaching hard with the "she's afraid of a black man leading" and all that other shyt. And who gives a fukk anyway? That's her choice and her (future) household. Speaking of leaders and patriarchy, does the black household even have a leader at all?
That was a joke, you twit. I don't want patriarchy at all regardless of which color the male in charge is. I'm secure enough in my own capabilities that I don't need another person "leading" me. Perhaps that's what frustrates you so? You know you couldn't lead your way out of a paper bag. Do you have any thoughts that weren't given to you by others?
Docile yes. Unquestioning no. I don't dislike black men at all.
ciara is the one that tossed future to the curb
instead of trying to work it out with her baby father
secondly ciara knew future wasn't father/husband material he had 3 other baby mothers.
This is another disease in the black community, if a nikka didn't marry his first baby mom he wont marry you
Breh, you're expecting a human being with an underdeveloped mind to engage in deductive reasoning.
I think that's too much to ask of the average Black woman.
Fixed.Breh, you're expecting a human being with an underdeveloped mind to engage in deductive reasoning.
I think that's too much to ask of the average Black man.
if im buying a car and I have ten different options, but I don't do my due dilligence to do my research and test drive and inspect and I just say I want that one the shiny one with the leather seats but end up with a lemon whose fault it is?
The car for being a lemon, or me for not doing my due dilligence?
This is an excellent analogy and describes a lot of Black women who end us as single mothers.
They didn't do any homework on their purchase. Just copped it sight unseen!
Why was this bullshyt created by an agent brought in here? I'm ashamed to haven even participated in it
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
@bcrusaderw LOL are you saying that it is ok for a woman to treat her man like a dog? Isn't that abuse? So if a man puts a dog collar around his girls neck and treats her like a lapdog it's not abuse. So you're not going to call her out?
If a man say's that he wants this it would be called abuse
I've said on many occasions that America is running on hyperfeminism, especially in the black community. There are black women willingly having kids out of wedlock, shocked that the bum they chose for a father is non existent, and then raising the kid on their own. Then after getting their degree they go on and on about how they did it all by themselves. All of these boys being raised without a father running rampant in the community are MOSTLY raised by single mothers.
I still want to know why some of those same women go and have MORE kids out of wedlock.