Is going days with out contacting your girlfriend normal to men?

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I've done this with every chick I was in a relationship with. I don't want to be on the phone with her just for the sake of being on the phone.

This girl i talk to always call me or text me and i basically avoid her phone calls and text her back that i'm at work. i haven't talk to her in about 2 weeks and she keeps trying to get in contact with me.

@Marty Kaan it could be the fact like for me the chick ( you) could be boring in his eyes, u talk to damn much, u don't give him the sex he like, u don't cook, etc, etc.. That's why dudes don't really care if they call or not, cause they praying u stop calling all together
 

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No I don't mean u gotta cake on the phone with me every day but at least send a goodmorning text at least once a day.

I don't require much from a man...just love, consistency, and communication

I only hit her up if I got something to talk about. I never been on that good morning/good night text thing. That's just me though I'm sure I'm in the minority.
 

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This girl i talk to always call me or text me and i basically avoid her phone calls and text her back that i'm at work. i haven't talk to her in about 2 weeks and she keeps trying to get in contact with me.

@Marty Kaan it could be the fact like for me the chick ( you) could be boring in his eyes, u talk to damn much, u don't give him the sex he like, u don't cook, etc, etc.. That's why dudes don't really care if they call or not, cause they praying u stop calling all together
But I cook, give him great sex, he says that I'm the first woman he knows that actually is a hip hop fan, we have debates on rappers and convos about politics.
I'm outgoing... I have my own friends and I'm out here living life like a 23 yr old woman :manny:
 

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if your busy yeah
I think if you really wanted to do something, you will make time for it.

This girl i talk to always call me or text me and i basically avoid her phone calls and text her back that i'm at work. i haven't talk to her in about 2 weeks and she keeps trying to get in contact with me.

@Marty Kaan it could be the fact like for me the chick ( you) could be boring in his eyes, u talk to damn much, u don't give him the sex he like, u don't cook, etc, etc.. That's why dudes don't really care if they call or not, cause they praying u stop calling all together
Did you tell her this or are you just going to keep avoiding her?
 

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I only hit her up if I got something to talk about. I never been on that good morning/good night text thing. That's just me though I'm sure I'm in the minority.
First two weeks he called and text me everyday, we went out on dates every single day for 3 weeks! Now I'm lucky if I get a response :to:
 

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I think if you really wanted to do something, you will make time for it.

me personally, i dont mind talking everyday, if i have something to say i will but i have my days when i just want to watch stuff on my own or listen to music with no distraction
 
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