Is going out alone weird?

[Art Barr]

You always club and kick it alone.
It is the only way you gon have a one night stand consistently frfr.

Ride coupe's for dolo.



Art Barr

If you have issue with this.

That is why.
You not lothario.

 

[Art Barr]

I’ve never been to the club alone but I have always wanted to

You always go to the club for dolo.

Art Barr

If you got issue with this.
It is why you not lothario.

 

[old pig]

you’re creating the insecurity/weirdness

 

[Rawtid]

No company is better than bad company.

 

[Lootpack]

Do you mean like, going outside?

Of course not.

The club might be weird though.

Ain’t nothing weird about going out to the club alone. Now if you’re there looking predatory is a whole other thing, but some of my best times out have been when I’ve gone out solo. It’s all about having fun with it and the more you do it, the less fukks you give about what others think.

 

[King Poetic]

Until I got in a serious relationship 4 years ago , I was traveling alone and going to basketball ball games, football games and lounges alone..

for me it was fun…

 

[Lootpack]

Eating out alone, going to the movies alone, and going to the club alone are things you just don't do because you look like a lonely person which in itself is embarrassing.

This ain’t middle school, man. Folks don’t really give a fukk about whether you’re doing anything alone like that. Sounds like an internal issue rather than an external one.

 

[Noriega]

Going to Panama solo next month for 11 days

“You not bringing your shorty?” Nope

“None of your guys?” Nope

nothing wrong with doing shyt solo. Albeit, going to a club solo is kinda weird.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

This ain’t middle school, man. Folks don’t really give a fukk about whether you’re doing anything alone like that. Sounds like an internal issue rather than an external one.

Why go to the movies alone when you can just rent the damm movie on your TV and stream it? I dont drink so I would never go to a bar alone either.

 

[re'up]

Too many variables, it won't work for everyone, but if you go out alone, someone will always hit on you, or something close enough to that. It's happened to me numerous times. I didn't even realize it was happening when I was younger. Never force it, like going out to meet people, just let it happen.

I'll bring a book to an upscale place and just chill, order half the menu, nobody's going to look at me funny.

I went on most of the trips I took alone, Paris, London, Spain, Punta De Mita,

 

[Weaver31]

I wouldn't say it's weird but constantly going out alone to places like clubs does make it seem like u don't have enough friends and social circles/networks.

Most people will look at u funny if u constantly do that and ask if u have sufficient social life.

Now with eating out...it's nothing weird to eat alone especially with the pandemy. But I would eat at the bar or go to a fast casual spot instead of a restaurant and eating at a big table.

It's good to be around good company doing things u enjoy but I repeat make sure ur around GOOD company. Don't entertain those who make ur life a living hell or at least be with those who can bring peace to ur life.

 

[Lord Bison]

One thing I like to do alone is get baked in the parking lot of the movie theatres

Then go inside and buy some candy, nachos and a beer and go watch a movie alone

Only for early bird showings because I like the theatre to myself

That shyt goated for real. Real talk that's an underrated appreciation of rolling dolo at times. Last time I went to the movies I went at 10 AM on a monday, got blazed af in the parking lot and sat up at the top row with me and 2 other ppl in the entire theater.

 

[FunkDoc1112]

it's not that uncommon. i see people alone at bars/restaurants and don't think twice about it.

people could be travelling by themselves for something/eating on their lunch break/whatever the fukk. not everything has to be a social outing.

that being said, don't waste your time or money on that bartender breh. her job is to flirt with you, but you ain't gonna get nothing from her besides lighter pockets.

edit: I can't believe I wasted my 50,000th post on another Rozay Oro pity party

Or completely new to a city and don't know anybody.

 

[FunkDoc1112]

mixed with social anxiety and narcissism


breh not the only one scared to go out by himself though, a lot of people got that phobia of looking like a loser if they go somewhere alone/just have a need of being codependent at all times.

the problem is the OP doesn't listen when people tell him it's fine or give him advice

Lowkey I think living in New York City is a good thing for anxiety - ain't NOBODY in this city worried about what the next person doing unless you draw attention to yourself. As an overthinker, that shyt sets me at ease.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

Lowkey I think living in New York City is a good thing for anxiety - ain't NOBODY in this city worried about what the next person doing unless you draw attention to yourself. As an overthinker, that shyt sets me at ease.

I started doing things alone more often after I moved to NYC. Movies and concerts mainly.