Is having separate beds in a marriage in a way

[Mr.Raider]

why does it matter?

Cause you're speaking like someone who hasn't had much experience in the matter.

 

[Shameonyou]

Cause you're speaking like someone who hasn't had much experience in the matter.

great insight

 

[Anothergirl]

great insight

he's right tho...if your bed is big enough you aren't "all up under esch other"...

 

[DarlingNikki]

No. If you love someone their snoring and other "annoyances" are easy to put up with. Personally I can deal with anything except sweating, so if its hot and he wants to cuddle that can be an issue, not big enough to have a separate room though..

 

[Shameonyou]

he's right tho...if your bed is big enough you aren't "all up under esch other"...

um no because ur not taking in the account of how big one individual would be, and how much movement they do while asleep....i've experienced shyt like that before hence why I made the thread....

 

[Mr.Raider]

Stop trying to sleep with someone in anything less than a queen if you're fat, or a king if you're both fat.

 

[Shameonyou]

ok so whats so wrong about sleeping in two separate beds? the difference of opinion is intriguing

 

[Danie84]

Are people really living like the old Leave It To Beaver cacs

 

[Fckumeen]

Maybe if they're married and separated. If you're happily married I don't see why you would want to have separate beds unless you have problems. (ie: snoring, piss the bed, etc).. Needing space is BS because their are big beds out there.

 

[Sierra Mist]

Yeah it is. That's usually signs things won't work out. We sleep together no matter what.

 

[SuikodenII]

The novelty of being in a marriage eventually wears off if you're in it for a long time, you don't have to do the traditional things anymore cause you both know where you stand, good or bad

Now for marriages that are relatively new, it does look weird from the outside and I would feel a certain way if my WIFE did not want to share a bed with me.

Some married couples have separate rooms just to avoid "burnout"

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

at least its separate rooms in the same home, and their being cordial with themselves

 

[the mechanic]

I know old people do that .....back in the day the women werent so clingy and needy of attention b..your grandparents could give each other space and it was cool


if try that shyt on these new age broads .......Youll find some nikes you dont recognize outside her bedroom door one day..

 

[concise]

The best option is clearly a bunk bed in the same room.
Man on top, of course.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

And separate homes too