Is He A "Simp" Or A "Real Man?"

[Citi Trends]

it shouldn't matter who your woman was with prior if again she shows she is loyal and worthy

obviously people enjoy loyalty when its given to them, that doesnt always make it a good thing though.

it definitely matters who she was with before if she was being loyal to the wrong kind of nikkas ie the child molester nikka

a simple look into his past, who he was with before etc could have prevented that situation. also i wouldnt want a woman who was loyal to a nikka like that

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

As a MAN I am secure in my ability to please my woman regardless of who she was with. Some of you cats get off on judging women based on ridiculous expectations like your king shyt out here.

Personally imo it shouldn't matter who your woman was with prior if again she shows she is loyal and worthy. You missed that part entirely. We all got past breh. Grow up on that shyt. It was before she met you.....either boss up or leave her alone, you to childish to be with her.....

And I opposed the belief of you goofy nikkas completely dismissing the child molesters actions and hop scotching in efforts to shyt on the woman because she didn't know the dude she was dating was a fukking murder/pedophile.

I respect your views, however I’m completely on the other side of the spectrum with this.

You say everybody has a past, I’m confident you’ve heard the phrase from George Santanya

“ he who doesn't learn from history is doomed to repeat it”.

You say it’s insecurities, I’m saying it’s being smart.

 

[neph27]

I would not be mad at my girl for fukkin cyn santana I'd be jealous

 

[NoChillJones]

First, Eric Mena does not represent the average woman being a public figure with a very public past for any future partner to interpret.

Second, hypersexuality and loyalty are more than likely negative correlated.

That said, I do agree obsessing about bodycount is dumb because generally you will never know the truth and most people aren't out here like that.

Some people overcome their past but you're an idiot if you think the past doesn't matter or isn't a barometer of a person's character

And that woman knew.....you just hate accountability and love to pander

Breh most women were hypersexual, thats just reality out here. Hoes are just as promiscuous as men are, if not more. Yet there are PLENTY of loyal women who are married.....they just grew up, or in some cases met the right man.

And sure the past matters, if they are a serial killer, or used to set up dudes to get robbed....that might be pertinent shyt to know......but if the person again shows LOYALTY AND WORTH for years on end.......then at that point you have to give trust. But most people who think like you never get that far cause you so busy judging possible good women based on shallow belief systems........its call insecurities my dude........

And who knows if she knew or didn't. It makes it easier for you to pander to your own beliefs to believe that women are so scandalous that that woman knowingly left a her child with a child molester all to say she had a man......I mean that's the depressing ass shyt you be on nikka.......Im good........too much going on in the world for me to automatically assume some shyt like that. .......and you didn't answer my question either breh.

 

[NoChillJones]

I respect your views, however I’m completely on the other side of the spectrum with this.

You say everybody has a past, I’m confident you’ve heard the phrase from George Santanya

“ he who doesn't learn from history is doomed to repeat it”.

You say it’s insecurities, I’m saying it’s being smart.

Don't know who George Santanya is but I don't fukk with the double standard. Whats good for the goose. More importantly its playing games......that aint what a relationship is about. But Im grown and married.......I guess though......to each its own.....its just one man's opinion

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

Simp.... Noble response from the homie but his efforts are futile. Guess he thinks some of the nggas (simps) she dealt with prior didn't share his same sentiment.... Hoes gonna hoe...it's in their DNA. Male or female if the right opportunity presents itself...so why bet on somethin if it aint a sure thing... Simps out here playin russian roulette.

 

[Poitier]

But most people who think like you never get that far cause you so busy judging possible good women based on shallow belief systems........its call insecurities my dude........

I don't think about women's body counts unless undeniable evidence is put forth so wtf are you rambling about and assuming?
I wouldn't want a woman who was ok with dating hypersexual men either so there is no double standard.

Breh most women were hypersexual

Hypersexuality is indiscriminately sleeping with anything plus deviant non-heterosexual behaviors. Most women are not hypersexual breh

But you got it

 

[Aceofspades404]

I don’t like the term ran through because it’s very misogynistic. That being said, I really don’t get you guys. She’s in her 30s and you can round out to 10 ppl you know for a fact she slept with, all that other stuff is he say she say, so how is that in itself a reason to call her a hoe?

But, I have watched her on love and hip hop and she’s a very trashy woman that has character issues. She has slept with a married man as well as others to remain relevant and climb up the ladder. She has displayed erratic behavior and has a toxic personality. All these things are more important than simply how many partners she had.

All in all, water rises to its own level and he isn’t a prize.

 

[No Hook]

He a simp not cuz of her body count but her behavior/personality overall. You hit that, not wife it. She a bird but he a male bird so they go together for now until they beefin.

She might have that snapper

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Simp no discussion

he tour isn't over

Everyone has bodies but there's levels. Being a pro and all that is loose boundaries you community p*ssy for life. habits don't die like that.

 

[Poitier]

But, I have watched her on love and hip hop and she’s a very trashy woman that has character issues. She has slept with a married man as well as others to remain relevant and climb up the ladder. She has displayed erratic behavior and has a toxic personality. All these things are more important than simply how many partners she had.

I came across this because it went viral from women celebrating dude like he was in his right mind and an example to follow.

You don't think her toxic personality isn't tied to her hypersexuality? Show me all of these well adjusted hypersexual people.

You letting a bisexual nikka who seems to hop from partner to partner at a whim cuff you? Thats the male equivalent of Eric Mena.

I think dudes are too paranoid and obsessive with calling women hoes but Erica Mena isn't your average woman when it comes to sexuality.

 

[151_Pr00f]

Wouldn't call him a simp yet... Could be a short term thing for him right now, he's just playing a role.

If he starts talking marriage down the line then yeah that's grade A USDA simpery

 

[MaxPain]

Well...Idk him so I cant say

Shes a hoe...point blank...

Theres a certain way u handle a hoe and stay de attached to a certain degree...

If he knows how to handle a hoe... meaning u getting something out of it whether it be clout, money, or building a business together then so be it...u also gotta keep a hoe in check more than ur average woman...so if he can do that and acknowledges shes a hoe then aye...think of dudes with stripper girlfriends, an up n coming rapper dating a kardashian, someone dating one of these L & HH chicks etc...

Getting p*ssy from a hoe means nothing when everyone else got p*ssy from her...so to go above and beyond u need to be getting something out of it..

But if hes a square like the majority of men...he doesnt know what hes doing & HONESTLY expects her to stay faithful ...then yeah hes a simp picking up leftovers...


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[MJ Truth]

The real question is why does anybody who ISN'T fukking her giving a fukk about who she has or hasn't fukked already.

The guy who commented "She been around the block" is a clown.

 

[AAKing23]

Erica Mena