Is He A "Simp" Or A "Real Man?"

[MoeDollaZ$]

Let them live there's no rules in life. There not hurting anyone

 

[ill_will82]

I don’t like the term ran through because it’s very misogynistic. That being said, I really don’t get you guys. She’s in her 30s and you can round out to 10 ppl you know for a fact she slept with, all that other stuff is he say she say, so how is that in itself a reason to call her a hoe?

But, I have watched her on love and hip hop and she’s a very trashy woman that has character issues. She has slept with a married man as well as others to remain relevant and climb up the ladder. She has displayed erratic behavior and has a toxic personality. All these things are more important than simply how many partners she had.

All in all, water rises to its own level and he isn’t a prize.

Although, in dealing with people in general (everyday folk) asking someone their body count is a joke. I've said this before in other threads... Do you expect said person to tell the actual truth about a body count? Why worry about what a person did in the past that had nothing to do with you?

I think the only reason this is a topic because the woman involved is a reality TV celebrity and has been involved in the spotlight at one time or another due to the people she's been involved with being in the same circles (entertainment industry) so it's easier for ppl to cast judgment or express opinions. I will say they though, I wouldn't mess with a woman if I knew she was a hoe or had a document past of hoe behavior (like fukking multiple nikkas on tape/porn star).

 

[Aceofspades404]

Being a virgin doesnt say anything about the type of person u are... u said this right? I spoke on that comment, correct? i gave examples of different acts that can also speak on what type of person you are...
But ok

So if you met a virgin and she confessed to you that she uses men for free meals and gifts, lies and deceives people to get her way, is malicious and conniving, you would say she has character? That is my point, it’s not the end all to be all.

Give up man...dont even quote a woman on this subject...she doesnt care what a man has to choose from and dont expect her to....anyone whose dealt with whores know u either gotta keep ya foot on their neck or just not deal with them at all outside sex...old heads told us and its true..

This makes no sense. If I am a woman, why wouldn’t I care about what a man has to choose from? Most men don’t want a whore but they don’t want a virgin either so this whole argument about virginity is dishonest and laughable. Men don’t truly care about a woman’s character and they don’t tie body count to character unless that woman is a whore which is why I brought it up. This is all coming from a virgin by the way.

 

[Poitier]

Men don’t truly care about a woman’s character

 

[Draje]

I can't imagine giving a fukk about a dude defending his right to date an escort.

This site grows more like LSA each day except LSA is a tad more hypocritical

 

[Lamar Givens]

We are talking about body count and you brought up your virgin wife and proverbs 31. Those two things aren’t synonymous but the fact that you brought them both up shows you put more importance on a woman’s “purity” than her character. It’s probably some type of projection on your part since you feel so dirty due to your past.

No.

I fell in love with my wife’s character first.

Her being a virgin and not having emotional, spiritual, relational and sexual baggage was a greater gift because she didn’t reveal her virginity until she was already invested in me spiritually and emotionally.

Furthermore I have a daughter now and I know the importance of teaching her to keep her legs closed because the average man does not want a woman with emotional and spiritual baggage from a woman whose been “Tossed Up”

Furthermore a woman’s sexual past says A LOT about her character and decision making

 

[Poitier]

I can't imagine giving a fukk about a dude defending his right to date an escort.

This site grows more like LSA each day except LSA is a tad more hypocritical

You should have gave a fukk when you impregnated that refrigerator built mexican out of self-hate

 

[Lamar Givens]

It's funny tho because you were once a whore and believed you deserved a virgin.

Granted, you got one (so you say) but you're just as much a hypocrite.

No. You’ve got it all wrong.

I met and tried to make it work with females that had emotional baggage and relational scars and it just didn’t work out no matter how bad I tried to move past their issues.

When I met my wife I had no idea about her being a virgin and I assumed she had a few sexual partners herself. It wasn’t until later that she revealed she was a virgin. I had made up in my mind I was wifing her just off the strength of her personality and selflessness towards me regardless.

Furthermore I’m not a hypocrite because I’ve had plenty of virgins tell me they did not want me because of the number of partners I’ve had and I respected their feelings.

I don’t yell fellas find you a Proverbs 31 woman on these boards for the hell of it

There is a reason why I’m always saying it and advocate it for any brehs whose looking for a wife

 

[Aceofspades404]

They don’t, no amount of smilies can change that

 

[Standing on business]

Tough call on this situation.


He shouldn't have responded to that though

 

[paperbag]

So the females are in here saying men should wife hoes

Where did we say that?

 

[Benefited]

Who tf are you? God nikka.,.


She should have shame.

I can't.

She did wtf she wanted to do. The end. Men always wanna run around and call a woman a hoe but be quick to slide with that same "hoe."

Not liking hoes is one thing...:

But you really sitting up here writing how a hoe should repent. If you don't get this goofy as shyt out here.

When y'all gone let grown folks be.

I'm not here to cosign unnatural behavior of whoreish women to make you feel better. Your right, its not mens place to run around and call women ho's,its YOUR job as a woman and women as a whole. But instead too many of you women would rather sit up here and be a ho advocate?

Since you women are not on your job,and are not willing to tell women how to conduct themselves as women naturally should. Men are forced to step in and tell them,probably making innacurate and akward assumptions and not having proper empathy along the way. But whats the other option when you women are all to happy allowing the females of our community to be ho's under the guise "they are grown"? As if you are too clueless to realize the young girls of the community follow the example set by the grown women?

Any woman who is taking too many dikks is likely not completely sane,is already hurt,lacks confidence,lacks self esteem and is reckless. Why shouldn't I warn men,and tell them you shouldn't want anybody who doesn't care about themselves standing next to them? Its dangerous for the man.

If a woman is a ho and hasn't repented or showed shame for her past,that man needs to run. Men only need to stay close to the female ho's in they family to try to steer them right,and even that can be dangerous,but its what you do for family.

 

[King Poetic]

I don't know why nikkas have to go on social media and spread the news he love hoes

If she just a fling for 60 day free trial then cool

If he looking to lock her up long time he's a Got Damn fool..

But hey!! hope them a happy STD relationship

 

[Benefited]

No. You’ve got it all wrong.

I met and tried to make it work with females that had emotional baggage and relational scars and it just didn’t work out no matter how bad I tried to move past their issues.

When I met my wife I had no idea about her being a virgin and I assumed she had a few sexual partners herself. It wasn’t until later that she revealed she was a virgin. I had made up in my mind I was wifing her just off the strength of her personality and selflessness towards me regardless.

Furthermore I’m not a hypocrite because I’ve had plenty of virgins tell me they did not want me because of the number of partners I’ve had and I respected their feelings.

I don’t yell fellas find you a Proverbs 31 woman on these boards for the hell of it

There is a reason why I’m always saying it and advocate it for any brehs whose looking for a wife

15She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants.
16 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17 She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.
18She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.
19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:
29 “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.”
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.

 

[ProlificLurker]

The issue in America is that sluts dont want to be called sluts. This aint the middle east, aint nobody gonna stone you for being a slut. Men and women both like sex so it is what it is.

Nothing wrong with being a slut, but own it so at least then men can have the information they need to decide if they want to be with you.

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I wouldn’t call him a simp cuz I don’t his history. Maybe he got a high body count too


I will say that this union seem doomed to fail though she dont seem stable.

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