Is He A "Simp" Or A "Real Man?"

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Ok so you say men truly care about a woman’s character, go ahead and list the traits.
You too @Poitier @The Wave

Kind-Hearted
Consistent
Family Oriented
Intellectually Challenging
Ambitious
Self-Secure
etc,etc


Oh and not a thot

I don't ask anything that I don't ask of myself.
These are the things I look for in a wife.

My goal is to be engaged by the end of the year
 

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Ok so you say men truly care about a woman’s character, go ahead and list the traits.
You too @Poitier @The Wave
Smart, educated, family oriented,good hyigene habits / keeps a clean space, cooks, reads books, follows politics, a constant learner, ambitious, has their own career, physically fit, doesn't eat garbage, can cook,knows how to dress(when necessary), keep her hair neat(no weaves),limited make up,supportive of their partner, shows empathy, is humble about life...



Is all this necessary no but there certain deal breakers:
Like education, being fit, being ambitious, humble, empathy,reads books, selfless with their partner(doesnt mean dont have a backbone, but we are a team, being selfish and looking out for yourself will get you cut, because i dont roll like that)
 
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Ok so you say men truly care about a woman’s character, go ahead and list the traits.
You too @Poitier @The Wave

Loyal, understanding, witty, maternal, self-aware, accountable, passionate, cooperative, ambitious, dependable, goofy, laid back, a lil weird, a lil sassy, pro black, stylish

A pretty shell without the right mental aptitude and personality does little for me.
 
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Well...Idk him so I cant say

Shes a hoe...point blank...

Theres a certain way u handle a hoe and stay de attached to a certain degree...

If he knows how to handle a hoe... meaning u getting something out of it whether it be clout, money, or building a business together then so be it...u also gotta keep a hoe in check more than ur average woman...so if he can do that and acknowledges shes a hoe then aye...think of dudes with stripper girlfriends, an up n coming rapper dating a kardashian, someone dating one of these L & HH chicks etc...

Getting p*ssy from a hoe means nothing when everyone else got p*ssy from her...so to go above and beyond u need to be getting something out of it..

But if hes a square like the majority of men...he doesnt know what hes doing & HONESTLY expects her to stay faithful :mjlol:...then yeah hes a simp picking up leftovers...


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Loyal, understanding, witty, maternal, self-aware, accountable, passionate, cooperative, ambitious, dependable, goofy, laid back, a lil weird, a lil sassy, pro black

A pretty shell without the right mental aptitude and personality does little for me.
Exactly, this is why i suggest women develop themselves more, I've come across countless pretty women, where we just dont mesh because we distant interests.

I care about knowledge, laws, government, healthcare, science, owning a business, fine dining etc.....

Their interests are l&hh and stunting on the gram.....

shyt that has no baring on life. A pretty face and body has little value to me after i bust my nut, now what is priceless is being with someone that's what listed in a previous post.
 

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Ok so you say men truly care about a woman’s character, go ahead and list the traits.
You too @Poitier @The Wave

A woman's character matter a lot. I live in a city full of attractive woman (Atlanta) but some of these fine women are down right corrupted. Only idiots cuff a woman just on looks. Looks will fade.
 

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Kind-Hearted
Consistent
Family Oriented
Intellectually Challenging
Ambitious
Self-Secure
etc,etc


Oh and not a thot

I don't ask anything that I don't ask of myself.
These are the things I look for in a wife.

My goal is to be engaged by the end of the year

Smart, educated, family oriented,good hyigene habits / keeps a clean space, cooks, reads books, follows politics, a constant learner, ambitious, has their own career, physically fit, doesn't eat garbage, can cook,knows how to dress(when necessary), keep her hair neat(no weaves),limited make up,supportive of their partner, shows empathy, is humble about life...



Is all this necessary no but there certain deal breakers:
Like education, being fit, being ambitious, humble, empathy,reads books, selfless with their partner(doesnt mean dont have a backbone, but we are a team, being selfish and looking out for yourself will get you cut, because i dont roll like that)

Loyal, understanding, witty, maternal, self-aware, accountable, passionate, cooperative, ambitious, dependable, goofy, laid back, a lil weird, a lil sassy, pro black, stylish

A pretty shell without the right mental aptitude and personality does little for me.
We're really arguing two different things and I’m not going back and forth any more...
 
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