Is He A "Simp" Or A "Real Man?"

[Serious]

Because “wifey status” is prized.

I hear ya, but for me and most men I talk to, marriage is a big thing.

Personally I'm only trying get married once, and when I have kids I want them to have a certain type of mother(no fukkery). Vetting candidates is serious business, so rushing to get engaged / married ain't ideal, because people can put on a front about who they truly are during the honeymoon phase of a relationship. That's all I'm saying.

Vetting for compatibility should take precedence over rushing to get married, to stunt on single women and being praised as a worthy woman by societies standards.

 

[Elle Driver]

I hear ya, but for me and most men I talk to, marriage is a big thing.

Personally I'm only trying get married once, and when I have kids I want them to have a certain type of mother(no fukkery). Vetting candidates is serious business, so rushing to get engaged / married ain't ideal, because people can put on a front about who they truly are during the honeymoon phase of a relationship. That's all I'm saying.

Vetting for compatibility should take precedence over rushing to get married, to stunt on single women and being praised as a worthy woman by societies standards.

Yeah but it’s nikkas out here with baby mamas. They not vetting like you do.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

You know it's bad when CTK is talking about simps and red flags

An unworthy woman is an unworthy woman. I have no problem calling a spade a spade.... nikkas just take the shyt to extreme for daps.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I think there is a healthy medium between a virgin and "very experienced"

High key I think a lot of brehs are scared of women with sexual experience because they don't think they can measure up to dudes from her past. "If she is virgin then I will be the best she ever had and she will never want anyone else "

 

[Bobby Lashleys eyebrows]

I should know better than to post in the lockerroom... should be called the salon.

You ole bytch you

 

[NoChillJones]

I am in a relationship since you asked.
I would expect a woman who was out here ho'ing to have some type of regrets,not bragging about their sexual exploits that make them seem like a ho. Shows how little they value their reputation,and probably won't value yours. She hasn't evolved past that level yet if she doesn't show remorse vocally or through her actions,and she is still in play.

Not speaking on your wife btw,far as I can tell a few nikkas might have just trained her right,and you are equating sex skills with being a ho. I question whether you are qualified to give advice to men on this. First of all you say you are an afficianado,well how many men out here do you think are aficianados when dealing with ho's based on the current state of our community and what you see in general. So why are you giving dangerous aficianado advice out ,without a kids don't try this at home disclaimer?

You can't even offer advice as to how to find out if an "experienced" woman has actually put her past behind her?Because you only seem to have stumbled accross the information on your wife. If your going to involve yourself with a former ho,assuming her past is her past. There should be some sort of hard line questioning to find out what had her out there in the first place,what made her stop,does she regret it etc? But if you don't care about your wifes potential hidden pain thats not my business. Hopefully she doesn't start to act out based on unresolved issues.


At the bolded,oh boy

Oh you would expect.........good to know she wasn't "trained" probably. Suppose I should purchase a bag of Scooby snacks and get to work teaching her how to fetch and sit properly as well

Listen dude I'm not buying you're in a relationship because it would have to be a real airhead low self esteem ain t about shyt woman that would choose to subject themselves to the retardation that you are talking about right now. And to be honest I just don't think there is a woman dumb enough to do it.....

I bet you think this is game you are dropping. nikka you are not a pimp. This whole wanna be mack bullshyt you dropping is not only bout the most ignorant shyt I've seen on this entire thread but also the most eye rolling comical shyt I've read as well.

I never claimed I was an aficionado...I stated that men who know how to deal with women.... typically won't get played because they will be able to determine whether to dive in BASED ON CHARACTER of the person they are with. And this goes both ways. If a woman is currently sleeping around with a lot of men while they are dating is one thing entirely different then her having a promiscuous past.

But we talking real life and you talking some imaginary pimp novel you read online...once you hit 30 you would be hard pressed to find a woman who isn't matching your own body count. But if this is one if your requirements in life for when you actually do find a bytch dumb enough to allow you (of all nikkas) to "train" her then you will be lonely a long fukking time breh...cause aint no real woman putting up with that clown shyt.

You want advice...go into relationships with a real goal if you find that special one. Stop listening to nikkas like OP who is probably in his mid 30s still believing in high school shyt playing gender wars and still having high school arguments with his partners about dumb shyt like Facebook logins and phone passwords....also avoid nikkas like Benefited who are boarder line insecure where were you...why you didn't call me..who was you with...why was you talking to him...women beating weirdo ass nikkas who always think women are one step away from cheating on them.....

 

[mag357]

I think there is a healthy medium between a virgin and "very experienced"

High key I think a lot of brehs are scared of women with sexual experience because they don't think they can measure up to dudes from her past. "If she is virgin then I will be the best she ever had and she will never want anyone else "

The thing that i wanna say about the sexual experience part is this.... most guys i know like Hoes... I think most of us Like hoes... we wanna fukk Hoes.
I dnt care if ur a hardline HOH GMB nikka or a sucka... we wanna be wit hoes...
So the part about dudes being insecure about fukking hoes doesn't really fit...
Its jus That some of us dont want our names, finances, hearts... emotions, whatever attatched to hoes. or females we think are unworthy of being wife'd..
The crazy thing is that even women know its not a good thing to have a high body count.,This is why they lie about it. Dont wanna answer the "how many dudes u been wit question" and shame other bytches for being loose... smh

 

[Costanza]

You ole bytch you

weak gif usage

 

[paperbag]

We can tell because you do not understand cognitively that which you speak.


Art Barr

Insulting me because i dont have children basically proves my point

 

[Art Barr]

Insulting me because i dont have children basically proves my point

you not even cognitive about why you out of order.
where not having kids is a disconnect to that rather easily.


Art Barr

 

[Blackout]

There's very little consequence for whoreish woman coming from men either. They still get relationships and attention. So another woman isnt going to see it as her place to call them out cause she will just be labled jealous or a hater.

If you all are going to wife up single mothers and prominsuos women, even ex sex workers, how can i tell a young girl thats the wrong path. There are zero consequences

Wrong

Most of those women only get short term relationships and the wrong kind of attention and end up with playas, dangerous men and/or get used and abused and have kids that they have to raise alone

I always wondered why y’all dont help out other and younger women with the right game and this delusion explains it all.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Simps fail because they think they can own the p*ssy. You can't own it, only rent it..