Is it a man's responsibility to initiate dates w/ gf

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!t a!nt that, when she wants to do someth!n she always wants me to dec!de for her.... id come to her house w!t dvds, wed watch movies & do our thang... ! was cool but she wanted to go to a theatre but never ment!oned !t.. once she d!d, we went... !t was that s!mple... shes chef mater!al & can cook sh!t ! never heard of tell!n me to dec!de d!nner, really.... we go out a lot now cause she knows !m cool w!t ch!ll!n at home so shell br!ng up other stuff & ! be l!ke lets do !t...

Well as long as your happy. :manny:
 

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like I said, the more you nikkas post, the more I realize you nikkas are extremely effeminate.

so bas!cally youre say!n noth!n repeatedly, got !t cause that dont descr!be my post in the slightest.... care to elaborate for me?????
 

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Do those accusing the thread starter of wanting to be a women even half s/others???

It's cool being the man and dictating where to go and when to go out. But if a dude is not in the mood to go anywhere dont turn around and say "why dont we ever go out?" unless you have a suggestion. Me for instance, I'm perfectly fine sitting at home and just chilling on the couch, feeling on my girls booty, and eating Doritos while watching sports or tv.

If a dude suggests something out of the blue, dont say, "Nah" without even trying it out. If a dude asks where you wanna eat, do not say it doesnt matter and then refuse places he suggests or try to act all mad and ruin everyones experience by sulking when you end up in a place you dont really like. Shut the fukk up, and live happily with the decisions that the man makes, !!!!

If you wanna speak up, do it so that the guy has an idea of an activity that can make both parties happy; not when its too late for a change to be made
 
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so bas!cally youre say!n noth!n repeatedly, got !t cause that dont descr!be my post in the slightest.... care to elaborate for me?????

the very definition of manhood is the capacity for leadership over his wife and children. some of yall can't even decide what's for dinner. Glad I didn't marry some tippy toed p*ssy footed wavering negro :whew:
 

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the very definition of manhood is the capacity for leadership over his wife and children. some of yall can't even decide what's for dinner. Glad I didn't marry some tippy toed p*ssy footed wavering negro :whew:

thats your op!n!on manhood !s only a word, not a lifestyle, sorry but theres no such th!ng as a "real man"... !ve heard th!s bullsh!t from so many d!fferent people & they got d!fferent !deas, !ts a fukk!n preference, there !s no constant.... my ch!ck !s a chef level cook, !m not... so ! should have her make the same sh!t !nstead of br!ng!n me someth!n new cause !m a man.... "real man" !snt !gnorant AND stup!d... she can stay Gawd of the kitchen...

when she l!ke !ma make you such & such, m!xed w!t the blah,blah, blah herbs, & some s!des of th!s, that & whatever homemade, but on the gr!ll so the flavors m!x better... ! dont be l!ke !m a man ! dec!de whats for d!nner :birdman:.... ! be l!ke, :ohhh: :whoo::blessed::salute: when ! f!n!sh that plate...
 

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Do those accusing the thread starter of wanting to be a women even half s/others???

It's cool being the man and dictating where to go and when to go out. But if a dude is not in the mood to go anywhere dont turn around and say "why dont we ever go out?" unless you have a suggestion. Me for instance, I'm perfectly fine sitting at home and just chilling on the couch, feeling on my girls booty, and eating Doritos while watching sports or tv.

If a dude suggests something out of the blue, dont say, "Nah" without even trying it out. If a dude asks where you wanna eat, do not say it doesnt matter and then refuse places he suggests or try to act all mad and ruin everyones experience by sulking when you end up in a place you dont really like. Shut the fukk up, and live happily with the decisions that the man makes, !!!!

If you wanna speak up, do it so that the guy has an idea of an activity that can make both parties happy; not when its too late for a change to be made

I gotta gf, and she always says the same thing, you lead I follow. Personally I've never met a women who didn't fall in line and say you lead I'll follow.

Plus we got nikkas on here making threads talking bout why women won't approach them, why women won't initiate sex, why women won't ask men to marry em. There were even some gay ass threads on sohh talking bout they wish they knew what it felt like to have an orgasm as a woman and that men are more naturally attractive than women are. I'm waiting for these fakkits to come out and just say why is it women are the ones that gotta get penetrated.

There are some straight up sodomites on this site.
 

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I don't. With this guy, whoever suggests going out -- picks where we are going and pays. We take turns. I rarely let him pay for me because it's a pride thing but I'm down for whatever. I don't have time to wait for him to make a decision.

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I've been working since I'm 15, I don't even let my mom for bills and stuff when we go out. In the end, we're putting in equal work and effort so it doesn't matter to me :manny:



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I agree. Haven't come across many females that adhere to that sort of philosophy, though. Regardless, I'm a, 6'2, high yellow, broke but(:usure:) handsome college student with ruby red lips, broad shoulders, and above average intelligence. I'll settle for the buffet at Golden Corral and make you feel special for the night, breh. Hook me up. :whoo:
 

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ideally, both should be involved and i feel like both will be involved if there's good chemistry between the both of you. but, initially, men should probably take the lead on arranging dates. it shows a little decisiveness command over the situation; headship. so that's why i feel like if one person is responsible for arranging shyt like dates, it's probably an awkward relationship. both parties should be thinking about how they want to share and spend time which each other...
 

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be a fukking man nikkas, ol I dont want to take charge ass nikkas
 

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I'll initiate most of the time, but it would be nice to see some creativity and brain power coming from her too.
 
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