Is it a myth that side pieces believe they can become the main?

[blues_funk_reggae]

Most of the time it starts when they confide in one of their girlfriends. Then that girlfriend starts putting shyt in her head:

You better than that.
You deserve more.
Why you still giving him box?
His wife ain't shyt.

etc etc..

Then they starting believing that they can move up on the totem pole. And when they don't get that, they start acting up. They start showing up unannounced to certain places. They start looking to get caught, start threating with exposure, etc etc.

 

[mattw1313]

that's not a myth, that's common knowledge, and I've seen it up close many times

 

[Sauce Dab]

Of course side pieces become mains. Don’t always happen but it happens. Side piece is usually more loyal and supportive anyway. She’s dumber too

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

I keep hearing the scenario, from time to time, that women will entertain being the side piece in hopes of knocking off the main..

Besides that being stupid, I have a bigger issue.. Why would a man take a woman seriously who seen him cheat on his main? Thats really stupid.

Toe curling sex can do some mysterious shyt to the brain. It can make both men and women make stupid decisions. You've been warned.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Toe curling sex can do some mysterious shyt to the brain. It can make both men and women make stupid decisions. You've been warned.

I never said you had to stop messing with her, just never make her the main. How you making a girl who don't already trust you from the start your main? How do you trust a girl making choices like that? Y'all playing out here.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Most of the time it starts when they confide in one of their girlfriends. Then that girlfriend starts putting shyt in her head:

You better than that.
You deserve more.
Why you still giving him box?
His wife ain't shyt.

etc etc..

Then they starting believing that they can move up on the totem pole. And when they don't get that, they start acting up. They start showing up unannounced to certain places. They start looking to get caught, start threating with exposure, etc etc.

Shyt, why a breh want a woman who folds under the pressure of her girlfriends?? Bytch will let her girlfriends break up ya relationship too.

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

Shyt, why a breh want a woman who folds under the pressure of her girlfriends?? Bytch will let her girlfriends break up ya relationship too.

Personally, I don't do the "roster" shyt...but my advice would be to have short term "side chicks" to avoid feelings being caught.
Women love giving each other bad advice to keep each other single.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Personally, I don't do the "roster" shyt...but my advice would be to have short term "side chicks" to avoid feelings being caught.
Women love giving each other bad advice to keep each other single.

This is fine.. Im just saying don't make the side chick your main..

 

[Braman]

Just like we wouldn’t do things that didn’t actually work, sidechicks ain’t layin in the cut for no reason. Sidechicks wear nggas down all the time

I recently got on ig and saw a bunch of folk from college ….I promise like half the dudes who were married, dudes who were players in college, they were married to chicks who were side chicks in school . The ‘home girl’

At the end of the day nggas are usually weak when a woman is doing all them good things. Cook, clean, etc. It might take a while but some willing to stick around. I have homies who only left the game bc they lost they hairline…and they just wifed the chick who was their most reliable. Deadass