Is it better to date Average looking women because Beautiful Women can't be trusted?

[MikelArteta]

Good looking guys don't want to compete with good looking girls in the relationship. Thus men who are good looking tend to date down so they can be pampered.

I wouldn't date a chick that looks better than me, I want to be the catch in the relationship.

ive dated girls hotter than me

i still controlled the relationship, because they thought i was attractive, like i always say you never know never sell yourself short

 

[Mowgli]

its hardly ever real cuz hes all about her looks
and if she had better choices she wouldnt be with him

i know somebody who look like akon who lets this lightskin girll walk all over him, just to walk around and be like yo thats mine
she made him wait like 4/3 years before she went out with him and while she puts his picture up on social media sometimes and claims him rarely shorty real embarrased by dude, and isnt affectionate but everybody know thats his girl and he does everything for her its sad man. And i know alot of girls that waited around for the pretty boy that smashed her out to settle down and when she got played ended up with the random ugly nikka, it happens alot.
Both of them living a bullshyt reality but she baddd tho
nikkas dont even care tbh lol

Yea. Sad shyt. Alot of bruhs get completely disarmed in the presence of a dime, they're feeling. Not every beautiful woman will make you feel some type of way, but the ones that do will have you acting out of character. In any cases, you can only hope the feeling is mutual and you have the balls to know what its never going to be a mutual feeling.

 

[010101]

y'all scared of being alone?¿?¿?¿

let her go
tell her leave the door open for the next joint or whenever she desires to double back for dikk*

 

[TRY GOD]

many men and women have like the "power structure"

ala they date below their looks or what they can get so their partner is into them more than they are into their partner thus they control the relationship in their mind.

a girl will think wow this guy is giving me a chance, and will do any and everything to please him and be with him, because she knows he can get like the hottest girl

a guy will be like wow this beautiful girl is giving me a chance, whatever she wants I'll do i just can't lose her, i'll never get a girl like this again.

not saying all, because whats fine to one person may not be another, those guys may have legit thought you were drop dead gorgeous

EXACTLY this isis why I say get an average chick cause you can throw her in the bushes when you are done.


Lets be reality, no average person is ever going to throw Amber rose or Boris Kodjoe in the bushes no matter how bad their personality is

 

[Chrishaune]

If you're scared, say you're scared......

 

[MikelArteta]

EXACTLY this isis why I say get an average chick cause you can throw her in the bushes when you are done.


Lets be reality, no average person is ever going to throw Amber rose or Boris Kodjoe in the bushes no matter how bad their personality is

dont be a average person

women can only hold her beauty, sex, and a emotional connection over you

once you beat those you'll never lose

I've cut the cord with hot women who disrespected me before and never looked back, but like I said I got that immunity early in life.

If you can walk way from one hot woman you can walk away from any.


whats hard is if you never had a hot woman then you finally get one

 

[Raye82]

There are some average women who will give you AIDS and have nasty attitudes. Everybody is an individual, it just depends on that individual .

 

[TRY GOD]

If you're scared, say you're scared......

 

[Mowgli]

EXACTLY this isis why I say get an average chick cause you can throw her in the bushes when you are done.


Lets be reality, no average person is ever going to throw Amber rose or Boris Kodjoe in the bushes no matter how bad their personality is

If you're only using the girl for sex,

Why would you fill this need with a average looking woman.

When you decide to settle down and its with some slumpbuster, you're going to have that need deep down to still lay with them diems that escaped you.

Now if the issue is just you being nervous about not being able to control your emotions, thats really a personal problem.

 

[MikelArteta]

Our Elders warned us years ago

 

[ZEupTWN]

Beautiful bytches will always be told they have options

 

[Aceofspades404]

many men and women have like the "power structure"

ala they date below their looks or what they can get so their partner is into them more than they are into their partner thus they control the relationship in their mind.

a girl will think wow this guy is giving me a chance, and will do any and everything to please him and be with him, because she knows he can get like the hottest girl

a guy will be like wow this beautiful girl is giving me a chance, whatever she wants I'll do i just can't lose her, i'll never get a girl like this again.

not saying all, because whats fine to one person may not be another, those guys may have legit thought you were drop dead gorgeous

Good looking guys don't want to compete with good looking girls in the relationship. Thus men who are good looking tend to date down so they can be pampered.

I wouldn't date a chick that looks better than me, I want to be the catch in the relationship.

But most of these guys were athletes though and I went to an SEC power house. I guess where it gets confusing and kinda plays on my self esteem a bit is when I come on here, I see the threads and the woman in them and comments on how beautiful they are and I know I'm no where near that but in real life I have good looking athletes who want to date me when they could have someone more beautiful. I don't know what to think. Is it me down playing my looks or it's just the guys who want me just want an average woman b/c of the stereotypes of beautiful woman but I wouldn't want that to be the case b/c I don't want a guy who thinks I'm just average.
Shyts stressful

 

[TRY GOD]

If you're only using the girl for sex,

Why would you fill this need with a average looking woman.

When you decide to settle down and its with some slumpbuster, you're going to have that need deep down to still lay with them diems that escaped you.

Me personally, I don't care for looks, I'm kind of weird in that regard.

In fact, I find looks to be the LEAST ATTRACTIVE thing about women, I am immediately turned off by Hot women, Thats why yo never see me participate in any of these hot women threads on this forum.

If we are talking about first impressions I'm a guy that goes from the hips/ass up to the face instead of face down. If the size don't fit the outline in my mind im not interested off gate.

I also like finding things that give average women character. I've always liked Homely looking and sometimes rough faced women. Beautiful/cute faced chicks is the same boring sameness every time. where on the other hand it's like finding something new about average chicks to get you into them on some "Oh snap you got a mole behind your ear?



I guess thats why I made this topic. Why don't I like what every other regular man likes? Maybe deep down It is a deep distrust of fine women

 

[Chrishaune]

Beautiful bytches will always be told they have options

dap + rep


If a breh is scared to have dudes try to spit to your lady, then he better just stop talking to women now. All of them will occasionally to frequently have somebody try to test the waters.

 

[MikelArteta]

But most of these guys were athletes though and I went to an SEC power house. I guess where it gets confusing and kinda plays on my self esteem a bit is when I come on here, I see the threads and the woman in them and comments on how beautiful they are and I know I'm no where near that but in real life I have good looking athletes who want to date me when they could have someone more beautiful. I don't know what to think. Is it me down playing my looks or it's just the guys who want me just want an average woman b/c of the stereotypes of beautiful woman but I wouldn't want that to be the case b/c I don't want a guy who thinks I'm just average.
Shyts stressful

you never know, I always stress to everyone you may think your a 5, someone you think is a 10 thinks they are a 5 and that you are a 10, its the beauty of life never sell yourself short.

And always look at yourself as the prize, never compare yourself to anyone else.
A man(woman) who loves themselves has no rivals. Seeking validation from anyone else will have your self esteem like a see saw going up and down up and down.

You never know who will find you attractive. I don't think I'm all that, yet I've dated gorgeous women who thought I was attractive, hell the last women I was with, was a model. Yet she thought I was attractive, you never know who will like you.

You always see like men say my wife /girl si the most beautiful women ever and they mean it even though you may look at her and see some type broad.

Same with women who say my dude is so sexy and all you see is some sam cassell looking breh

All that matters is to be yourself and be confident in your skin and morals, dont change them for anyone. Not everyone will like you in life, you can be sexy to one dude and ugly as hell to the next, someone may take your kindness for weakness, your confidence for arrogance.