Is it considered cheating for your girlfriend to give men her IG?

[BurstWicks]

Ur story is kinda bugged from the beginning bro bro...

Yall shouldnt be in relationships anyway.

For what?
U like looking at different bytches... be single

And ur shorty likes girls too?


That's just somebody u have fun with...never take seriously

You prolly right, it was one of those situations where we were basically fukkin everyday for a few months and its like well we may as well just be a couple...and to be fair she was never like that... she was cool as fukk and didnt care about anything and she was talkin about she was down for threesomes so im like yeah lets do it. And i thought it was understood that we not getting married or anything we just young people hangin with each other.




Nah. it took around 6 months for her to become ultra-possessive... the threesome shyt was ducktales.. if i even mentioned it she would start crying. She'll start crying if i go out at night without her. This bytch had a tirade because i let some female newhire at the job we worked read one of her books that she forgot she even had. I cant even watch a female streamer on twitch without this bytch asking me 'would you fukk her??'

You live and you learn though, its a shame that was a 3 year lesson, but better late then never right? Wouldnt give it back either, yeah i hated her ass but i also learned alot about myself in having to navigate her neurosis. What i like, what i dont like, what i expect from my SO... what your SO will expect from you in general... shyt like that.

 

[BurstWicks]

He said “whenever she see a girl on my timeline I just met...” which means he was adding women he actually met IRL and then sneaking off while his girl is sleep to like their pictures. That’s suspect as fukk.

How you gonna agree that just telling men your IG handle is cheating but then call his girl insecure? That’s way worse.

I would’ve broken up with him. You coming home drunk to like girls you know IG pics instead of waking me up and fukking me?

No no, it wasnt that i was sneaking off to like their pictures... she's mad that im even looking at them period... like or no like. She considered it to be cheating to give another girl my ig and then to follow her, regardless of what happens after the follow. (perfectly answered the thread on this one )


And thats just the thing. thats EXACTLY what i wanna do when i come home drunk....usually the first thing i would do when i get home is slip her panties off and put my face between her legs but she managed to even fukk that up. "So youre horny cause you were rubbing your dikk against some whores ass and NOW you wanna fukk me?"

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Breh thats exactly what i said in the followup email. Its like that night made me realize i was fukkin with a corny bytch, cause a bad bytch wouldnt move like this.. And i subconsciously extricated myself from her by calling her ugly, knowin it wasnt gunna go down well but i aint care



Ya know, if my ex posted on the thecoli, this is exactly the sort of thing she would say. I did everything i could to try to get her lookin fly, I would buy her the latest fashion nova dresses..jeans that fit right.. try to instruct her how to dance on key so she wouldnt look goofy when we went out etc.. and this is after she asked me what she could do to make me happy... its not like i was trying to exact some standard of beauty on her against her will. And to be honest, i was moderately succesful, on a normal day shes a 5... but when she dressed up using my suggestions she jumped up to a 7....she even had a cute lil redbone hittin on her trying to get a threesome going that night (didnt happen, ex wasnt about that life)


But she started chaffing after a while, one time she started bawling crying in the middle of the club because her dress was too long and she couldnt dance right () And after that i just let it go. Towards the end, if i ever even implied that she wear makeup she would go on a rant about how "she hates looking good for guys" and "she doesnt need it."

So you hate looking good for me, but you also hate that i like to look at girls who do?


Girls are a trip man i tell you

His post comes off as so superficial and controlling breh

 

[BurstWicks]

His post comes off as so superficial and controlling breh

It's 2020, this is a superficial age we're living in. You want a nikka that makes more than minimum wage right? Cool, i got that part covered. I want a bytch that has a certain amount of sex appeal. You holdin up your end?

 

[mag357]

You prolly right, it was one of those situations where we were basically fukkin everyday for a few months and its like well we may as well just be a couple...and to be fair she was never like that... she was cool as fukk and didnt care about anything and she was talkin about she was down for threesomes so im like yeah lets do it. And i thought it was understood that we not getting married or anything we just young people hangin with each other.




Nah. it took around 6 months for her to become ultra-possessive... the threesome shyt was ducktales.. if i even mentioned it she would start crying. She'll start crying if i go out at night without her. This bytch had a tirade because i let some female newhire at the job we worked read one of her books that she forgot she even had. I cant even watch a female streamer on twitch without this bytch asking me 'would you fukk her??'

You live and you learn though, its a shame that was a 3 year lesson, but better late then never right? Wouldnt give it back either, yeah i hated her ass but i also learned alot about myself in having to navigate her neurosis. What i like, what i dont like, what i expect from my SO... what your SO will expect from you in general... shyt like that.

I fux wit ur honesty...
I can tell ur probly a bit young.

Dont get into any relationships bruh.
Have fun til ur done...

 

[colicolicoli]

Lol i confronted her and and shes kinda pissed fukk it

Lol my group chat was split on this which is why I made the thread. We could all understand where she was coming from cause were women and understand how much followers and likes mean to certain ppl and how it can be considered still a curve.

We flipped the script on her and asked her if it was ok for him to give his IG to women that were interested in him. She danced around it lol

If your girl is using the “I just want more followers” excuse, tell her that having more followers shouldn’t be more important than your feelings.

If she goes the “safe curve” route, either tell her to create a fake number (google voice) or give men your number (I do this)

good luck!

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

If that’s the case, then I’d be very guilty of cheating too because I can generally sense when a woman has interest and I’m not bothered by sharing my Instagram with them.

I believe it’s what normal people call “trust”

only difference is I feel like men actively pursue women, women are slightly more indirect but just as transparent once you’ve been in the situation enough times

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

It's 2020, this is a superficial age we're living in. You want a nikka that makes more than minimum wage right? Cool, i got that part covered. I want a bytch that has a certain amount of sex appeal. You holdin up your end?

You dated a woman you discribed as a 5. That sir is the equivalent to minimum wage. So idk why you even made that comparison.

Your girl was obviously someone you thought was minimally attractive and you tried to dress her up and project what you think is attractive onto her. Can't you get a woman who you actually find attractive?

And I don't reduced people to looks and money. That's you.

 

[MajesticLion]

Illusions of control.

 

[BigE214]

Chicks lie about not having social media like they do about having a BF.

If a chick gives a niggga her IG then she plans on seeing him again in some capacity. Now rather it's when you mess up or when she feels like cheating is to be determined....

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Lol my group chat was split on this which is why I made the thread. We could all understand where she was coming from cause were women and understand how much followers and likes mean to certain ppl and how it can be considered still a curve.

We flipped the script on her and asked her if it was ok for him to give his IG to women that were interested in him. She danced around it lol

If your girl is using the “I just want more followers” excuse, tell her that having more followers shouldn’t be more important than your feelings.

If she goes the “safe curve” route, either tell her to create a fake number (google voice) or give men your number (I do this)

good luck!

I asked her how she has so many followers with a private profile and a small circle of friends. She basically said she didnt know and didnt know why it was a big deal she said she doesnt give her username out. I said it didnt add up

I uninstalled snap and ig it was pissing me off fukk it

 

[-DMP-]

Not outright cheating but definitely borderline/ foul.

everybody know IG is valid as a line of communication and can be used in case you need some back up peen/puss.

 

[BossmanChad]

Nah, but giving her number is a massive red flag.

 

[BurstWicks]

You dated a woman you discribed as a 5. That sir is the equivalent to minimum wage. So idk why you even made that comparison.

Your girl was obviously someone you thought was minimally attractive and you tried to dress her up and project what you think is attractive onto her. Can't you get a woman who you actually find attractive?

And I don't reduced people to looks and money. That's you.

Well lets be 100% honest here, most of these hoes are 5's when they take the make up off. I did say she jumped up to a 7 when she had the works... you know, fake lashes... brows done, a tight please fukk me dress. Most girls you dont have to tell to always look their best they just do it... but she, a plain faced girl with not much swag, started boycotting make up half way thru the relationship on some dumb feminist shyt, and for that she gets a 5. Under normal circumstances she would be a 7 though, ya know, not a bad catch.

And even still, if 5's are the equivalent of minimum wage... then i guess 4's are the equivalent of being unemployed? 3 is being in debt? 2 being homeless? whats a 1? The equivalent of being a paraplegic eunuch? Nah that cant be right, cause you got 4's out here saying they dont date nikkas under 5'8 or nikkas that don't drive. What would you say Lizzo is? I'd give that big bitty a 2... but i guaran god damn tee she wouldnt be dating no homeless nikkas, and would find it stupid to do so.


Lol okay, so you would date a 5'2 unemployed nikka with a 1 1/2 inch cock and missing the upper row of his teeth if his heart was in the right place?

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

No but it opens up the pathway for cheating. That mfer Gonna hover until y’all breakup