Is it fake to apologize for something you said while angry?

[ScoopNScore]

It's fake if you apologize and do the same thing again another time

 

[Supreme365]

Apologies are only acceptable to me if it’s clearly a mistake. Like bumping into someone walking or spilling their drink


U cant fukk my bytch
Steal from me
Shoot me
Snitch on me

and then say my bad. No motherfukker. You know what u did.

Someone can realize their faults after committing an offense, the apology is a sign of remorse and a step towards amends.

 

[Silkk]

Stand on that shyt.

 

[Umoja]

Nah, it isn't fake.

Anger has a way of giving you tunnel vision. There is some shyt you can you can say in the moment that isn't reflective of how you balance the bad with the good.

I do think things said in anger can point towards things that should be discussed and there are things "I'm sorry" can't fix.

 

[hatealot]

nikkas need to learn to sincerely apologize more often . Alot of men have died because they standing on some shyt they did while emotional when deep down inside they putting up a front to appear tough.

But when they get murdered or violated they wished they would of just talked it out.

I'm talking sincere apologizes now.

 

[MischievousMonkey]

I mean, even if you meant it, you can regret saying it and hurting the other person's feelings. So, it's not really hypocrite.

Now if you garnish your apology with stuff like "I didn't mean it", you're just lying.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

To answer op, no. It’s only fake when the apology isn’t genuine. Way too many people are too prideful, egotistical, and immature to simply apologize. It shows a lack of emotional depth and wisdom when someone can’t apologize.

You can sincerely apologize until the cows come home
But words cut far deeper than you believe
A person can accept your apology after a violation
But what you don’t realize is even if they accept it
It’s in the short term
Men can sometimes get past hurtful words with running the fade and putting brotherhood over petty offenses
But saying hurtful shyt to a woman
No matter if you did or didn’t mean it
Trust blood, she will think about that shyt until one of you dies or breaks up
They may not verbalize it(and this goes for men too) but when they are alone
It still haunts them
It has nothing to do with being emotionally intelligent or harnessing your emotions
That’s great if you have master control over your emotions
And can verbalize your fukk up in a crisp, precise manner of true contrition
But that doesn’t mean the offended party will be so accepting in the end
You have to be cognizant of that and present in mind of the outcome even in true apologies
Even though I’ve had fights with my friends which I consider my brothers til death
Some of those words still seat with me
I just don’t say shyt
Just like words from my girl and mother, etc
Yeah I accepted the apology but to bring my statement full circle
Sometimes that shyt cuts deeper than they thought
And I’ve had all the counseling in the world and I don’t dwell on it everyday
And I assume the same for them
But those moments of silence
shyt hit different
People forget the human psyche is fragile as shyt
I respect you more if you stand on it
Then both parties can mutually decide how to maneuver around the situation
Apologizing is a disarming tactic most of the time to abscond accountability
Sincerely-Vaguely-In between

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

I mean dont apologize if you still feel like whatever you said. Unless it's your girl or mother

 

[Meowth tote da Uzi]

One day my ex was punching down on me for being a "heathen" talking recklessly about how my mother raised me. So i quickly reminded her that SHE was the one who was fukkING since she was 12 and SHE was the one who had to get an abortion at 14, Not me. So if anyone's mama raised a damn heathen it was hers. She fell back, and i never apologized because 1 I was right and 2 AINT NO APOLOGIZING after that. Words that cut that deep you have to stand on and raise your fist.

 

[Rhapscallion Démone]

nikkas need to learn to sincerely apologize more often .

How do you sincerely apologize for something said sincerely in an argument? And I'm talking about something based in truth like the example @Based Mamba provided

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I tell them, "I meant every word of what I said... in the moment. That moment has passed for me. If it hasn't passed for you, then I understand and we don't have to reconcile."

 

[Umoja]

One day my ex was punching down on me for being a "heathen" talking recklessly about how my mother raised me. So i quickly reminded her that SHE was the one who was fukkING since she was 12 and SHE was the one who had to get an abortion at 14, Not me. So if anyone's mama raised a damn heathen it was hers. She fell back, and i never apologized because 1 I was right and 2 AINT NO APOLOGIZING after that. Words that cut that deep you have to stand on and raise your fist.

Left hook to the body, left hook the temple, followed by a right cross on the chin.

 

[Mowgli]

It's not what you say it's how you say it so yes if you came across a little to aggressive with truth when you would otherwise give it to them with love you should apologize.

Example.
You have a promiscuous friend for relative and you call them a whore or a loser who will never find a wife/husband in anger

Vs
Explaining to them respectfully how their choices are hurting their chances of finding the type of relationship they want.


nikkas are mean though so what can you do. Apologies go a long way and some folks enjoy drama and feeling empowered by having you in your feelings from the giver or reciever side.

 

[mattw1313]

you should apologize for being such an emotional little fakkit you only told the truth when you got mad




an apology in that scenario doesn't have to be fake though. sometimes people say shyt in anger that they really don't mean, just looking for a response or wanting to hurt the other person. in which case, a sincere apology and some self-examination is warranted

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

Yeah, easier said than done. And people who say shyt like “control your emotions” to make themselves appear emotionless are some of the most emotional people out there

I disagree but im just speaking for myself. I honestly don't see the point of getting upset over other peoples words.

But im not emotionless either. I cry at least once a month for good or bad reasons, I find it healthy. That and im pretty much a open book and im honest with people..