Chrishaune
Veteran
I don't know, but you more than likely can't trust them....
The love of money is the root of all manner of evil
The love of money is the root of all manner of evil

Think your looking at it through your culture.
But the truly powerful and money hungry dont rock chains, expensive loud clothes.
There front on they opps be through multi billion dollar acquisitions and manipulating governments. NExt level shyt
Naw they do wear expensive clothes. Just not big azz labels. And their flex is huge yachts.Think your looking at it through your culture.
But the truly powerful and money hungry dont rock chains, expensive loud clothes.
There front on they opps be through multi billion dollar acquisitions and manipulating governments. NExt level shyt
nikka said well groomedI agree hella jewellery is feminine
But dark arts, to attract women you gotta think like them.
Jewellery
Fashionable
Loud colours
Well groomed
That’s the jig. Breaking news
eh....I would posit that your ideas around masculinity and feminity are a bit inadequate and actually a bit flipped.
masculine energy projects itself out.
feminine energy is yielding.
"peacocking', which is what you're describing, by definition, projects out to attract.
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and it just so happens, peacocks are only males.
the male species of all mammals 'peacock' to 1) identify their sex and 2) attract the female sex.
look at male lions and their manes.
male elephants and their tusk.
bucks and their antlers.
rooster and their tails.
female mammals either don't have these features at all or they are minimized.
that is the natural order in patriarchal societies.
only in feminist backed matriarchal societies are the female sex encouraged to outshine their male counterparts and are regularly "attention seeking" because they seek to occupy the position of men.
so then the question becomes, is your issue with men who are like this born out of insecurities around your inability to "out project" them and, as a consequence, not attract a higher quality mate in a traditional society?
in any effect, if I were to agree that a fixation on such things can be a bit metrosexualish, i would also posit that you reframe your ideas around masculinity from being 'acts' or performances to 'traits'.
masculinity to me is not only an energy that projects out, it's also....
work ethic
discipline
duty and obligation
commitment
sacrifice
faithfulness
being 100% all in
humility
respecting authority
virtuousness
courageousness
stabilty (emotionally and otherwise)
we black men have been measuring masculinity through a flimsy, uncritical, unserious lens which explains why the levels of real masculinity are incredibly low in many of our communities.



