Is It Me? or Does It Not Pay To Be Nice To People?

[Dog Based Gremlin]

Is there a thin line between being nice and being a pushover?

Im not really talking about with dating but with distant family members who always want something or a favor but then dont remember your birthday or call on xmas?

Or with inconsiderate neighbors yet youre really nice and courteous to them.

Situations like that.

And if you are labeled a pushover, can you ever get out of it?

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

It's not just you.

 

[Arabial Knight]

It ain't just you. Being nice makes me feel good. If it didn't, I wouldn't do it because motherfukkers sure ain't nice to me

 

[J-Nice]

People are opportunists. If they see a chance to get over on someone, then they will do it and rationalize to themselves why it was the right thing to do.

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

it's helped me be someone people like to work with at work, but other than that i don't know. then again i dont know what kind of payment i'm supposed to expect from other people

it's like poster above said, i do it cause it makes me feel good. but yeah dont be a pushover and don't do it if it causes u dissatisfaction

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Is there a thin line between being nice and being a pushover?

Im not really talking about with dating but with distant family members who always want something or a favor but then dont remember your birthday or call on xmas?

Or with inconsiderate neighbors yet youre really nice and courteous to them.

Situations like that.

And if you are labeled a pushover, can you ever get out of it?

Being kind is something you learn and becomes something that is just in you. Its a form of selflessness and some people have it to a greater and lesser degree. Being not nice has a heavy price to pay, and requires an individual to be completely self reliant because when the chips are down for someone that isnt nice, few people will be there to pick you up.

Its so demonic, friend.

 

[Dank Hill]

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Being kind is something you learn and becomes something that is just in you. Its a form of selflessness and some people have it to a greater and lesser degree. Being not nice has a heavy price to pay, and requires an individual to be completely self reliant because when the chips are down for someone that isnt nice, few people will be there to pick you up.

Its so demonic, friend.

These days even when you are usually nice and always around to help people, when youre down on luck or in need of assistance there are very few people who will be there for you.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

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These days even when you are usually nice and always around to help people, when youre down on luck or in need of assistance there are very few people who will be there for you.

By that logic, imagine how many people will be there if you act like demonic filth? Lets not allow the demonic realm to squeeze the good out of us, friend. This lifestyle ends with a survival of the fittest society where you see someone fall and just act like they're part of the scenery.

Its so demonic, friend.

 

[Dank Hill]

By that logic, imagine how many people will be there if you act like demonic filth? Lets not allow the demonic realm to squeeze the good out of us, friend. This lifestyle ends with a survival of the fittest society where you see someone fall and just act like they're part of the scenery.

Its so demonic, friend.

Either way, good or bad, unless people see opportunity in you or believe that they can gain something from you most people will not be there for you when you're down on your chips.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Either way, good or bad, unless people see opportunity in you or believe that they can gain something from you most people will not be there for you when you're down on your chips.

Thats not my reality, but then again, i dont surround myself with demons. I think this is an issue with people that have demonic peers and then expect them to turn into angles when the chips are down.

 

[Mr.Black]

fukk no, nice guys dont get no p*ssy,they get hugs and thank yous

its easier to be hated than to be loved anyway

 

[Bender Rodriguez]

fukk all that bs, people will always look out for themselves, certain things yeah you be nice and do for strangers, majority of things, foh, if they had the chance they wouldnt lift their foot of your neck

 

[Bay Area]

There is a difference between being nice and letting people walk over you. No one likes a miserable person that is mad at the world 24/7.

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

There's a thin line... so your line must also be thin breh... don't be afraid of being nice to people... but don't be scared to tell a motherfukka off either... and smack'em if you have to.