Is It Me? or Does It Not Pay To Be Nice To People?

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This has been my #1 problem my whole life. I had a. Gf who I was crazy about dump me because I was too nice. I've changed a lot since then but even still I'll have moments when I'll look out for someone and get messed over. I gave a co-worker 30 bucks to catch a cab cuz I didn't have my car. She said she'll pay me back tomorrow, she kept telling me she forgot, and than she quit :comeon: Which mean I prolly threw away 30 bucks. That shyt gave me a big flash back of my life.
 

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U make more money being an a$$hole and treating people like shyt. ie hold people accountable while telling them they and their momma aint shyt and hire mexicans and save money on labor
 

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Whenever I went to the malls or somewhere semi crowded, I would intentionally move out of the way when someone and I were walking towards each other.
You know, just to be nice.
But then I thought to myself that I was being too nice to strangers.


Now I don't give a fukk.
Either folks move out of my way or they'll get knocked out of my way.
I damn near walk right through people.

Chicks.
Dudes.
It doesn't matter.


Except if they're kids or the elderly.
 

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I'm extremely nice...I don't get taken advantage of. In fact, I think me being nice has helped me get ahead, especially in the past couple years where I've consciously tried to become more of a nice person. Hell, I'm even getting more girls.

I'm not sure where this nice guys finish last stuff comes from, because for me, being nice has never been of detriment.
 

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Gotta know when to do it. Some people, you can and they will rate you higly and always remember the act. For some people, let them burn in agony :demonic:
 

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it's helped me be someone people like to work with at work, but other than that i don't know. then again i dont know what kind of payment i'm supposed to expect from other people

it's like poster above said, i do it cause it makes me feel good. but yeah dont be a pushover and don't do it if it causes u dissatisfaction


Yeah it makes me feel good until I notice a little weasel mufuka tryna take advantage of a nikka like I don't see what they doin:childplease:.....its really nothing that makes me more angry:pachaha:...u basically tellin me you think ima sucka now cuz I did u a couple favors,so now u gon ask me for shyt nonstop like im ya mama or daddy...or sumbody who got the nerve to get made cuz you did them a favor a couple times then cant do it or don't want to on the third:camby:...you better off doin nice shyt for strangers so that way they wont be around for you to realize they aint shyt and disappoint you:snoop:
 

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Thats not my reality, but then again, i dont surround myself with demons. I think this is an issue with people that have demonic peers and then expect them to turn into angles when the chips are down.

Friend, please don't use this logic in suggesting the breh @bdirty has demonic associates :sitdown:
 
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